My Rant For The Day

[Eden]

Well I don't normally post like this, but was compelled to from recent circumstances. I had a friend who scheduled a two hour playtime with me, made a big point in telling me that it was his b-day and such. So I ordered a light food tray from Blue Crab (btw they are fabulous), got a cheese cake, and it goes on. The end result was supposed to be a very memorable b-day, other than getting to unwrap me. He was very unthankful, to the point of offensive (for me anyway) and my question to you guys is this:

Does it matter out side of the physical stuff what we do for you?
Is it better if we just ignore what you say to us on the phone, and just give you a regular session (I am not sure I know what it is, but...)?


On the flip side of this, I saw another friend and he made a big point of noticing that I keep my glasses in the freezer with pre-filled ice in them.

So, for those who have seen me before, know that I have an ingredible attention to detail that starts from the first email or phone call to the last one prior to our playtime. This is one way for me to gain constructive feedback.

 

[Lurker 123]

I had a friend who scheduled a two hour playtime with me, made a big point in telling me that it was his b-day and such. So I ordered a light food tray from Blue Crab (btw they are fabulous), got a cheese cake, and it goes on. The end result was supposed to be a very memorable b-day, other than getting to unwrap me. He was very unthankful, to the point of offensive (for me anyway) and my question to you guys is this:

On the flip side of this, I saw another friend and he made a big point of noticing that I keep my glasses in the freezer with pre-filled ice in them.

So, for those who have seen me before, know that I have an ingredible attention to detail that starts from the first email or phone call to the last one prior to our playtime. This is one way for me to gain constructive feedback.

If there is such a woman who is willing to go for an extra mile like you . I will be in heaven and die for her for sure! I prefer someone who has a more personal approach like you!

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This guy has over stepped his boundary. Next time he will check your underwears in your draws to have his approval what you are going to wear!

"Attention to details" is your middle name ,that's why you are so popular!

 

[Mchatte]

Does it matter out side of the physical stuff what we do for you?

It is very unfortunate that you got ripped Eden. Gives the rest of us pooners a bad name.

To answer your question, personally it does matter to me what an SP does above and beyond the agreed upon service.

The offer of a beverage be it alcoholic or even water, the offer of a fresh facecloth with a clean towel, offer to take my jacket, a pleasant smile and a welcome hug, even take me by the hand to the couch for an into chat, means the world to some of us.

If it were my birthday and you went through the effort described, I would be totally flattered and respond accordingly.

It not only relaxes the both of us but it may certainly affect the tip size and the chance of a repeat session if the service is good.

M

 

[chiefwiggum]

Wow,

Eden, you sound like a real gem! It was so kind of you to go to all that trouble for a birthday appointment, I can't imagine why any guy would not be spilling over with gratitude.

The "attention to detail" you pay to the other aspects of your appointments is quite remarkable. It is a sign of true professionalism and pride in your work.

Don't let some underwhelmed loser spoil your attitude - or your fun.

I kind of wish I was in BC now.....

 

[rollerboy]

Does it matter out side of the physical stuff what we do for you?
Is it better if we just ignore what you say to us on the phone, and just give you a regular session (I am not sure I know what it is, but...)?

As the saying goes, "No good deed goes unpunished."

It is awful when people fail to acknowledge the thoughtful things that others do for them. But you shouldn't let that stop you from doing thoughtful things. You should do thoughtful things because you value attentiveness and thoughtfulness.

And genuinely decent people will recognize and value your efforts. I think that you made an awfully sweet gesture on behalf of your caddish friend. He is justifiably chastened, and will hopefully learn something from this lapse.

I'm personally a sucker for the little things. Like when a girl puts her head on my shoulder, tugs on my arm. Or remembers something inconsequential that I like. It's funny, it's the little things that stick in my mind, that create a sense of magic.

But you knew that.

 

[Lurker 123]

He's unappreciative to say the least, undeserving is more like it, along with lacking common courtesy...In the long run he's only hurting himself,since his attitude will impact on the service he gets on any return visits.
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I don't think Eden will welcome him back! Serve him right!

 

[rollerboy]

BTW, it's um, my birthday next week.

 

[Eden]

In the end, I will continue to be who I am, which is attentive and thoughtful. I actually was just beginning to wonder whether or not it was a moot point and that maybe I was being a little too sensitive about the whole thing.

Actually, when all was said and done, I was upset about this:

I had gotten the cheesecake (no big deal - it could be eaten at another time, even though it was personalized on a large piece of chocolate), the tray of appy's (well someone else could use it, I am sure), but I had gotten him a small box of chocolates and a b-day helium balloon stating his age that he said he was turning. The response that I got was "I can't take that with me, but I will take the chocolates". In my mind, I thought that it could have been handled another way, like thank you very much for doing that and popping the balloon outside my apartment!!!

I would also like to point out that I was not searching for a tip, I just felt I deserved a thank you for taking the time prior to our meeting to make it special for him. I do know how lonely birthdays can be, and I just wanted him to know that someone was thinking of him.

Crap eh?

 

[Eden]

Rollerboy:
You will be turning, what? 21 again!!!

Lurker:
You are right, I may not see him again. But can I really fault him for his lack of courtesy? Does that not mean that I am treating him badly? I treat people the way that I would want to be treated, one would just hope that he reads this board and realises that he was not being very nice.

 

[Penhold]

Eden:

Most guys would be flattered to have you go to so much trouble for them. You must be a forgiving person indeed to still refer to him as a "friend".

Sounds more like this "friend" was trying to exploit the fact that it was his birthday and was using it try to obtain some "favours" from you during his session. He was probably hoping you would give him an extended PSE session free - or possibly lots of extra free time. When he saw the cheesecake he probably thought he could have his cake and eat it too.

If you want constructive feedback, here's one suggestion. Keep doing what you're doing - anyone who doesn't like it doesn't deserve your company.

 

[hitrack]

Way to put out a bunch of wasted dough and effort. Most Johns would be much more happy if your gonna offer a birthday gift, make it a couple bucks knocked off the session

As far as any other effort goes I would just keep some bottled water around and a bowl of Scotch Mints on the table, let the stupid fukks eat cake.....if you know what I mean.

 

[Lurker 123]

Lurker:
You are right, I may not see him again. But can I really fault him for his lack of courtesy? Does that not mean that I am treating him badly? I treat people the way that I would want to be treated, one would just hope that he reads this board and realises that he was not being very nice.[/QUOTE]

The problem is his attitude! He did not give you the full respect that you deserve! Next time if you decided to see him again, there will be a shadow in your mind what is he thinking?Or does he deserve you to spend time with him?

 

[tom25]

He's clearly a jerk ... forget about him.

and the answer to your question is absolutely those things matter. They're what really makes the session unforgettable and the time spent with the lady exquisite. Don't change, just be prepared for the fact that some guys are never able to appreciate the fine things in life ... whether it be a cheesecake, a smile, a soft caress, or a beautiful woman!

Tom

 

[rollerboy]

Rollerboy:
You will be turning, what? 21 again!!!

Sure, why not? Everybody's doing it. We can do it together!

Any fool can have a sequentially increasing birthday. 21's a good number 'cause then we can drink and smoke.

Actually, I don't smoke, but who knows, maybe I'll be a bad(der) boy this time around.

 

[Lurker 123]

Rollerboy:
You will be turning, what? 21 again!!!

Hey Eden ,instead of celebrating Rollerboy's "re-21 again", I am celebrating my big"800 post!" with you!

 

[rollerboy]

Oh fine. Just ruin my re-birthday!

How thoughtless!

Actually, the lovely and in all ways perfect Gwenyth is going to turn 25 with me next week, so I guess 21 can wait.

 

[Eden]

To all - Thank you for your thoughtful insight and suggestions, end result is that I am not going to change anything that I do. I enjoy it and if one in a hundred does not, then those averages are pretty good, I think.

Lurker - I am glad that you are looking forward to our playdate, it will surely enhance all of your senses!

Rollerboy - What an almost perfect choice for your birthday. Miss Gwenyth is certainly a site to behold and a moment to cherish. The only thing that would top that is myself and Gwenyth lavishing you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Everest - My clients I refer to as my friends, and the sex did cum first (or should I say he did) and then munchies and gifts. I am no fool I know the order to which surprises should cum, and unwrapping me was definately first on the menu!!!

 

[Osiris]

eDeN:

Everything you did most people would consider a special gesture. More times than not that would win you a repeat customer and perhaps referrals or at least a decent review.

hitrack:

Maybe a few guys would like some dollars knocked off the donation, but frankly in any business if you do that then the customers come to expect it every time.

I would guess the guys who belly up to the bar and are regularly prepared to contribute a high end donation would appreciate a cake, chocolates, a balloon etc. etc.

In the short term sometimes gestures like that don't pay off, but long term it's the way to go. I remember one time I asked on the phone if I could bring anything along and was told a bottle of wine would be nice. I even asked what kind. When I walked through the door with a popular bottle of white and a single rose, all that got me was a strange look. Still, I'd do it again.

 

[who]

Don't change a thing, I'm sure your the little and not so little things you do
are not overlooked by most of your friends!

 

[NormP]

Miss Eden, you have always been a very thoughtful person which reflects over to how you make your clients feel. You've always made me feel special and it's unfortunate that he didn't show you more consideration but that is his loss. I look forward to every session with you and that is mainly because of your fun attitude and outlook on things which makes the "FUN STUFF" just that. Don't change for anyone!! Can't wait to see you again !!!!