how long to wait before moving to plan B

[Muffdiver69]

So just wondering how long one should wait for an answer after trying to contact a lady.

I will never try to contact several at same time and take first one. Always one at a time. I usually give it
max 60-90 minutes. If i do not get a reply (to email or text) i will move on to next.

Would it be rude to add a disclaimer to your contact email/text that if i do not get a reply by x-time, thank you but
i am moving on?

sometimes i will book several days in advance so the above isnt really an issue. But other times it is a spur of the moment and
thus seek an appoint for later that same day. Had the above situation come up on Saturday. Made first contact by email at around
0830 (persons ad was just posted early too so figured she be up) But by 1030 i heard nothing back so moved to next one and made
appointment. When i got home i saw reply from first at a bit after 1100. So that is why i think i will add in the reply by disclaimer to
avoid disappointment and being thot of as a no-show.

 

[Aellyn Rose]

A lady's point of view, for what it's worth...

I don't think you'll be considered a no-show if nothing was setup and confirmed. A no-show actually impacts a lady's day because she prepared for this gentleman, reserved that specific time for him etc. If you got no response, she clearly has not made plans to see you, short notice or not. I wouldn't worry about it.

The ladies know there are spur-of-the-moment calls and planned calls. I think it's fair that you would move on for a spur-of-the-moment call - by definition Especially if the "available now" ad is up you should expect a response quite quickly...

 

[badbadboy]

So just wondering how long one should wait for an answer after trying to contact a lady.

I will never try to contact several at same time and take first one. Always one at a time. I usually give it
max 60-90 minutes. If i do not get a reply (to email or text) i will move on to next.

Would it be rude to add a disclaimer to your contact email/text that if i do not get a reply by x-time, thank you but
i am moving on?

sometimes i will book several days in advance so the above isnt really an issue. But other times it is a spur of the moment and
thus seek an appoint for later that same day. Had the above situation come up on Saturday. Made first contact by email at around
0830 (persons ad was just posted early too so figured she be up) But by 1030 i heard nothing back so moved to next one and made
appointment. When i got home i saw reply from first at a bit after 1100. So that is why i think i will add in the reply by disclaimer to
avoid disappointment and being thot of as a no-show.

I typically book a week in advance so who I see depends on the lady's availability. If I send out request and haven't heard back from her in max 48 hours (dependent upon who it is) then I look at seeing others.

A few I see will text me and others still use email so they don't need a work phone. No biggie. If I want to see them, I'll wait.

I had a situation a year or so ago where I had a confirmed appointment and got cancelled a couple of hours before the date. I then emailed two other SP's (Plan B and Plan C) who both accepted to see me on short notice.

I jumped in the shower to get ready only to find Plan B had cancelled because of a scheduling problem and Plan C was a newcomer whom I had never met.

Turned out Plan C was absolutely amazing.

It's nice when sometimes the stars align and it leads me to a new provider who is happy to see me.

 

[badbadboy]

Very Timely Thread lol

Initial Contact July 2 and day/time preferences were proposed.

Reply received July 3 positive but with some confusion as to the time period I required.

Email sent July 5 with clarification.

No response to July 5 email.

PM sent on Perb July 6 AM. SP was online numerous times during the day but did not respond.

Email sent July 6 PM - i.e. the final one

So, the Plan B and Plan C are very active now.

Life used to be much simpler.

Call the SP, propose a day / time and it was usually dealt with at that time.

Now something that is supposed to be easy and fun becomes a bit of a challenge with the non responses.

 

[NataliaBijoux]

Some ladies won't reply after 1 hr or so... Some of the SP's state that in their ad..
Maybe try to send a email or text again if it's been that long