How do some SP’s do it?

[Steve Ray]

Now we’ve been discussing all the reasons why certain SP’s continuously give bad service. It seems that it is the client’s responsibility to make the session good. He should adapt to her personality, wear her favorite cologne, discuss her favorite topic, partake in her favorite positions and be prepared to pay for substandard service.

Now this makes me wonder. Why do some SP’s always give great service? For example Sandy, Gabby, Lilith, etc always perform great. Reviews are always positive and praise the SP’s ability to adapt to different clients.

I have visited bad SP’s in the past and received bad service. I also visited good SP’s and received good service. My personality does not change overnight so one must assume that the difference in service lies with the SP and not with me.

Please don’t tell me that it is personality conflicts. That does not pan out when ten different guys have a bad session with a particular SP. There may be a personality conflict in that the SP never gets along with any of her clients.

 

[littlejonny]

It's called professionalism and lack of it.

 

[Cali Scott]

I have always thought it a matter of whether they enjoy their work or not as well as how tweaked in the head they are.

Being able to please them as well probably contributes to good service (I'm not saying that you don't or can't).

No matter what, some chicks have GOT to be sick of guys. Some of use (a lot of us?) are pretty gross - If I were a chick, I'd be a lesbian! Hell, for that matter, I think that I already AM.

 

[threepeat]

I think the good SPs realize that the regular customer is their bread and butter, so over the long run, treating your customers well makes more sense than trying to squeeze an extra $50 from a guy they just met and who doesn't know any better. This is especially true in a relatively small city like Edmonton, where most pooners are residents as opposed to tourists.

They say that in the real (non-SP) world, it costs five to ten times as much money to attract a new customer as it does to keep an existing one. If these figures even remotely translate to the world of SPs and pooners, it makes sense on a lot of levels to try and develop a core group of customers.

 

[logsplitter]

New ladies to the business and young ladies are often not so good on the full service end. They see it like 'Hey I can have sex, I know how, I need the money' so they put their shingle up and deliver what they think we get elsewhere. Since they haven't hired a sp themselves they have no idea what the other ladies are doing so they just do what mother nature taught them to do. Ladies that work in agencies figure things out quicker because they can compare notes with the other ladies.

Even ladies that have been doing it for a while really don't have any idea what is good and what is average service etc (particularly if they are indepentdent). I read a thread here the other day where a sp that I know posted an inquiry about how much head bobbing is appropriate for good service giving head. I have seen this lady and she gives very good service in every way. It just brought home the point to me that the business is a self training exercise for the lady. The smart ones gradually find out what works to keep a guy coming back and repeat that with their clients. Some of this learning curve is market driven.

Just because a bbbj is not as common in Wpg. it may be essential in Montreal or Vancouver.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Interesting observations, however I think attitude will win over technique in the long run. Especially with pooners over thirty-five. In fact as they age further, the Kama Sutra girl will easily be dismissed in favour of the conversationalist, the wordly woman whose horizons have extended far beyond the norm.

 

[Avery]

Interesting observations, however I think attitude will win over technique in the long run. Especially with pooners over thirty-five. In fact as they age further, the Kama Sutra girl will easily be dismissed in favour of the conversationalist, the wordly woman whose horizons have extended far beyond the norm.

The true courtesans, generally over 30, are both "Kama Sutra girls" and excellent company. So, you can have both attitude and technique. If they take care of themselves, they can look damn good too.

The young spinners may have almost perfect bodies, but they're rarely highly skilled, and even more rarely are they good company for older pooners.

 

[bb_1950]

Quote:Just because a bbbj is not as common in Wpg. it may be essential in Montreal or Vancouver.

Well just about every one I've seen in Winnipeg does!

 

[wolverine]

I'm not going to generalize SPs by their age, because there have been some young ones who are popular because they know what they're doing (Lauren, Samantha, Shawna, the young-spinner-du-jour at Prestige). If anything, my theory is that it depends on their upbringing and past sexual experiences.

A young but top-notch SP likely had a steady SO during her high school and early college/university years, thus allowing her plenty of time to experiment and learn; and I've noticed that they tend to hail from relatively normal middle-class families.

A young but inexperienced and/or indifferent SP is probably from a more dysfunctional background of abuse, neglect...and her relationships were of a similar strain (being a gangsta's property, being pimped into SWing or whatever). Any service and attitude improvements they gain is from on-the-job learning...or at least learning how to put up a good front.

Conversely, veteran SPs may decline in their L/A/S ratings due to aging, getting embittered by the job or by men, or other factors that effect her life in general (SO, kids, mortgage, education, etc). But that could also stem back to her upbringing too.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

...In fact as they age further, the Kama Sutra girl will easily be dismissed in favour of the conversationalist,....

Damn straight Maury. If she's 93, I'd rather be chattin' any day.

 

[Clueless in AB]

Imho

It is my impression that some SPs are pleasers and some are takers. Considering that no one here is a mind reader, Daisy pointed out what is a required skill to improve service: reading your clients.

It's an old joke, but it has been my experience that some girls use it as their guide to service:
"Q: How do you please a man? A: Show up naked & bring beer!"

And I agree with wolvie: past sexual experience is brought to the bedroom. Also, it wouldn't hurt a couple of SPs to pick up a Playboy or surf the net for sex advice.