Oh so scared...dunno why.

[mattyd32]

Hi Everyone,

Long time lurker, first time poster here (from calgary).

I have been silently sooooo interested in this hobby you all have for a very very long time now. I have just never found the guts to go do it, i know one i break through the initial "first time" i'll love it... i mean... whats not to love!

I just have so many worries, that i'll do something wrong, i'll get some cops bustin down the door...shit i dont even know! hahaha i just go through such worry-wort extreme situations in my head.

How safe is this? any recommendations on my first time? any pointers?
I've looked into a few SP's for this weekend, emailed to check availability and let them know of my newbiness as to not be entirely thrown off when they see me, confusing my shyness for being some sketchy druggy or something

I havent officially booked though, im hoping to hear from alot of you first.

I hope you all can help me get over these stupid fears i have and help me get into this obviously AWESOME hobby you all have!!

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Find yourself a well reviewed ho (I cant help you with YYC advice), book an appointment, book a hotel room, have a botte or two of wine and 3 hole her to your heart's content.

You won't get busted by the cops and you wont catch anything providing you use protection. Avoid ATM and MTA to reduce your chances of catching something that your SO won't appreciate getting

 

[rafterman]

Don't break you cherry in Calgary.

Check out Edmonton MP's.

 

[geek]

If your nervous about the police just research the law in your area. My very limited understanding of Canadian law is that paying for sex isn't illegal as long as rates are not discussed in public, a car is considered public so is a hotel/motel room. Here in BC seeing an independent in her in-call location is the safest, the law may be different in your area so do some research if this really bothers you.

 

[Pantherdash]

If your nervous about the police just research the law in your area. My very limited understanding of Canadian law is that paying for sex isn't illegal as long as rates are not discussed in public, a car is considered public so is a hotel/motel room. Here in BC seeing an independent in her in-call location is the safest, the law may be different in your area so do some research if this really bothers you.

A hotel or motel room is NOT considered public. Public includes any place that is accessible by the public either implied or expressed. Don't know why then, a car is considered public as I don't generally allow people to get in my car unless I ask them, but it's the law.

Panther

 

[geek]

A hotel or motel room is NOT considered public. Public includes any place that is accessible by the public either implied or expressed. Don't know why then, a car is considered public as I don't generally allow people to get in my car unless I ask them, but it's the law.

Panther

My mistake, a hotel lobby is considered a public place and a car is considered a public place because the public has a view inside the car.



This is from an Edmonton police website.

http://www.edmontonpolice.ca/Commun...on/Prostitution/LegalitiesofProstitution.aspx

What is Illegal?

The following acts relating to prostitution are against the law:

Communication for the purpose of prostitution -- s.213:

Often called solicitation. If anyone talks to a Sex Trade Worker about exchanging sexual services for money or other consideration (e.g., drugs, payment of bills, gas, food, etc.) and this occurs in a public place they are committing an illegal act. This includes a car on a street or in a parking lot or any place which the public has access (e.g., restaurant, hotel lobby, etc.). Without an intention to engage in sexual services there is no offence. So, in other words, if you stop to ask a Sex Trade Worker for the time, you are not committing an illegal act, but if the subject of money for sex comes up and you contribute to the discussion (e.g., so how much for ...?) you are committing an illegal act.

and

Common bawdy-house -- s. 210:

It is illegal to own, operate or even be in a bawdy house. Most people think of a bawdy house as something like a brothel, but this can apply to any place that is frequently and habitually used for the purposes of prostitution. Johns found in the premises will be subpoenaed to court to give evidence about their experience on the premises. Massage parlours can be prosecuted under this law.

 

[eurhythmia]

Avoid ATM and MTA to reduce your chances of catching something that your SO won't appreciate getting

Ummm, what's ATM and MTA. Have I been missing something here? Thanks

 

[ASHLEYM]

Ummm, what's ATM and MTA. Have I been missing something here? Thanks

ass to mouth, mouth to ass

 

[FortunateOne]

two ways to avoid the obvious trouble

1. Make your arrangements by phone, this would be considered private. Emails leave trails, she will have copies and you do too, you can avoid having a record of your activities by doing everything by phone. Simply having your # on her call display doesn't mean anything, after all.

2. Choose an indy, who does not share her space with anyone else, and has her own place. It is easier to leave, when you are standing outside the door, than to get her to leave (& you've provided her with your address). If you do choose to leave (because of nerves, or whatever) do so politely. If you are really nervous, choose one with a good reputation and review here, so that you are not walking into the unknown.