Welcome to Perb. Everything at the begining is hard. Take the great advice of PeaceGuy and GA. We play without judgement and with respect to each other.
Here is what I posted before;
-As I said before I'd like to think all MP's and girls are good.
-Do a lot of research and reading. This will help you a lot. Use the search at the top...
-For a newbee it is better to be safe in your choices. Best is to check MP sites, give a call and ask general question if you can not find it posted on their site. Do not ask for any details or specifics of the session(s)
-Build a list of potentials and check their reviews. (with the search button)
-The more her good reviews the better.
-Read the reviews, read between the lines,....
-Now you are almost ready with a short list
-Visit the MP's
Here are few things that I'd like to share:
-It is very hard to think with your big head so let's keep this short and to the point
-if you like the girl then I'd suggest do not negotiate rates. Believe me it kills the mood.
-Just be polite, let her take the lead, you can tell her that's your first time however you have been reading, you will come back if you had a good time.... and you will have the best time.
-Good Luck, and come back sharing with us
Same goes with independents