Not feeling horny?

Iwandaboobis

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Good gentlemen/women of Perb,

Do you guys ever plan on making a pooning appointment, but then decide not to because you just weren't feeling horny? Or alternatively, have you ever booked an appointment, but then cancelled for this reason? Or do you just power through and hope to find the horny when the session starts?
 

Harmony-bc

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Good gentlemen/women of Perb,

Do you guys ever plan on making a pooning appointment, but then decide not to because you just weren't feeling horny? Or alternatively, have you ever booked an appointment, but then cancelled for this reason? Or do you just power through and hope to find the horny when the session starts?
Chances are if you’re with the right person, you walk in feeling all tense with no drive, and the second you see her, vavoom, the engine starts revving.
 

masterpoonhunter

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Good gentlemen/women of Perb,

Do you guys ever plan on making a pooning appointment, but then decide not to because you just weren't feeling horny? Or alternatively, have you ever booked an appointment, but then cancelled for this reason? Or do you just power through and hope to find the horny when the session starts?
I don't understand the first question ...
 
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Mr. J

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When I book a session, I'm usually all horned up already. When it comes time for the main event, that horny feeling doesn't go away easy in my case.
 

Newuser505

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Chances are if you’re with the right person, you walk in feeling all tense with no drive, and the second you see her, vavoom, the engine starts revving.
Ya this. If im booking in advance, then its with a woman who i have already established great chemistry with. I know that even if im not in the mood the day of, she will set it right again.
 

Boogeryyc

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I’ve always found scheduling sex of any kind to be weird but I go in there pretty horned up, even if I wasn’t particularly horny earlier in the day
 

LM987

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Cannot relate to your "problem".
Usually hard while driving for the visit. Ahh the anticiaption...
 
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burntcard

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Good gentlemen/women of Perb,

Do you guys ever plan on making a pooning appointment, but then decide not to because you just weren't feeling horny? Or alternatively, have you ever booked an appointment, but then cancelled for this reason? Or do you just power through and hope to find the horny when the session starts?

while I can’t say that I have any experience like that.
I don’t think you should take that as something wrong with you. There can be a many factors that can reduce your sex drive. Such as stress, bad sleep, changes in hormone levels, past experiences, mental road block & like some have mentioned partner incompatibility.

I can’t remember the stats but problems around intimacy and/or sex is more common than most people assume.
I’d recommend that if you feel like this might be a problem. Speak to a trained professional like a doctor or counselor.

Don’t think that you are alone. I’m sure there are others that have this experience but maybe shy or embarrassed to say. If anyone has experienced this and a little shy to say. PM the OP.
 
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phool

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Good gentlemen/women of Perb,

Do you guys ever plan on making a pooning appointment, but then decide not to because you just weren't feeling horny? Or alternatively, have you ever booked an appointment, but then cancelled for this reason? Or do you just power through and hope to find the horny when the session starts?
Never. The anticipation is unrelenting. It's the reverse problem actually, I have to prevent myself from rubbing one out in the hours before.
 

realsocialdad

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Nowadays I book without being horny. The SP will help (or not help) with changing the horniness levels once I meet them.

At this point, I enjoy the thrill. Going through the TDL, scouring through reviews, deciding on who I want to see and any backups, visualizing how it'd go, and those nervous moments before you step in front of the door.
 
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To some degree I would imagine age may be a factor. Older gentleman may have a more difficult time than much younger males. However, I may be talking about something different here and got off track 😆?? 🤔
 

Harmony-bc

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Not everybody sees me because they’re horny. There could be many different reasons for seeing an sp. I’m trained in massage so I have done a few massages without a sensual finish. I also have fully dressed cuddling only rates. Sometimes as people age, their drive might wane. Depression or an unhealthy lifestyle can be a factor as well.

But your average healthy guy can have a great sexual session even if he starts off not horny
 

apple9927

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You got to find different kinks sometimes. Fetishes whatever get your motor going. I've never been with a BBW and its my next bucket list, its all fun and games anyway.
 
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Yes. That phase. When things do not interest or excite you (me) anymore.
Time to take a break.

More of talking about myself.

I realized I visited SPs 16 times this month including quick convenient stops at MPs.
Not only spent too much $ but also didn't get enough satisfaction for my $ spent.
Maybe I wasn't necessary horny. Maybe I didn't find girls attractive enough.

Little soul searching time to be had.
 

Pumped

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You know what's worse? Being horny all day, get to the session that evening and 'meh'.

I actually prefer the 'not feeling horny all day and then it hits when I'm with her' situation.
 
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