Since 1960s there have been books and more books, and now even movies, telling us how to improve our sexual enjoyment. The availability of this information is good. But this information will also create problems. In this material, the mechanical and technical aspect of sex is emphasized which create an expectation level that perhaps is unrealistic. Some people enjoy sex with some one new, each time. Some need a good companionship with only one person for good sex. Every body knows that sex with love is the best. But sex and only sex can be very enjoyable also. I had my best sexual experience and fulfillment with one experienced sp. She does not hide that she is there just for business, and no favor for anyone!! She would treat new and regular (2years) every body all the same. She does not make any provoking- sexual sound! So it seems that expectation is critical.




