Pay for it or free?

[bartsimpson01]

I was asked a question by a friend that knows that every once in a while I like to engage in an SP's company.

She asked me if I could get it for free, would I still be paying for it. hmm interesting question.I guess if the chick was hot, absolutely I would want it for free. Who would want to pay when they can get it for free.
What does everyone else think?

 

[Jethro Bodine]

If your question is...
If you could fuck some really hot chick, that in most cases wouldn't even let you walk her dog, who is fully focused on making my time with her enjoyable, no strings attached (no dinner, car repairs, yard work, etc)
OR
pay for it,
I think the answer would be a resounding "YES! Ofcourse I'd take the freebee", from all of us.

Unfortunately in my experience even "not paying for it" comes with some cost either financial or emotional and it's often less complicated to see an SP.

 

[warpdwhim]

You're not paying for the fuck....
You're paying her to leave afterwards.....
or for no headaches afterwards...

 

[Chanel Exclusive]

You're not paying for the fuck....
You're paying her to leave afterwards.....
or for no headaches afterwards...

As long as the guy is not threatening the SP about where her family lives....
As long as the guy doesn't expect the SP to provide "free" service & "free" additional time to him because he's going broke...
As long as the guy doesn't become selfish and jealous with the SP for seeing other clients or that she earns more than him in a year...
As long as the guy doesn't expect the SP to give up working as an escort because he's fallen in love with her...

...correct warpwhim?

Gentlemen, the respect and communication is required from both people. Not just from the lady alone.

 

[who cares!!]

I personally would love to find someone that I could be with sexually and not have to worry about paying for it.If she was hot, that's another bonus right there.Never going to happen but I can dream can't I
I don't think we pay for it because he have another choice do we? Or at least not in my case.

 

[BcMod]

I was asked a question by a friend that knows that every once in a while I like to engage in an SP's company.

She asked me if I could get it for free, would I still be paying for it. hmm interesting question.I guess if the chick was hot, absolutely I would want it for free. Who would want to pay when they can get it for free.
What does everyone else think?

Maybe you were missing the point. Maybe she was offering herself?

 

[Sixpak]

Paying for it is the simplest no-strings-attached way to have all the variety you want!! I am assuming that most pooners get a big rush out of seeing someone new from time to time. Even repeating with one of the ladies at a later time is like seeing someone new. It often happens that you want to see a particular lady a lot, but you have to be careful and not fall for her! Sometimes happens too easily ....
How else could you get to be with more than a hundred sexy ladies in your lifetime and still feel free?

 

[Sixpak]

Maybe you were missing the point. Maybe she was offering herself?

hmm .."She asked me if I could get it for free, would I still be paying for it. "
Is she assuming you can't get it for free?
so many ways to take it!!
not as many ways to get it!!!

 

[FortunateOne]

And is "free" as simple as picking up the phone at 8pm, making an appt, showing up at 8:30, stay for an hour, leave at 9:30 and no need for any thank you calls or followup the next day?

And as mentioned, free generally takes longer, takes up more of your time, and limits you to one person, but paying provides variety and options not readily available for "free".

 

[blazejowski]

Personally, I have never had a situation where the girl just wants to fuck, and that's it... it's always turned into something else, and usually whatever friendship was there gets ruined, or worse...

...which is why I started seeing SP's. Great sex, little bullshit...

 

[bigben]

Been there too. I've tried the "friends with benefits" thing before and it hasn't worked for me personally.

Personally, I have never had a situation where the girl just wants to fuck, and that's it... it's always turned into something else, and usually whatever friendship was there gets ruined, or worse...

...which is why I started seeing SP's. Great sex, little bullshit...

 

[SexyBoy]

Dont know got a gf right now that I can call up to get some and afterwards she well leave. If I want she well cook and clean too!

 

[bartsimpson01]

Hey thanks for that mod, maybe I was missing something.

 

[blazejowski]

Been there too. I've tried the "friends with benefits" thing before and it hasn't worked for me personally.

It never works with anyone, it seems... I ended up marrying my "friend with benefits"

 

[Mchatte]

Just because she claims it's "free" it never is! You pay for it either in cash, gifts, services, change in personality, emotions or what have you.

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