I'm feeling reflective, so here is a topic for discussion....
When I was a younger man my interest in this industry was about quantity. I wanted to experience lot's of different partners, see what was out there, and experience how they were all different. I think there is something embedded deep in the male genetic code that drives wanting to lay with lots of partners, left over from when it was a primary requirement for the survival of the species, as we battled others to make it to the top of the food chain. I think I can safely say I have seen 200+ escorts over the decades. Now there are some really fond memories in there but there are lots of really horrible ones as well. The search for new has embedded in it the requirement to open a lot of doors, and you never know what is going to be on the other side of that door....
Now I'm an older man my interests seem to have moved to quality. I think I've reached the conclusion that sex get's better with shared knowledge and that the best sex I've had is with partners whose sexual needs I have taken the time to get to know, and who have taken the time to get to know mine. At first I thought that might get boring or repetitive, but I've grown to learn with some effort, creativity and willingness to explore by both parties that doesn't need to be the case. Now I seem to find a compatible courtesan, with a interest in exploring their sexuality and see them for longer periods of time. The challenge in this space seems to be on finding the balance of intimacy where you grow to know each others sexual interests and desires but maintain space on the real life personal side that keeps everyone comfortable. I've had successes and failures in this space but it seems to boil down to good open communication.
So I'll continue to wince and reflect back as I read all the posts of those still opening doors and taking chances, and feel happy that I've moved on to another space.
So the discussion at the end of this self reflection is how and why do others make the see more or see one more often decision???
When I was a younger man my interest in this industry was about quantity. I wanted to experience lot's of different partners, see what was out there, and experience how they were all different. I think there is something embedded deep in the male genetic code that drives wanting to lay with lots of partners, left over from when it was a primary requirement for the survival of the species, as we battled others to make it to the top of the food chain. I think I can safely say I have seen 200+ escorts over the decades. Now there are some really fond memories in there but there are lots of really horrible ones as well. The search for new has embedded in it the requirement to open a lot of doors, and you never know what is going to be on the other side of that door....
Now I'm an older man my interests seem to have moved to quality. I think I've reached the conclusion that sex get's better with shared knowledge and that the best sex I've had is with partners whose sexual needs I have taken the time to get to know, and who have taken the time to get to know mine. At first I thought that might get boring or repetitive, but I've grown to learn with some effort, creativity and willingness to explore by both parties that doesn't need to be the case. Now I seem to find a compatible courtesan, with a interest in exploring their sexuality and see them for longer periods of time. The challenge in this space seems to be on finding the balance of intimacy where you grow to know each others sexual interests and desires but maintain space on the real life personal side that keeps everyone comfortable. I've had successes and failures in this space but it seems to boil down to good open communication.
So I'll continue to wince and reflect back as I read all the posts of those still opening doors and taking chances, and feel happy that I've moved on to another space.
So the discussion at the end of this self reflection is how and why do others make the see more or see one more often decision???
