How much does your desire for sex and your sexuallity control your life?

[johnsmit]

I think this is the right place to ask this..

I know for myself . the desire for sex... or maybe just for an intamate relationship with another person.. preferably a woman... has had dribing force in my life... More so as i aged.
I all was found my self attracted to different women i met.. but was never able to .state up any relationship . other then .friend.... And although we were close in some way .. ..and maybe i just .. did not see the opertunities .. or chose not to tske advantage of certain situations.
But i admit the desire was there.. where as i full filled it with porn and . taking care of it myself..
It was only in the last 9 years.. that. i actually . exspested that need . with someone .. Escorf... which i very octen turned in to friends of some kind .. and then sex and intamecy became lost..

Of course.. the only thing that.infulances it the most .. is weather i can afford to spend the money .. or even have it to spend..

 

[tantalizeme]

Hi Max,

I think your question needs a poll:

How much does your sexuality control your life?

1. The desire for sex has been the dominant motivator in my life.

2. The desire for sex has been an influential factor in my life, along with other desires.

3. The desire for sex has been just a minor trivial itch in my life and is easy to gratify through self-pleasuring.

Myself, I'd have to check off Option 1. I guess, some of us are made that way and wouldn't really want it any different.


Thanks Max (or John) for sharing thoughts that probably come from the depths of your anguish and loneliness.

 

[luvsdaty]

When I was 16? my every waking moment. Now? not so much but I enjoy it so much more.

 

[johnsmit]

Yes i must admit it comes from the depths of my anguish and loneliness.. that very estute of you..
But i also realize that is a factor.. with many of the men that see escorts... or all looking for that sexual gratification in there life.. and have not found what truely will fill that emptiness in there heart yet

 

[sevenofnine]

I think it varies a lot with age, and maybe experience.

Younger I was horny as hell.
I think it changed as I got older,
in that when I was younger sex was something purely physical, the older I got the more I needed or wanted some emotional attachment or connection.

I don't know why perhaps something lacking in my life, and sex when I started this, to I was so horny,

But after many years in this hobby, lots of seeing an sp, and emotional attachment.
It isn't that big of a deal,

I think its partly just the nature of this, I mean I really enjoy the emotional connection I have with the women I see, but she sees other clients, even just guys, It gets rather complicated, crowded,
She is good to me don't get me wrong, but it feels rather crowded, I am still generous with her in that I pay her.
I don't know, how important is it, that I continue with all of that, not really.

I do because the end of the day I can, and it doesn't drive me crazy, but do I worry about it,

Do I really need to love some one, or them me, no, or even have sex, no,
You just kind of do at some point because its there and available,
As time goes by you have less and less of a vested sort of desperate I need this approach to this or anything for that matter.

 

[UhOh]

Sometimes its gotten me in trouble but enough about that, the important question here is what phone did you type that original post on? I just want to be sure I never buy one of those.

 

[yazoo]

Just the location has changed as I've got older. When I was young I just wanted to rut like a mountain goat. Now it's all about oral. DATY and BBBJ are my staples.

 

[johnsmit]

yah i have to say i was very late seaking out any sexual full fillment.. .
As for the phone.. we all know that is not the prob.

Just dont get maxx to type anything for you lol
.
I definitly think that may be part of.problem . Girls like guys that can spell
. or at least say what they are feeling.. I cant... but i can text .. and e-mail.. and then they are even more cunfussed... .

 

[sevenofnine]

for me, DATY and BBBJ are now staples for foreplay

I tend to agree,
bj's daty

and to be honest a few more,
Which I never thought for the life of me I would do.
My kinky side has come out.
But still at the end of the day how much do I worry about it or does it matter,

Not a hell of a lot.