How do you say.....

[moi]

F-off in polite terms?

I haven't been in the dating scene for a LONGGG time and went on a date. We chatted quite a bit on the phone before meeting HOWEVER, I had no indication he was that dense.

Maybe I'm being just a little bit judgemental here, but while we were sharing travel stories, I happened to mention visiting Indonesia and China. He replied with, "Oh how long were you in the Middle East for?"

I played dumb just to see if he was for real and he said "Oh I thought you said Indonesia."

Umm...we proceeded to have a "friendly" (if you call me getting frustrated inside friendly) argument on Geography, him constantly insisting "I know my Geography, I have books at home" and me politely (or trying to be) informing him the Middle East consists of Saudi, Iraq and the like.
He THEN said "Yea, Iraq. I know. Indonesia is beside Iraq."

I was getting a little more than slightly irritated by this time with animated hand gestures trying to place the Middle East and Borneo on an imaginary globe all the while thinking "I need to go home NOW".

By this time he was still adamant he knew his Geography and I was starting to get indigestion from a combination of lunch's oily french fries and the dust swirling around his car (i could write my name on the dashboard clearly) so he decided to "give in".

Now he keeps calling me and I really don't know how you tell someone he's just too dumb to have a conversation with and to not call me anymore.

Nice guy? yes.
Smart guy? Maybe when it comes to Rigs.
Compatibility? Zilch. Nil. Nothing.
Second date? I'd rather play leap frog with a unicorn.

Any suggestions on how to POLITELY tell him we are not compatible?

 

[HB40]

Any suggestions on how to POLITELY tell him we are not compatible?

I could pretend to be your boyfriend.

Of course we will have to be convincing.

Or you could just tell him the date was a bust and theres no point going further.

 

[ageek1]

Maybe he was mixed up on "Far" and "Middle" East!

Politely...Had a good time but think you are both looking for something else. Keep it short and sweet and try to end the conversation quickly!

Reality...suggest a trip outside NA and move to the US, he'll fit in great with the geography knowledge down there. Before Americans start crucifing me, I'm generalizing of course!

 

[Guardian Angel]

F-off in polite terms?



Any suggestions on how to POLITELY tell him we are not compatible?

Tell him you have given dating a lot of thought and with your schooling, studying and part time job, you just don't have time to date.

Oh yeah and tell him you have a Guardian Angel to look after too, lol.

G.A.

 

[DQ Guy]

or you could simply say fu*k OFF...??

 

[MrPeterNorth]

FUCK OFF. So succinct. So simple. So straight forward

I suffer the same fate when it comes to dating airheads. "I like to travel" they say. Then I hear about the 15th time they've been to Vegas in 3 years.

 

[curmudgeon]

Tell him to "Go forth and multiply"

 

[Willingham]

How much were you gonna charge him??

 

[Validator]

U can say whatever u want to break it off as long as it can't be interpreted for something else and it's straight forward (eg. I don't think this is workibng out vs I'm busy). Guys don't get hints easily..let alone a dumb one. U can lie to him too. U don't know him nor owe him anything (including the truth) so u could lie to let him down easily if u really want to. The point I stress is that it's direct and that he knows 100% its not happening. 95% of the guys that hear "no" keep trying or think that things will change so best to just as clear and as blunt as possible.

 

[Lady Companion]

I would go with the polite route

There is no sense in hurting somebodys feelings if you don't need to.

A white lie to entirely spare his feelings - and often the best first attempt at getting them to leave you along "I had a wonderful time with you last week, but the timing is really off. I ran into an ex the other day, and we still have that spark. We are trying to reconcile, so I really can't have you calling me anymore."

If that doesn't work you could try a more direct route

"You seem like a really great guy - but I just didn't feel the spark I was looking for. I enjoy in depth discussions, and we don't seem to be that compatible in terms of what we are interested and knowledgeabe with. I wish you the best with everything in life, but I really don't think we make a good match"

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[moi]

^ thanks classy. i took the direct approach via text message. i was in class all day and he mistook my phone being on silent and me not replying as me ignoring and sent me a few more after that being slightly more than emo lol.

*sigh* back to the fishtank!

 

[HB40]

^ thanks classy. i took the direct approach via text message. i was in class all day and he mistook my phone being on silent and me not replying as me ignoring and sent me a few more after that being slightly more than emo lol.

I hope you let him down easy and didn't hurt his feelings too much.

But you got a good laugh at his expense, so it's all good.

 

[CJ Tylers]

Moi, where are you fishing? If it's online, good luck... I've entirely given up on finding someone that matches my interests and tastes on the web... it's a common sentiment, I think.

 

[Krustee]

F-off in polite terms?

Phuk oeuf
or
sexe au loin

Maybe I'm being just a little bit judgemental here,

Not being judgmental, just a bit conceited & haughty is all

By this time he was still adamant he knew his Geography and I was starting to get indigestion from a combination of lunch's oily french fries and the dust swirling around his car (i could write my name on the dashboard clearly) so he decided to "give in".

Was that Indonesian indigestion?

Nice guy? yes.

Are you a nice gal?

Smart guy? Maybe when it comes to Rigs.

Is that insider talk for drug users or is you talkin about drillin fer oil.

Compatibility? Zilch. Nil. Nothing.

I bet you say that about all the boys.

Second date? I'd rather play leap frog with a unicorn.

That sounds fun, make sure you use a condom!

Any suggestions on how to POLITELY tell him we are not compatible?

Just ask him to read this post.

I haven't been in the dating scene for a LONGGG time and went on a date.

REALLY?
I woulda never guessed?

 

[Krustee]

Tell him to "Go forth and multiply"

Let's not exa****ate the problem.


HOLY SHIT!!!

this phuking board won't let me spell exacer-bate!!!!!

Talk about paranoia will destroy ya!!!



Betcha I can't spell **** or terf either! (c.e.r.f. t.e.r.f.)

Well 50% ain't that bad.

 

[jackcb]

"I had a wonderful time with you last week, but the timing is really off. "


Someone told me this on tuesday of last week. Made absolutely no sense whatsever. I'd rather have it in a nice honest answer, rather than a thin veiled excuse On moi's problem though, if the guy is dense, Just say your not interested in a relationship at this time.

 

[deberry]

Just tell him to FUCK OFF! Simple and to the point.

F-off in polite terms?

I haven't been in the dating scene for a LONGGG time and went on a date. We chatted quite a bit on the phone before meeting HOWEVER, I had no indication he was that dense.

Maybe I'm being just a little bit judgemental here, but while we were sharing travel stories, I happened to mention visiting Indonesia and China. He replied with, "Oh how long were you in the Middle East for?"

I played dumb just to see if he was for real and he said "Oh I thought you said Indonesia."

Umm...we proceeded to have a "friendly" (if you call me getting frustrated inside friendly) argument on Geography, him constantly insisting "I know my Geography, I have books at home" and me politely (or trying to be) informing him the Middle East consists of Saudi, Iraq and the like.
He THEN said "Yea, Iraq. I know. Indonesia is beside Iraq."

I was getting a little more than slightly irritated by this time with animated hand gestures trying to place the Middle East and Borneo on an imaginary globe all the while thinking "I need to go home NOW".

By this time he was still adamant he knew his Geography and I was starting to get indigestion from a combination of lunch's oily french fries and the dust swirling around his car (i could write my name on the dashboard clearly) so he decided to "give in".

Now he keeps calling me and I really don't know how you tell someone he's just too dumb to have a conversation with and to not call me anymore.

Nice guy? yes.
Smart guy? Maybe when it comes to Rigs.
Compatibility? Zilch. Nil. Nothing.
Second date? I'd rather play leap frog with a unicorn.

Any suggestions on how to POLITELY tell him we are not compatible?

 

[trackstar]

Just tell him to FUCK OFF! Simple and to the point.

And oh so classy

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

... wait, what??


First you played dumb, and now you're trying to convince him that you're not dumb enough for him????



At least there are no innocent victims in this one.


(just the title of an old movie played out in real life)