Looking for opinions

[lilirockson]

Good day to all, I am new to the perb site but I must say that I have found it quite informing. I am a local indie SP and I am hoping to get a better understanding of what different people consider "GFE". I am always uncomfortable when I am asked this by a new client because what GFE means to me could mean something totally different to you. I welcome as many opinions as possible and hopefull I will gain a better idea. Thank you.

 

[georgebushmoron]

GFE means being surprised money was offered for sex. Instead it means being taken out for dinner, showered with gifts, getting birthday and valentine's cards, and you getting the keys to the car, the house, and having rights to the dog. It also means the end of having to give blowjobs.

 

[yogi]

There are many threads on this subject. Do a search.
You're right in that it means something different to everyone.
To me, it's someone who seems to actually enjoy her work & genuinely likes men.

 

[Avery]

In very general terms, if a lady is a GFE, she makes it feel like I'm not paying for it - friendly, loves her work, no rush, etc.

In specific terms, the activities include DFK, DATY, BBBJ and MSOG (for all but half hour dates). Some would say that BBBJ isn't necessarily part of a GFE (I say it is), but everyone agrees the other items are.

The posters on MERB have pretty well agreed not to call an escort a GFE unless she provides all four services, including BBBJ.

 

[luv-em-n-lv-em]

what people think GFE means

survey says

 

[American Male]

Good day to all, I am new to the perb site but I must say that I have found it quite informing. I am a local indie SP and I am hoping to get a better understanding of what different people consider "GFE". I am always uncomfortable when I am asked this by a new client because what GFE means to me could mean something totally different to you. I welcome as many opinions as possible and hopefull I will gain a better idea. Thank you.

Just to give you one more opinion, I am not sure the kissing has to be DFK in order for it to be GFE. It is the feeling of intimacy that the kissing gives that seems important. LFK could also be very intimate, but kissing must be part of any GFE experience.

The whole CBJ vs BBBJ is also an intimacy issue. Both are intimate, of course, but a CBJ that feels intense and intimate would certainly qualify. Part of the GFE for me in this area is eye contact. A little (but preferably a lot) eye contact makes any BJ feel more intimate.

DATY would also seem to me to be a necessary part of anything called GFE. Or at least offering DATY. Any guy who has a girlfriend should like the experience of going "down town" and offering her that extra stimulation. Plus, some guys (like me) think that DATY is fun.

I guess fun and intimacy are the two key components for me in order for a session with an SP to be a GFE.

Hope this helps.