How to give a mind blowing massage

[Lookingforinfo]

Hi Perb,
Hope it’s okay to ask for some client & provider opinions here on what a truly great massage experience is like for you?

Is it more of a cursory back rub for the aches and pains and a quick flip to get to more of the “good stuff”?

A slow tease of pleasure building up till you can’t take anymore?

How much actual massage therapy do you want a MP to give you?

I know everyone is different, but curious what makes a “gold standard” massage, in your opinion?

What makes for a poor experience? (other than obvious things like bait/switch, bad photos, bad attitude, poor communication.etc)

if you were a provider instead of a client, what would you do to keep your clients coming back for more?

Thanks!

 

[Langleydude]

For me personally a good massage has 3 parts. First the massage, I know I'm not at a massage therapist but I'm looking for more than a Two minute oily back rub. This also gives me time too relax and talk to the girl and see how we get along.

Second is the tease, as I get older the tease is getting more important because I do need a bit of time to get warmed up before the flip. The best at this are seamless in switching from massage to tease, one minute they're rubbing your neck and shoulders and the next they're playing with your balls.

Finally the flip, the biggest thing I'm looking for here is someone who wants to be there and to make sure it's a good time for both of us. It doesn't have to be the absolute greatest thing physically in order to be a good time. I've had sessions where the physical act was great but the girl seemed like she just wanted to get it over. I've also had others where it was still good but the girl was really into it and that made it so much more enjoyable for me.

 

[angry anderson]

When they massage your cock with their mouth is a good one.

 

[Lookingforinfo]

For me personally a good massage has 3 parts. First the massage, I know I'm not at a massage therapist but I'm looking for more than a Two minute oily back rub. This also gives me time too relax and talk to the girl and see how we get along.

Second is the tease, as I get older the tease is getting more important because I do need a bit of time to get warmed up before the flip. The best at this are seamless in switching from massage to tease, one minute they're rubbing your neck and shoulders and the next they're playing with your balls.

Finally the flip, the biggest thing I'm looking for here is someone who wants to be there and to make sure it's a good time for both of us. It doesn't have to be the absolute greatest thing physically in order to be a good time. I've had sessions where the physical act was great but the girl seemed like she just wanted to get it over. I've also had others where it was still good but the girl was really into it and that made it so much more enjoyable for me.

Thanks for the perspective!

I love touch and I get turned on even getting a spa massage, so the sweet tease of lying there feeling good but aching to feel even better is super hot to me, but I might be being kind of pervy about it. 😆

 

[musclebro]

I personally like when they can give an actual good massage, but I understand most arent trained in it. theres been a few girls over the years who have given close to rmt level massages, but thats rare these days.

As far as the teasing aspect , teasing is huge, I like when it starts when they are massaging your upper leg, and they accidentally graze your junk, then maybe they due that a few more times, then they start really teasing, I like a good 5 minutes of teasing (if not more) before the flip.

 

[jordymegs]

Years ago when my testosterone levels were near their peak I had a massage where the tease was so intense she brought me to orgasm without touching my cock.

That was mind blowing.

 

[Lowproperv]

Blow on their forehead while giving them a massage...you're welcome

 

[Naughty Knickers]

Oh, I’m just here, pen and paper ready!

 

[needfuntime]

Oh, I’m just here, pen and paper ready!

I hope you are using that pen and paper to write the how to guide. 😃

 

[Chuckerbie]

I hope you are using that pen and paper to write the how to guide. 😃

Knickers doesn’t need to take notes. She should be teaching how to.

 

[needfuntime]

Hi Perb,
Hope it’s okay to ask for some client & provider opinions here on what a truly great massage experience is like for you?

Is it more of a cursory back rub for the aches and pains and a quick flip to get to more of the “good stuff”?

A slow tease of pleasure building up till you can’t take anymore?

How much actual massage therapy do you want a MP to give you?

I know everyone is different, but curious what makes a “gold standard” massage, in your opinion?

What makes for a poor experience? (other than obvious things like bait/switch, bad photos, bad attitude, poor communication.etc)

if you were a provider instead of a client, what would you do to keep your clients coming back for more?

Thanks!

I am a big fan of massage but it’s difficult to answer this as I find massage is especially YMMV based on what the provider is open to and the chemistry between the provider and client.

In a general sense though, I will say that the best sessions include a lot of teasing and a slow, sensual release. If I am coming to someone for what is advertised as a sensual massage I am normally not looking for anything therapeutic. The provider and I both know why I’m there so let’s focus on that after maybe some gentle massage to calm the nerves, provide some relaxation and create some buildup. I prefer to usually leave something like deep tissue for when I’m going for an actual therapeutic massage as I don’t find that kind of massage to be relaxing.

The best sessions are the ones where the provider is clearly enjoying themselves and isn’t just going through the motions. Mutual touch is always enjoyable (if consent is given) but never expected.

Past poor experiences have included a messy environment, lots of noise or music that doesn’t add to the session, jackhammering, showing no overall emotion and running into someone coming or going. Sessions that also end well before the advertised time put a damper on things. I also personally prefer to know the full cost up front. Stopping to discuss other fees just has a negative effect on the flow of the session.

Consistency is what keeps me going back to the same providers. With the understanding that everyone has the odd off day, if overall the service is consistently good then I will keep coming back. Also if the same services are provided each time, if not more options each time, that keeps me coming back.

I know one provider who is very inconsistent in what they provide per session, which is too bad as if they combined all the best aspects of the multiple sessions they would have an amazing service. Consistency is key.

 

[80watts]

Warmed massage oil. Followed by an ice cube down the spine....

 

[Skyler Mack]

Hi Perb,
Hope it’s okay to ask for some client & provider opinions here on what a truly great massage experience is like for you?

Is it more of a cursory back rub for the aches and pains and a quick flip to get to more of the “good stuff”?

A slow tease of pleasure building up till you can’t take anymore?

How much actual massage therapy do you want a MP to give you?

I know everyone is different, but curious what makes a “gold standard” massage, in your opinion?

What makes for a poor experience? (other than obvious things like bait/switch, bad photos, bad attitude, poor communication.etc)

if you were a provider instead of a client, what would you do to keep your clients coming back for more?

Thanks!

While I’ve never experienced ‘the flip’…. lol I go for a lot of massages, usually 2x a week. My favourite is a deep tissue full body massage followed by reflexology. I’m there for about 2h. No preference on if it’s a female or male masseuse, but checking in about the pressure is important. I also don’t want any areas missed…. I LOVE getting my arms, hands and scalp massaged.

The hot towel at the end is my fave. And it better be hot, otherwise I’m a little disappointed 😆

I’m a giver, but when it comes to massage… I’m definitely a taker 🤷🏻‍♀️ especially when my job is so physical, it’s important that I allow myself to relax and be taken care of in that way.

In relationships I’ve always traded blow jobs for back rubs. Seems fair!!! 😉

 

[F-Pantangeli]

While I’ve never experienced ‘the flip’…. lol I go for a lot of massages, usually 2x a week. My favourite is a deep tissue full body massage followed by reflexology. I’m there for about 2h. No preference on if it’s a female or male masseuse, but checking in about the pressure is important. I also don’t want any areas missed…. I LOVE getting my arms, hands and scalp massaged.

The hot towel at the end is my fave. And it better be hot, otherwise I’m a little disappointed 😆

I’m a giver, but when it comes to massage… I’m definitely a taker 🤷🏻‍♀️ especially when my job is so physical, it’s important that I allow myself to relax and be taken care of in that way.

In relationships I’ve always traded blow jobs for back rubs. Seems fair!!! 😉

Sounds like a great trade to me!

 

[masterpoonhunter]

While I’ve never experienced ‘the flip’…. lol I go for a lot of massages, usually 2x a week. My favourite is a deep tissue full body massage followed by reflexology. I’m there for about 2h. No preference on if it’s a female or male masseuse, but checking in about the pressure is important. I also don’t want any areas missed…. I LOVE getting my arms, hands and scalp massaged.

The hot towel at the end is my fave. And it better be hot, otherwise I’m a little disappointed 😆

I’m a giver, but when it comes to massage… I’m definitely a taker 🤷🏻‍♀️ especially when my job is so physical, it’s important that I allow myself to relax and be taken care of in that way.

In relationships I’ve always traded blow jobs for back rubs. Seems fair!!! 😉

I've been known to provide amazing back rubs.
Just throwing that out there ...

 

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