Sex workers are sex gurus?

[lenny]

"On the topic of sex advice, Ross is a great advocate of going straight to the professionals.
Although she understands that it may not be a popular notion, she insists that no one could
have a better perspective on and understanding of sex than sex-industry workers like
prostitutes and strippers."

" "I look to them as the sex professionals, and yet they are spurned, and judged, criminalized
and stigmatized,", she said. "So, in fact, how far are we along the trail to a collective sexual
nirvana?" "

"...."The business is shrouded in so much moral and legal regulation that it's prohibitive for
people seeking out those experts." "

{The Georgia Straight, July 22-29, p.7,11}

 

[Rotcod]

I tend to agree. While there are some sp that just lie there like a fish, there are quite a few that know what gets them off and are willing to convey that to the men they see.

Case in point....^^^^

 

[mistressfreyja]

You betcha, sexy Goddess! I totally agree, especially with your point that we choose to be limp fish, or sexual fiends.

In response to the title of your thread:

Duh!



Of course we are if we choose to be. If you love what you do, you explore it fully, you keep finding new ways of doing it.. Bringing out different nuances each time. You get to a point where you become a teacher as well as a participant and service provider. It fucking rocks, to be quite honest.

 

[Bad Santa]

Sexy Nina Leone and Mistress Freyja, if you want to start a new religion you can be my gurus anytime!

 

[Papa Chongo]

I love you all!

no, but seriously if I could broach the subject with my wife I would bring her along, she would learn so much

 

[Bad Santa]

I love you all!

no, but seriously if I could broach the subject with my wife I would bring her along, she would learn so much

Now that's funny Johnny. Good Luck!

 

[Pillowtalk]

Now that's funny Johnny. Good Luck!

Yes, that would be a really bad idea if he actually introduced the topic that way. How about "we could learn alot" or "I have learned alot that really benefits my wife". ?

Asking for trouble is "See, honey, how much better NIna is at giving bjs? See what you have been doing wrong all these years??" lol

Not to say Nina is not better at giving bjs, as I know she is better than most civilians lol.

 

[Papa Chongo]

well... I see you all went a different direction then I was going,

I was thinking more about lessons in sexuality and how to be open to enjoying it more, some of these ladies could even help her with how to pleasure herself properly, I know my wife finds women atttractive so maybe something would develop there.

I am in a situation where I don't get enough from her, what I do get is great, but it takes a lot to get her going...I think these ladies could help her get more in touch with her sexuality.

So i'm not just looking for a better BJ, I was honestly thinking about her, despite my involvment with escorts, I do love her and would stop this tomorrow if she could be more sexual!

I'm gonna get slammed for that I am sure!

 

[Papa Chongo]

You guys are laughing at this, but it makes me think.
I have had a few clients tell me if there wives could just learn a few tricks their lives would be complete. Knowing that you men the ones I have seen truly are in loving relationshiops and are truly happy and satisfied just missing out on that intamacy.
If a man could some how bring the subject up with his wife some of us ladies could teach th SO's a little something and get some more girl play in there too. Hmm. I could post that for wives...lovemaking lessons or BJ lessons. I will think how to promote this new offer maybe.

Love the idea .. now to bring it up with wifey .....

 

[Papa Chongo]

When a couple comes to see me, and a little training is something you might want, perhaps I should wear thigh high boots, pvc skirt an corset, and take on the Miss Nina dominant persona.. She gives orders gently but firmly and will have things done just her way....



oh hey, angie! Your post came in after I started
Great idea!

How about putting on a slightly provocative business suit and playing the part of a interactive sex therapist.... see where I am going

 

[Papa Chongo]

like I said before ... Love you ladies!

 

[mistressfreyja]

I think that your wife is lucky to have you feel that way about her!

I got your point, that it's not about blow-job training. And, you are right that if she was open to it, she probably could and would learn a thing or two. And maybe even teach the SP something new. Wishful thinking, I suppose.

well... I see you all went a different direction then I was going,

I was thinking more about lessons in sexuality and how to be open to enjoying it more, some of these ladies could even help her with how to pleasure herself properly, I know my wife finds women atttractive so maybe something would develop there.

I am in a situation where I don't get enough from her, what I do get is great, but it takes a lot to get her going...I think these ladies could help her get more in touch with her sexuality.

So i'm not just looking for a better BJ, I was honestly thinking about her, despite my involvment with escorts, I do love her and would stop this tomorrow if she could be more sexual!

I'm gonna get slammed for that I am sure!

 

[mistressfreyja]

That's a good way to go about it...though, that also incriminates him as to have been perusing a dating site.

Perhaps create a profile together, and make another account that writes your shared profile with SPs specifics. Haha.

EEEEEEEP. Sounds a little deviant, but would flow better, perhaps?

I have had first time couples see me, so really it could work. How to bring it up to your wife now Johnny. well one client did not tell his wife what I did. He said he found me on a dating site and if you discuss (communication is very important as is trust) the idea with your wife she may become intrigued more and go for it.
I am going to fit this idea into my menu will figure out the rates and plan once summer is done here too many mini vacations coming up here.

Show the wives how to seduce, suck and *uck. how to tease and please. Bring sexy back into the marriage. hell we are like sex therapists already.