Newbie here...long, long, long ago TERB member....will be in town soon....could use some help please....

[mlam]

....…looking for a slow, sensuous GFE (versus PSE) experience with a mature (or mature acting) provider. I would almost say I am looking to just cuddle naked and chat, but that would be a lie…lol (that is the sort of vibe I am looking for though). I might would even be good with no FS for the right vibe…just looking to spend intimate time with someone who is focused on me…who is committed to making me feel good. With “Big C” in play there just isn’t a real interest in that sort of thing at home right now, and I am not going to be a jackass and push it. We are in a fight to win, and I am all in, but after several months on the sideline I could use a little…something.

Probably good for 2 hours, perhaps even longer (right vibe). Will be staying @ 5-star hotel.

My preference is for curvy…Size 10+…and all natural is a must. Soft…cuddly…friendly. Not a fan of tattoos…not saying zero, I am saying “body art” isn’t my thing…same for piercings. And no super long nails...looking for a regular, everyday hot MILF / GILF thing here...

Legit massage skills a real added bonus...much appreciated

I’m old. I’m fat. Definitely not a porn star and not looking to pretend to be one either. Just looking for a special friend for an hour or three….

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Sorry to hear of your home situation (fuck cancer). That journey is a tough one.

Re your visit here, I think a good bet would be to spend a bit of time here on perb and search for your ingredients. One of the perbites might have a specific suggestion - maybe indicate how mature your date should be as that can help a bit.

Good luck!

 

[mlam]

Sorry to hear of your home situation (fuck cancer). That journey is a tough one.

Re your visit here, I think a good bet would be to spend a bit of time here on perb and search for your ingredients. One of the perbites might have a specific suggestion - maybe indicate how mature your date should be as that can help a bit.

Good luck!

Thanks for the assist...and for the empathy / sympathy.

Well...since I am in my 50's I guess that would be appropriate, but I know that really isn't the sweet spot for providers...

I came across someone who - physically - would be perfect. I absolutely could not have described a better fantasy woman. Additionally, well reviewed, and her web presence on multiple sites suggests "classy". It also suggests "pricey", but easy come easy go..except...it didn't come easy, but it belongs to me and I can do with it what I see fit.

But...she is 27.

And all I could think about was me looking at this person - about half my age - and no matter what she said or did , thinking "you and I just are not in the same place in this shared reality". I guess I would be assuming, she really couldn't be able to relate to where I am right now. I would be pretty sure she would have heard the story before, but could she really understand it? And if I could never get that thought out of my head, then how would I ever be able to actually enjoy myself? I mean, if I just couldn't see how she could relate to me, then how would I get past "she is here for the money and doesn't give a rats ass about me". I mean...I kinda know that is the case no matter what, but I rather not be reminded of it. Not her fault, but...

Which does not answer your question.

Late 30 - mid 40's? Or is that asking for too much in what is a young woman's game?

 

[dickencyder]

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...n_well_reviewed_new_fotos-6817269?source=list

she might work out for you

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Thanks for the assist...and for the empathy / sympathy.

Well...since I am in my 50's I guess that would be appropriate, but I know that really isn't the sweet spot for providers...

I came across someone who - physically - would be perfect. I absolutely could not have described a better fantasy woman. Additionally, well reviewed, and her web presence on multiple sites suggests "classy". It also suggests "pricey", but easy come easy go..except...it didn't come easy, but it belongs to me and I can do with it what I see fit.

But...she is 27.

And all I could think about was me looking at this person - about half my age - and no matter what she said or did , thinking "you and I just are not in the same place in this shared reality". I guess I would be assuming, she really couldn't be able to relate to where I am right now. I would be pretty sure she would have heard the story before, but could she really understand it? And if I could never get that thought out of my head, then how would I ever be able to actually enjoy myself? I mean, if I just couldn't see how she could relate to me, then how would I get past "she is here for the money and doesn't give a rats ass about me". I mean...I kinda know that is the case no matter what, but I rather not be reminded of it. Not her fault, but...

Which does not answer your question.

Late 30 - mid 40's? Or is that asking for too much in what is a young woman's game?

My man. I just turned 70. That 27 year old you discovered? Just fine. Late 30's?, 40's? In her 50's? hell, she's 20?
You are both in the same place at the same time and you are sharing that reality. Please do not turn inward in this particular thing you are working on. Don't make it complicated.
Go for it and enjoy - these beautiful women we 'date' will do their best to provide you the experience you want.