New to the lifestyle

Horndawg13455 · Jul 31, 2025

I’d like to indulge in this lifestyle but I have health and safety concerns. Are most providers safe? Not trying to be disrespectful just trying to ask questions. How do you guys deal with the risks associated with this lifestyle. I appreciate response thanks

SoulfulJourney_Social · Jul 31, 2025

Horndawg13455 said:
I’d like to indulge in this lifestyle but I have health and safety concerns. Are most providers safe? Not trying to be disrespectful just trying to ask questions. How do you guys deal with the risks associated with this lifestyle. I appreciate response thanks

be prudent and try to do as much research about each and every provider you plan on seeing.

i can definitely understand that you're hesitant about this, but i can assure you that you will have no issues if you're diligent about this.

Wakeup · Jul 31, 2025

Shower before and after, been doing this for 40 yrs or so, some pretty sketchy places off shore. Never had a problem , touch wood, konk

beachjunky · Jul 31, 2025

This is how I do it -

I only meet with reputed agencies or independent providers. This is like the golden advice. You follow this you won't have any problems unless you make one.
Current price-market range is between 250-450 for an hour. Anything below 250 is a health risk. I never go for anything higher than 450 as per my current lifestyle it is not suitable for me. The rest is merely your choice. Although the more you pay does not guarantee you safety. I didn't say that, nobody said that.
I always take a shower before and after. Not just to keep myself safe but the provider too. I make sure I smell nice.
If they ask me for a deposit, I make sure it's someone who is reputed and not a first timer as that usually ends up bad decision.
If they ask me to show an ID, I hide important details like DOB and Address. As in my experience - Agencies/Providers usually only care to see the face and name, unless they specify they want something different. I could be wrong about this.
I wear a hat and sunglasses if I know the area I'm going to, I might end up running into someone/I'm uncomfortable going, trust me it works.
I always wait minimum a week to see another provider. Symptoms can take time to show up and you definitely don't want to be held responsible for spreading it further.
Always be clear, ask and be vocal about expectations and what your actions will be.