Protected sex vs Unprotected sex

[shak]

Everyone in this hobby knows that there are health risks involved in it. Some of us have a stable relationship(let it be girlfriend/boyfriend, husband/wife, whatever), I am curious about whether people in this hobby take some form of protection with their stable partner?

For example, if I have a stable relationship where unprotected sex are performed(its safe cuz we know that both of us are negative of any STD), then i started pooning. I know I should start being responsible and use protection with my stable partner too. However; I worry that it will raise suspicion from her. Furthermore, everyone knows it feels darn good to have bareback sex. How many ppl are willing to give this up?

 

[shak]

ummm....ya think?.....if you've been dinking sans chapeau and all of a sudden you start wearing a jimmy when you fuck your sig other then ya I think some questions are going to be asked

yeah, any good excuse ?

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Its been so long since I've been in a relationship where I was a citizen of the People's Republic of Barebackistan. At one point I had a Barebackistani girlfriend and I mongered but when I ate out it was always in my Kevlar combat gear

 

[LonelyGhost]

its kind of funny (in a sad way) that one sign a guy is screwing around is that he starts wearing a condom, but if your girlfriend starts screwing around you're left eating some other guys' junk until you smarten up.

if you read the figures on extra-marital sex among women (and they tend to under-report) you would have to be nuts, desperate or even more likely to screw around than she is, to get into a relationship.

bottom line? unless you're 100% certain (and how could you ever be?) that your SO isn't screwing someone else, protect yourself!