Planning a Bday Present to Myself

[ubervicman]

Hello Hobbyists

I have never been with a sp before, and am trying to plan a super awesome bday present for myself, but I need some help.

I have a couple requirements that I'm hoping someone might be able to help me with by pointing me in the right direction. Or I don't know, I'm new on here, but may be the sp's read these threads and someone might be able to contact me.

My family situation requires that I have an outcall to my own place. I have kids, and a babysitter isn't an option...but neither is taking off on them and going to a hotel. Further, as a single Dad I want my money to go to the donation, not to a hotel.

Secondly, with my girlfriend's in the past, I've really come to enjoy a couple hits of mj. Similar to someone who wants a few drinks first, I find it unwinds me a bit, and I enjoy the time better. I wouldn't expect anyone to kiss after that, but need someone who's ok with it. That's another reason I don't want to go down to an outcall, because I want to be able to safely drive home afterwards lol.

Does anyone know sp's who they know are ok with this? I contacted one girl, and she said she won't do outcalls to a house. I'm sure it's about safety, but my kids will be here and they are just going to think I'm having a friend over, which I have had in the past, and then secondarily she was concerned about the smoking smell. I would of course shower and brush my teeth and use mouthwash afterwards, and not expect certain services because of it, but I wonder if I'm the only guy who's smoked, and then went to a call with someone with the way it was addressed.

I appreciate any comments or suggestions that help me make this the best birthday ever!

Cheers

 

[ubervicman]

Alright, well I guess I'm not getting any help here...

 

[A.U.D.R.E.Y]

Hello Hobbyists

I have never been with a sp before, and am trying to plan a super awesome bday present for myself, but I need some help.

I have a couple requirements that I'm hoping someone might be able to help me with by pointing me in the right direction. Or I don't know, I'm new on here, but may be the sp's read these threads and someone might be able to contact me.

My family situation requires that I have an outcall to my own place. I have kids, and a babysitter isn't an option...but neither is taking off on them and going to a hotel. Further, as a single Dad I want my money to go to the donation, not to a hotel.

Secondly, with my girlfriend's in the past, I've really come to enjoy a couple hits of mj. Similar to someone who wants a few drinks first, I find it unwinds me a bit, and I enjoy the time better. I wouldn't expect anyone to kiss after that, but need someone who's ok with it. That's another reason I don't want to go down to an outcall, because I want to be able to safely drive home afterwards lol.

Does anyone know sp's who they know are ok with this? I contacted one girl, and she said she won't do outcalls to a house. I'm sure it's about safety, but my kids will be here and they are just going to think I'm having a friend over, which I have had in the past, and then secondarily she was concerned about the smoking smell. I would of course shower and brush my teeth and use mouthwash afterwards, and not expect certain services because of it, but I wonder if I'm the only guy who's smoked, and then went to a call with someone with the way it was addressed.

I appreciate any comments or suggestions that help me make this the best birthday ever!

Cheers

You are talking about being under the influence of something & wanting to get a lady to come over to your house while your kids are home.:doh:

And you are surprised that no one has responded? :crazy:

 

[ubervicman]

Thanks so much for the judgmental response. Somehow you think having a girlfriend over when kids are home is wrong. It's not. Parents are allowed to have a friend over, or a romantic friend. I have a social life, friends, and at times have had a girlfriend, and yes my time is divided so I can give some time to a friend or a relationship as well as my kids. My kids aren't going to see or be a part of any of this, except that they simply might happen to meet a "friend" of mine. Second, you seem to criticize being under the influence of something. Again, you must think that no parents come home and have a few drinks on occasion, even if their kids are home. As I said, it's no different than someone having a couple of drinks. I read so much about people sharing an alcoholic drink with their sp during their sessions, but they think a light little hit of mj is way different. It's not.

So leave your criticism and judgment at the door. I was looking for some little suggestions, just a little help, on who I might be able to contact. Not for a personal opinion, and judgment, and criticism, which simply says what you see, not what is really there. Thanks anyhow...for nothing.

 

[A.U.D.R.E.Y]

I was just pointing out a possible reason why no one responded to your thread.

I'm not passing judgement on the fact that you want to see an escort or that you want to smoke prior to your appointment (provided that you find a 420 friendly lady).

I will however make a very rare post & voice my opinion on the fact that you don't see anything wrong with having an escort over for a session while your kids are home.

Get a babysitter, or get a hotel or go to the ladies location.

Problem solved :thumb:.

 

[ubervicman]

Well thanks, guys, I appreciate the subsequent posts, including the one from Audrey. It was more thoughtful and helpful that way. Sorry my first interpretation seemed to feel more like I was criticized. Of course it's just how someone sees it.

That being said, again I have had girlfriends over, and like many parents, there is sex going on while kids are in the house. This would be no different from my kids' perspective. They would be in bed, and would had no idea anything was going on, except if I mentioned I was having a friend over and nothing more. Again...kids are sound asleep and almost impossible to wake up. This is how I did it with my girlfriends. The kids are in bed, time for a glass or two of wine for her, and cpl hits for me, and then some loving.

I can understand why there would be some hesitation, but I don't see it as something so serious and so awful that something can't be arranged. Parents have sex with the kids in the house, and so do boyfriend's and girlfriends. Seems really straightforward, the only difference is that I offered money for companionship and simply "time together", not for the intimacy itself. In fact, I was thinking I could not even say the kids are home, and they likely wouldn't even know it unless they popped out to go to the bathroom.

So can anyone see any chance of this from the way I presented it? It's something I've missed on with my gf's, some really great, spectacular performance in bed. I would really love that for one time, at least.

Thanks again...

 

[ubervicman]

And to Trellex, thanks! I just caught your reply. I will go that direction. I thought about blazing first, but I'm not sure if it would show and make them walk out. Again my first experience this way. I can't imagine what would make them be so hesitant. In a city like this, it's gotta be as common of a "hobby" as anything else. For me I don't see the difference from a few drinks. I don't require they join in, in fact I'd be likely to prefer they didn't. A couple times my gf's did, they got extra lousy in the bedroom performance department, and more sleepy than anything. The opposite effect happens for me, I become more intense and passionate.

So anyhow, I will give it a go. Any other suggestions also welcome...

 

[Walk Softly]

From a practical standpoint, the difference I see is that you know a lot more about a girlfriend who is coming over for the evening than you do about an escort. (Real name for a start.)

Perhaps you should reconsider on the sitter: You can probably get one for about the same price most of the ladies will charge for driver fees.

Can't help about the 420 aspect as I don't partake and don't ask.

Good luck!

 

[oddone67]

There is a big difference in having your gf over compared to a sp. For one this is a complete stranger you are inviting over. I beleive you must have 100 percent trust in someone when placing them in your childs presence,awake or asleep, it does not matter. I would take the time to get a sitter. Til maybe one day you find a steady sp where you become a regular, that way she may be more comfortable and accepting.Also you will feel more comfortable. Even if you found a sp to come that you never met before, how could you really relax,even with the mary jane, having a complete stranger in your house while the kids sleeping, not a usual turn on.Id think it be a mood killer.The thought would not have me in the mood,more nervous really. good luck

 

[2Horny4MOG]

I have been pooning in Victoria for over 10 years, and I would never, ever feel comfortable going to an SP's incall with her kid(s) there, whether they were asleep or not. Get a sitter for a couple of hours. That way the SP feels comfortable,and you probably will feel more comfortable too. Go have a good time, but get a sitter.

Just sayin.....