overnighters?
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Also, if $ is an issue, chances are you aren't going to want to pay the going rates for overnighters which most likely start at 1500 and go to 2500, for a 12hr visit. As MM says, 2hr, and if you do want an extended visit, maybe 4hours and do dinner or dessert as well.
wow, it is not that i cannot afford it, just think there are more important things in my life i could spend that kind of money on. as for not falling asleep with someone you don't know i would think that pretty much everyone on here has at one time or another had a one night stand or a few too many and woken up somewhere with someone. only difference would be that i would be paying for it.
Time & Effort = Money
Think of the ladies on this site as professional's. You can certainly ask them if they have any interest in what you would like, and try to negotiate money with them, but think of them like an accountant, a plumber, a doctor, a truck driver, a bus driver as they offer a service, now ask yourself why would they do this? Anytime your answer is "because I am asking......", stop and pinch yourself, only friends do that (well, some friends
), the ladies are not your buddies... they do this, like you do your job....
Your question is a little like asking a plumber to do work and not charge you, how many would you have to call to find one that would not charge you? Now, go looking for random 1 nite stand?, how often does that happen?
I think you may have more success if you posted what you wanted, and how much you wanted to spend, then ladies could PM you if they have any interest. Good luck.
Think of the ladies on this site as professional's. You can certainly ask them if they have any interest in what you would like, and try to negotiate money with them, but think of them like an accountant, a plumber, a doctor, a truck driver, a bus driver as they offer a service, now ask yourself why would they do this? Anytime your answer is "because I am asking......", stop and pinch yourself, only friends do that (well, some friends
), the ladies are not your buddies... they do this, like you do your job.... Your question is a little like asking a plumber to do work and not charge you, how many would you have to call to find one that would not charge you? Now, go looking for random 1 nite stand?, how often does that happen?
I think you may have more success if you posted what you wanted, and how much you wanted to spend, then ladies could PM you if they have any interest. Good luck.
ok then, guess that straightens me out. thought i was just asking a pretty simple question and plan something ahead of time. seeing that since i just joined a couple of days ago and being 10hours north of van i could/would use some advice from others on here. but as a simple electrician who makes $30/hr i obviously cannot afford what truck drivers and bus drivers in vancouver can. and it would be defensive, IF, one was interested. night though, have to work in the morning.
Now you are getting overly defensive.
I have said it before and i'll say it again: you won't find what you're looking for on this site. Let's just say the girls here are "professional" in every respect, right down to the dollars and cents.
Your best bet would be posting an ad on CL with your expectations and what you can offer. I suggest you leave it open-ended, book for a few hours with the option of extending if she wants to spend the night.
Believe it or not, you can have an amazing overnight session for $600 or less. I even recall a famous review about an overnighter for a brown!
(just don't suggest that to the "professional" girls here) You're probably right but you never know...I suspect there are ladies on this board, paid advertisers or not, who lurk for opportunities like this.you won't find what you're looking for on this site. Let's just say the girls here are "professional" in every respect, right down to the dollars and cents.
Your best bet would be posting an ad on CL with your expectations and what you can offer. I suggest you leave it open-ended, book for a few hours with the option of extending if she wants to spend the night.
Believe it or not, you can have an amazing overnight session for $600 or less. I even recall a famous review about an overnighter for a brown!
The OP's best bet is to communicate clearly what he is looking for. If he has any references or ways to help a lady feel safe he just might get a deal from a gal needing some extra cash.
Adult Gigs on Craigslist would also be a good spot to advertise/shop...?
Booking an overnight session with someone you've never met before seems like a big gamble. Even if the person has good reviews, YMMV always applies. What happens if within the 1st hour you find that you just don't click with the person, not only are you out a big whack of $$$, now you're gonna spend another 11 or so hours with someone you don't enjoy being with.
Now you are getting overly defensive.
I have said it before and i'll say it again: you won't find what you're looking for on this site. Let's just say the girls here are "professional" in every respect, right down to the dollars and cents.
Your best bet would be posting an ad on CL with your expectations and what you can offer. I suggest you leave it open-ended, book for a few hours with the option of extending if she wants to spend the night.
Believe it or not, you can have an amazing overnight session for $600 or less. I even recall a famous review about an overnighter for a brown!
One of the best times I ever had was with a "so called non pro" who did what she did, mostly for fun but needed money. So she charged me $400 for an overnight stay..and a bottle of JD. She was tons of fun, a former gymnast, good looking lady, nice body.
I banged her 4 times a couple of them well into the night essentially waking up in the middle of the night and going at it, and had a couple of bbbj's to boot.
Basically it was like a one night stand.
That is the beauty of sps. You could spend time and energy trying to find a straight chick to take you up on an overnighter offer, spend your $ that way, or you could choose a short time and pick someone that you can see pics of, know what you are getting, not take the chance that the individual poses a danger to you (random straight chick I mean), and spend some time with someone who makes you think the way you just described -- speechless. It seems like spending 2-3 hours with someone who is a fantasy girl, and is guaranteed ready to have sex with you, would be an easy decision to make lol.
The best thing is to decide on your budget, then see who is available at those rates, who you might like to spend time with, where you are going to be, are you looking for someone to come to you or you go to them, enjoy someone who might like to take a walk or cuppa coffee after meeting discretely first? It can all be arranged ahead of time and you can be assured that what you talk about will take place. Seems like a much better idea that taking a chance that other plans don't work out with an amateur.
so this is kind of like applying for your first job? can't get one without references, can't get references without one. hmm.
you just have to think about from the SPs side. there are some bad people out there and they want to be safe. like others have said it better to start with one hour or two with someone...not all people like the same things so if you dont match your going to wish you didnt waste all the money and time on one SP.so this is kind of like applying for your first job? can't get one without references, can't get references without one. hmm.
I hear ya. I do.so this is kind of like applying for your first job? can't get one without references, can't get references without one. hmm.
A ref for an overnighter with an SP you've never met...not a 1-2 hour session. Lots of SP's will see you for a short session without a ref.
If you can't supply a reference from another SP, what can you do to make a lady feel at ease spending the entire night with you? Sleeping with you?
Just use common sense. Take money out of it and think how you could make a woman you've never met before accept your offer of spending the night with you. How could you make her feel comfortable?
A chick you pick up in a bar for a one night stand gets to make out with you for a couple hours at the bar, maybe go for late-night pizza slice (or donair), before going home with you...what does an escort get?
Don't get defensive, just think outside the box to get what you want.
I don't want this to be a downer, just a reality check: I know another provider who was drugged and beat up during an overnighter. All the precautions in the world can't PREVENT this from happening but more screening does reduce these instances.
