Relativity of age

[johnsmit]

Being older and starting sexual activity ... late in life.. I addmite it my be self serving to
to see girls that are 25 ...30 younger then i am. But never the less those are the girls that i have met .. and get along with the best.
Prob. because my maturety level . is more around there level.. or just a little above .. to bring a bit of sanity to relationship.. Not nessisarily youth and viger. lol.
As for those my age i have little in common.. I never been married.. have no young grand kids.. let alone any children or grown children...I am not retired.. with my own home.. or even have a long term job... Nothing in common at all...
But like a yoinger person i can still act on a whim... drop everything to do what i want .. or help out some one.. and i am happy to live that way.. .I not trawd down by life and bitter either.. which i find so many people my age are.... So i think of my self as younger them my all most 60 yrs...

Of course there is another side .. as there allways is with what i write..
There is how age is relitive yo our spiritual life..

What is a persons spiritual age.. .that if you beleave in those things .. I do.. and accept that some people spirits have been coming back and living new lives for a long time.. The physical age.. that we see in each other.. may handy cap.. us... in many way... .Appealing to those that are younger .. ..being fit... but.. spiritually.. young and old may be at the same level .. or the even the youngest be far older spritually.. and more insite in to life.. then the.. 70...80 yrr old.. . So for relationships to develp between the young and old .. i think are perfectly natual... A physical .relationship.. sexual in nature.. maybe.. a selfish one.. but .. the spirit.. needs human contact too... it exsits to live a physical life.. and lifes experiances
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[Jethro Bodine]

Not sure if this is the same thing but I've always believed we all have a certain age that suits us best.
We get to a certain stage of life or age where we feel most comfortable and we will always see ourselves as that age.
That is why there are some people who act younger or older than they may be.
I personally have always seen myself or been most comfortable thinking of myself as being 29 or 30 despite being much younger or older at times.

Cheers

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

This is why I publish my CHRONOLOGICAL age; because in my head, I am perpetually 35!
My 78 year old father still maintains a single digit handicap: my 74 year old mother goes to the gym 5 days a week as well as tai chi every day.
My 96 year old grandmother was still going dancing weekly with a man 10 years her junior up until a month before she died (quietly in her sleep).

OLD??? Not this chick.

 

[johnsmit]

Yes JB That could be part of it too.. i still think of my sekf as 27.. and in some ways .. my emotional .. and resposablity levels.. were well set befor i was a teenager.. and then there are all the other physical factors.
and hormon levels.. which dictate. what we can do... or how high a sex drive we have.. and a need to
servie and perpetuat the species.
That all determonds how old we act too..
I never was that teen age stud.. looking to get layed... i it was ever there.. i full filled it with porn and toke care of my desires. by my self... What i did have was the mid life apithany... .and glad i did.. because it fed my spirit what it had be lacking for so long

 

[peter putter]

I'm 30, but I still feel like I'm in my early 20's. Though oddly enough, I have this feeling the best I'm ever going to look is in my early 50's. I have no idea why. I've always felt that way.

There is a certain "je ne sais quoi" that comes with age that women find attractive regardless of looks. Not sure what it is but maybe it's the "mature swagger" that one develops over the years or not mincing words anymore. A friend once said "the best thing about hitting 50 is not giving a shit anymore" and I think he was right