How to find heaven with an SP

[Ghetto Child]

It comes down to how you treat your SP. Do you treat her like the absolute goddess she is or do you...

Think the biggest penis, rock hardest abs and a golden smile get you very far when you come in with a arrogant big poppa playa attitude and treat her no better than the family pet.

Every-time I read a review where I see someone bashing an SP, "I think, "you know what, your attitude may have made that session worse than it needed to be and that you came in with that same attitude in a session. That gave her a bad vibe which she then decided she was not going to work that extra bit harder in that session to make you happy. Guys who bash SP's should ask themselves how hard would they work for someone who did not show them any respect. Guys who bash SP's get the bad sessions they deserve.

It is a service. If you go into a restaurant and pre-judge how your going to treat a waitress even if you spend 100 dollars and tip well I bet she will avoid your table more than she normally would. All the Money you spend can buy you some sex but it does not buy you affection or respect.

I want to be at my best and still I feel very unworthy of half these girls time. They get my absolute respect, I want to do whatever they need me to do to satisfy them as much as they want to satisfy me. I want her to feel like she is the most special person in that room for every second I am with her I want to listen to her, know what turns her on, know what makes her smile, and what can put her on cloud nine. I want to give more than I take. I want to enjoy every second of her time.

Most guys come in there like they are buying a new car and always want to take way more than they give. Because they are paying for it. It's a consumer product to those guys. Yeah, I can see how this helps get an SP in the mood to spend quality time with you when you treat her like she is something you just purchased.

I am quiet and shy but I still take every chance to compliment her and let her know how much her time and companionship is appreciated. I always ask before I do anything to see if she is okay with it. I always want to know what she is feeling all the time. I take my time before we get to the main event. I try to enjoy the whole experience rather than focusing on one thing or another. I want to treat the SP like how every women wants to be treated and that is like she is the most important person in your world even if that is only for an hour.

I have never had a bad session. 51 sessions without a bad session.

My looks are about average to slightly above average depending on opinion. I am not Brad Pitt by no means. But I always seems to get a good session.

I have had only two mediocre sessions and even then they were good I just did not get the same level of service as I get from Cassidy but she's the gold standard by far. Heaven does not even begin to descried the time I've spend with Cassidy. Other great girls the wild Edmonton Leesa (Passions/Supreme), the smart and beautiful Sara (Supreme), the mind blowing Charmaine (MMC) the absolutely awesome earth shaker Gabrielle at (Supreme),the Intelligent and super erotic Bobby-Jo (Pent), the gentle and Graceful Sabrina at (pent.),the Sweet and sexy Samantha at (Pent.), the energetic Vienna at (Pent), The unforgettable Superstar SP Lauren (now at Pent.) are all spectacular women to spend every second of your time with.

Everyone of these SP's above are absolutely phenomenal and never disappoint. They are all in a class by themselves and I am sure there are plenty more but I cannot list everyone.

But I have never posted a bad review on here or on Alberta massage reviews. I am not their best looking client or anything spectacular but If you read everything above maybe that's why I do not have bad sessions. I go in, look in her eyes, tell her she's absolutely stunning and I want to do everything I can to please her and let her know her time, beauty, and service is appreciated and that I am just lucky to be there with her to begin with.

The end:

I am an SP lover not an SP fighter.

 

[noneasgood]

It comes down to how you treat your SP. Do you treat her like the absolute goddess she is or do you...

Think the biggest penis, rock hardest abs and a golden smile get you very far when you come in with a arrogant big poppa playa attitude and treat her no better than the family pet.

Every-time I read a review where I see someone bashing an SP, "I think, "you know what, your attitude may have made that session worse than it needed to be and that you came in with that same attitude in a session. That gave her a bad vibe which she then decided she was not going to work that extra bit harder in that session to make you happy. Guys who bash SP's should ask themselves how hard would they work for someone who did not show them any respect. Guys who bash SP's get the bad sessions they deserve.

It is a service. If you go into a restaurant and pre-judge how your going to treat a waitress even if you spend 100 dollars and tip well I bet she will avoid your table more than she normally would. All the Money you spend can buy you some sex but it does not buy you affection or respect.

I want to be at my best and still I feel very unworthy of half these girls time. They get my absolute respect, I want to do whatever they need me to do to satisfy them as much as they want to satisfy me. I want her to feel like she is the most special person in that room for every second I am with her I want to listen to her, know what turns her on, know what makes her smile, and what can put her on cloud nine. I want to give more than I take. I want to enjoy every second of her time.

Most guys come in there like they are buying a new car and always want to take way more than they give. Because they are paying for it. It's a consumer product to those guys. Yeah, I can see how this helps get an SP in the mood to spend quality time with you when you treat her like she is something you just purchased.

I am quiet and shy but I still take every chance to compliment her and let her know how much her time and companionship is appreciated. I always ask before I do anything to see if she is okay with it. I always want to know what she is feeling all the time. I take my time before we get to the main event. I try to enjoy the whole experience rather than focusing on one thing or another. I want to treat the SP like how every women wants to be treated and that is like she is the most important person in your world even if that is only for an hour.

I have never had a bad session. 51 sessions without a bad session.

My looks are about average to slightly above average depending on opinion. I am not Brad Pitt by no means. But I always seems to get a good session.

I have had only two mediocre sessions and even then they were good I just did not get the same level of service as I get from Cassidy but she's the gold standard by far. Heaven does not even begin to descried the time I've spend with Cassidy. Other great girls the wild Edmonton Leesa (Passions/Supreme), the smart and beautiful Sara (Supreme), the mind blowing Charmaine (MMC) the absolutely awesome earth shaker Gabrielle at (Supreme),the Intelligent and super erotic Bobby-Jo (Pent), the gentle and Graceful Sabrina at (pent.),the Sweet and sexy Samantha at (Pent.), the energetic Vienna at (Pent), The unforgettable Superstar SP Lauren (now at Pent.) are all spectacular women to spend every second of your time with.

Everyone of these SP's above are absolutely phenomenal and never disappoint. They are all in a class by themselves and I am sure there are plenty more but I cannot list everyone.

But I have never posted a bad review on here or on Alberta massage reviews. I am not their best looking client or anything spectacular but If you read everything above maybe that's why I do not have bad sessions. I go in, look in her eyes, tell her she's absolutely stunning and I want to do everything I can to please her and let her know her time, beauty, and service is appreciated and that I am just lucky to be there with her to begin with.

The end:

I am an SP lover not an SP fighter.

Excellent post. This should be required reading on this site. The bottom line is you can't buy intimacy. You have to earn it !!

 

[ieatcunny]

Check them out

Hey Guys...

If you are going to see a lady do your research first!!!!!

Make sure she is what you are looking for!!!!

One of the biggest problems I see is when you call for an 18yr old spinner and some 35 yr old shows up at your door.

A little honesty can go a long way in in improving the experience for both the clients and SPs!!!!




ieatcunny

 

[Swguy]

It comes down to how you treat your SP. Do you treat her like the absolute goddess she is or do you...

Think the biggest penis, rock hardest abs and a golden smile get you very far when you come in with a arrogant big poppa playa attitude and treat her no better than the family pet.

Every-time I read a review where I see someone bashing an SP, "I think, "you know what, your attitude may have made that session worse than it needed to be and that you came in with that same attitude in a session. That gave her a bad vibe which she then decided she was not going to work that extra bit harder in that session to make you happy. Guys who bash SP's should ask themselves how hard would they work for someone who did not show them any respect. Guys who bash SP's get the bad sessions they deserve.

It is a service. If you go into a restaurant and pre-judge how your going to treat a waitress even if you spend 100 dollars and tip well I bet she will avoid your table more than she normally would. All the Money you spend can buy you some sex but it does not buy you affection or respect.

I want to be at my best and still I feel very unworthy of half these girls time. They get my absolute respect, I want to do whatever they need me to do to satisfy them as much as they want to satisfy me. I want her to feel like she is the most special person in that room for every second I am with her I want to listen to her, know what turns her on, know what makes her smile, and what can put her on cloud nine. I want to give more than I take. I want to enjoy every second of her time.

Most guys come in there like they are buying a new car and always want to take way more than they give. Because they are paying for it. It's a consumer product to those guys. Yeah, I can see how this helps get an SP in the mood to spend quality time with you when you treat her like she is something you just purchased.

I am quiet and shy but I still take every chance to compliment her and let her know how much her time and companionship is appreciated. I always ask before I do anything to see if she is okay with it. I always want to know what she is feeling all the time. I take my time before we get to the main event. I try to enjoy the whole experience rather than focusing on one thing or another. I want to treat the SP like how every women wants to be treated and that is like she is the most important person in your world even if that is only for an hour.

I have never had a bad session. 51 sessions without a bad session.

My looks are about average to slightly above average depending on opinion. I am not Brad Pitt by no means. But I always seems to get a good session.

I have had only two mediocre sessions and even then they were good I just did not get the same level of service as I get from Cassidy but she's the gold standard by far. Heaven does not even begin to descried the time I've spend with Cassidy. Other great girls the wild Edmonton Leesa (Passions/Supreme), the smart and beautiful Sara (Supreme), the mind blowing Charmaine (MMC) the absolutely awesome earth shaker Gabrielle at (Supreme),the Intelligent and super erotic Bobby-Jo (Pent), the gentle and Graceful Sabrina at (pent.),the Sweet and sexy Samantha at (Pent.), the energetic Vienna at (Pent), The unforgettable Superstar SP Lauren (now at Pent.) are all spectacular women to spend every second of your time with.

Everyone of these SP's above are absolutely phenomenal and never disappoint. They are all in a class by themselves and I am sure there are plenty more but I cannot list everyone.

But I have never posted a bad review on here or on Alberta massage reviews. I am not their best looking client or anything spectacular but If you read everything above maybe that's why I do not have bad sessions. I go in, look in her eyes, tell her she's absolutely stunning and I want to do everything I can to please her and let her know her time, beauty, and service is appreciated and that I am just lucky to be there with her to begin with.

The end:

I am an SP lover not an SP fighter.

Amen, brother...

Couldn't agree more. Some guys just don't get it...


SWG

 

[therealrex]

But I have never posted a bad review on here or on Alberta massage reviews. I am not their best looking client or anything spectacular but If you read everything above maybe that's why I do not have bad sessions. I go in, look in her eyes, tell her she's absolutely stunning and I want to do everything I can to please her and let her know her time, beauty, and service is appreciated and that I am just lucky to be there with her to begin with.

The end:

I am an SP lover not an SP fighter.

Not that I don't agree with a lot of what he said but this last bit is a bit much. I don't feel like I'm lucky just to be there I'm there because I paid a significant amount of money to be there and I expect to be treated well and if I'm not I don't see the problem in honest criticism. Great for him if he's never had a bad session but I don't think he'd recognize it even if he did with his outlook. Some might call that a good thing but it is a little delusional.

 

[Ghetto Child]

What do you expect, that is the question?

Not that I don't agree with a lot of what he said but this last bit is a bit much. I don't feel like I'm lucky just to be there I'm there because I paid a significant amount of money to be there and I expect to be treated well and if I'm not I don't see the problem in honest criticism. Great for him if he's never had a bad session but I don't think he'd recognize it even if he did with his outlook. Some might call that a good thing but it is a little delusional.

The words are that you expect top-notch service because I paid money so I expect great service. Lots of guys expect something. Everyone expects something different. What is good for me is not necessarily good enough for you. She may not have been willing to perform all the stuff you requested nor is she obligated to.

I have had bad sex, not at a MP, so I know what it is. Empty quick and pointless.

I paid a significant amount of money so I expect". says this to an SP, " I do not give a damn about you and what you think just screw me the way I want to be screwed and I will tell you when I am happy" How enticing is that.

Sex is not a product. You cannot make her feel for you or even like being with you. Sex does not come off an assembly line. It is only as good as both sides make it. It is very personal gift she is giving you. That is what you should be grateful for.

I have had mediocre sessions that I did not get all I wanted. But I made the best of the situation. Now the SP may not have given good service, but people are too quick to place sole blame on a SP and never look at themselves or the choices they made.

"The because I paid for it attitude", shows and SP's are more than savvy enough to see that front guys put on whether the clients realize it or not. Even the best SP's I know will want you out quicker when you attitude is, "perform cause I paid." They are people just like you. Treat them that way.

I go into the session wanting to give my best and I am grateful for every second of her time. I don't go in feeling I am owed anything. I treat it like sex with any girlfriend. She does not owe me anything.

An SP does not have to provide you her service, and your money does not make you worth her time. She can walk you if she wants. An SP is not required to offer you anything. I feel bad. I think the SP's service a lot of guys for the money that sometime they should have just walked.

What you say makes most girls feel like they are bought, and there is nothing sexy or attractive about that to any girl. Who wants to be treated like a consumer product.

If you buy a girlfriend a car, does she owe you something. Does she owe you sex. NO. I spend a lot more on girlfriends than SP's and don't have these expectations.

I love every SP, I want to treat her better than I treat myself. Does it prevent my chances of a bad session. NO! But it helps. Does it make it easier for an SP to provide me great service. Yes!

If you want to make it harder for her to satisfy you. Than that is what it is going to be, Harder. Easier is better. I smile more when its easier.

 

[wolverine]

Eh. I'm not reading all that. And I doubt if I'm learning anything new. Sorry, GC.

I should add that respect is a two-way street. Some SPs do treat their clients like a trick assembly line or walking ATMs, and those are the ones with the less-than favorable reviews.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Keep this up Child, and you'll get lots of free sessions.

Hey, somebody will probably want to marry you, if you're not already that is. You sound way too nice for Perb!

Proselytizing has a familiar ring after a while, but like Wolvie suggests, it is the stuff of Morpheus...

Now, where did I put my rose coloured glasses?

 

[ace85]

I'm not being too hard on you...but somehow it is hard to believe or perhaps you just don't expect much from people period. And at the same token, I don't think it will make a big deal if anybody get a good review from you...since it is too easy to please you.
It doesn't make the girl feel so special, when she gets a good review from you.

People love challenge,even in this businenss...believe me.

I have posted about pre visit attitude and expectations.

Average good and great sessions tend to be the result.

Now as far as "paying good money" goes, too many guys are hung up on this, just like a lot of SPs. If I have say $200 and the session is supposed to be $220, and the SP is hung up on the $20, a red flag goes up, just like if I have $240 I really shouldn't care about giving her the extra $20.

Personally I look at the donation like a facilitaor, and the rest of the session is up to us. I don't like the X for Y scenario.

Ghetto you definitely are going to sprain your shoulder patting yourself on the back for being the consumate nice guy. There is a saying about the nice guy. And just so you know, sometimes after the "nice guy" leaves the SP will make a little fun of the nice guy for being an ATM. It happens more than you know.

If all the SP's love you and "give you" great sessions, you are probably suffering from just happy to be there syndrome, and not maximizing the event. As MEIKO says ( and she has a good perpective).

Now attitude is a personally thing so SPs like the customers that are a little bit more aggressive, or a bit of a challenge, or a bit cocky.

The reality is, you should want to be respected more than liked.

 

[Tiffany]

Actually Ace

I hate when my clients come in cocky!! It actually changes my attitude towards them. They don't get a bad session, but I wouldn't say it's my best either. It's a respect thing. My favorite clients are the ones who come in and are happy to see me and ask if they can try this new idea they had. Anything new and exciting always gets me. Being cocky and having an attitude always puts a major downer on things. My other favorites are the ones who come in to relax. That way I can control the session and give major pampering!! But every girl likes something different.

Tiff

 

[mexman]

Love me for who I am

Hey I go in there with my cock in one hand and my money in the other.

 

[ace85]

I hate when my clients come in cocky!! It actually changes my attitude towards them. They don't get a bad session, but I wouldn't say it's my best either. It's a respect thing. My favorite clients are the ones who come in and are happy to see me and ask if they can try this new idea they had. Anything new and exciting always gets me. Being cocky and having an attitude always puts a major downer on things. My other favorites are the ones who come in to relax. That way I can control the session and give major pampering!! But every girl likes something different.

Tiff

Actually, there are some SP's who like it.

Cocky and Arrogant are two different things.

I would assume an attractive girl like you likes someone who has confidence in their appearance and the rest of themselves.

I personally find women that are confident extremely appealing. By no means did I mean full of themselves.

 

[barneyrubble]

Cocky and Arrogant are two different things.

and self-confident is different from both.

(most) women like a man that is self-confident. (most) women do not like a man that is arrogant. cocky, well that is split 50-50...and too many guys start out cocky but soon venture into arrogant ... know anyone like that ace?

 

[Maury Beniowski]

He bought me a car because of it. Go figure!

Ouch, I hope CCRA isn't reading this...

 

[Webster]

Ghetto you definitely are going to sprain your shoulder patting yourself on the back for being the consumate nice guy. There is a saying about the nice guy. And just so you know, sometimes after the "nice guy" leaves the SP will make a little fun of the nice guy for being an ATM. It happens more than you know.

I prefer GC's attitude, but I've found that some SPs view cuddly attention as a different kind of maintenance. I like being chatty for instance, and the effort to blab with some goggle-eyed stranger who's conflicted between slurping on a nipple or explaining some boring hobby/asking questions that you find too personal has got to take some effort.

Hats off to the ladies for, uh, emptying my wallet with patience.

 

[rollerboy]

He bought me a car because of it. He said, he gets bored really easy with nice girls. Go figure!

Doh! File that under the thread "The dumbest thing I ever did!"

 

[rollerboy]

No Cars Here!

I defy any woman to put that much hurt on my dumb ass.

I enjoy a good emotional working over as much as the next Perbert, but that way lay dragons. I'm too old to live with my folks, and they're not old enough to live with me!

Love the ladies, though.

 

[Ghetto Child]

Much the opposite

I'm not being too hard on you...but somehow it is hard to believe or perhaps you just don't expect much from people period. And at the same token, I don't think it will make a big deal if anybody get a good review from you...since it is too easy to please you.
It doesn't make the girl feel so special, when she gets a good review from you.

People love challenge,even in this business...believe me.

I have had two mediocre sessions. I expect as much from others as I expect from myself which is a lot. Even in what I consider a good session some are better and some are excellent. Lauren, Cassidy, Gabrielle give excellent service. I go by an MP and count cars some times. If the MP is dead all the time I don't go to that MP. I take my time choosing girls. I have spent more time waiting for a session than in a session since I know what I want. If I do not get a good vide, I do not stay. Research helps avoid a lot of bad sessions.

I know what I want, I do not let every little thing get me down. I love DATY, very few girls offer it, but for the one's that don't I find something else they like and try to enjoy that as much as possible.

I love to give more than I take, but what's wrong with that?

 

[therealrex]

So then what you said before was just a big steaming pile of bullshit

 

[Ghetto Child]

The Ghetto stikes back

So then what you said before was just a big steaming pile of bullshit

I said I had two so-so sessions. What I said was that I have never had a bad session. I have had 30 great sessions, 20 good sessions and 2 that were not bad. So Y'all be trippin' fa' nuthin'.

All I am am saying if you go in with a good attitude then good thangs are more likely to happen. Combine that with choosing wisely. God gave you both a penis and a brain. Or at least most of us he blessed that way not directed at you but generally to some others.

There are some girls that yes no matter what you do you cannot get good service from them. For the most part they are not hard to spot.

Those SP's don't carry conversations very long, they do not ask whether they are the one you want to spend time with today, they go in the room and assume the situation, and they do not want to answer more than one or two questions and they want to go for gold and get it over with.

Lauren, Cassidy and Bobbi-Jo, Sabrina, Samantha, Ashley and Vienna ask if they are the one you want to spend time with today. They are more than happy to talk with you, they do not make you wait for them for long periods of time, they have no problems answering any of your questions and they smile when you smile. They make good eye contact with you and love to tease you verbally even before a session and they have fun with you.

There are other girls out there that do not want to answer any questions, they make you wait way to long for them to even start a session, they check their watches three times when you ask them questions, they do not make much eye contact and they assume when you come in that they are the one you will spend your time with. These vibes tell me, choose someone else. They do not seem that interested or act impatient. They are not fun or enthusiastic.

Caution, Good old-fashion common sense and Human decency is the only thing I am full of. So don't be hattin' on me. Ah-ight!

Only Peace from da Ghetto baby! Good NYC LUVin' strait outta da Bronx.