1) Hard or soft? Medium to light touch...like a finger tickle on the back...firm, yet light touch....
2) Slow or fast? Slow at first, then Fast until the very end....then a slow gentle suck
3) Fingers in vagina or not? Just inside, curved up, but pushing down on the perenium, and one playing aroung a little lower.....
4) Tongue stiff or tongue soft? medium, but depending on mood
5) Tongues pointed or tongue flat? pointed.....to get to the point, but flat when teasing and playing to get it going.
6) Consistent rhythm or changing? consistant except when warming up
7) How long ? really? 10-20 min. Depending on mood and how well I'm worked up B4 the toungue lashing begins.
8) Up & down or side to side? up and down....just above clit(on the hood), or a combo of over and under(up and down)....never directly on top...too sensitive. No sucking.....too sensitive....untill very end when I beg for just a little gentle suck.
9) Other touching included ? where? NIPPLES, breasts....all around breasts....not just the nipple, but grabbing the entire breast.....
10) Is intimacy important or does it matter at this point? some...like hand holding.....but I've been known to crush a few fingers...or a good solid hold on my hips....
11) Does 69 aid or distract? distraction
12) Is G-spot orgasm as important as clitoral? they're very different from each other
13) Communication ? what if we really don?t know?I usually show or tell. You can read by moans, by body movement, if she moves closer.....keep doing what you are doing, if she pulls away slightly, try something else....also, during, try not to ask..."does that feel good?" etc...it's a distraction. If she is really relaxed and getting louder, it probably means she's close. If she's really tense and dead quiet, almost not breathing...that's me, and I AM PRETTY MUCH THERE.
