I am 45, average looking, very good in bed, and am wondering if it is possible for a man with a high sex drive to be faithful? I have been stuck with men with low sex drives but they have been very faithful. Is it a dream to find a man who is both faithful and have a high sex drive? Is it possible?
High sex drive and faithful?
- Thread starter Lady Trucker
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It certainly is......what time shall I come over !!
I promise to faithfully arrive at whatever time you suggest.
...........QM'r
I promise to faithfully arrive at whatever time you suggest.
...........QM'r
A high sex drive makes it more difficult. Sex is not as much a physiological thing as it is a mental thing in humans, though many men will tell you such false things as "I need sex, I have blue balls". First of all, there is no such thing as blue balls.... sperm that is produced and not used is reabsorbed into the body. Many men think they need sex because they are the ones who have no other outlet for deeper intimacy simply because they don't know how / are afraid to / stuck in a role. A man with a high sex drive could very well be incapable of deeper emotional expression so sex becomes the only means for channeling them. If you are considering a relationship with a man who has a high sex drive, then you should try to determine what his tolerance for deeper intimacy without sex is first. If he can't tolerate it for extended periods without devolving into sex, chances are he will have a difficult time with monogamy in the future.
LOL ok that means unfaithful and for some reason denying any responsibility because it is genetic, like brown hair. Geneic defect, I like that, I should have used that. Thank you for the laugh. I laughed so hard when I read it that beer came out my nose and I had to clean my monitor.Hatrick said:
I think its possible as long as you have a healthy sex life. If you willing to let him watch porn and do whatever else it takes to placate his sexual needs. You also need to have somewhat close sex drives. If you want it once a month and he wants it every day then there are going to be problems and it won't work.
Most of the males in my family have fairly high sex drives(not obscene...but fairly high) and have a good track record for monogamy except my father(and alchoholism was mostly to blame there). My grandfather is 85 and from what I hear gets his groove on from time to time using the magic blue pill. Married 60 years and still banging the same woman lol.
Most of the males in my family have fairly high sex drives(not obscene...but fairly high) and have a good track record for monogamy except my father(and alchoholism was mostly to blame there). My grandfather is 85 and from what I hear gets his groove on from time to time using the magic blue pill. Married 60 years and still banging the same woman lol.
You and I are obviously quite different.Hatrick said:
My mind wanders. Your body wanders.
I'm not sure who is worse off.
No such thing? So, those times when I was in my late teens/early twenties and went home unfulfilled and with aching balls, I was imagining it? If you're saying it's not harmful or fatal, OK, the cure lies within one's own hands. But, even though I'm a lot older than you, I still remember blue balls, and not fondly either.georgebushmoron said:
um yes, blue balls is a medical fact, but simple masturbation is the solution.georgebushmoron said:
i would say that rather than looking at 'sex' as the onlyLady Trucker said:
measure of self-worth, attractiveness and love in a relationship,
it is possible to decide that sex with others is just like having coffee
with friends, playing tennis with someone else etc ...
why we believe that its 'one person for every need for the rest of our lives'
is beyond me.
If i could only read one book, watch one movie, listen to one song, have one friend, one job,
one car, one pair of pants, one pet, one place to live, one food to eat etc. ...
we don't live like that so why do we expect sex to be like that?
does that mean one partner should flaunt it, or start two days into a
relationship or ignore the other person for the rest of their lives? hell no.
monogamy is only a decision.
OK so U have a high sex drive. 'is it possible for a woman with a high sex drive to be faithful'? I think when U honestly answer this you will answer your own question.Lady Trucker said:
I think depends on the person, like he/she is dating.. I know some including myself, that yes I DO have a high sex drive and I have been faithful to some and some I havent. But me being in this business line doesnt help. Does that make me a cheater?? Even if he knows what I do and allows me to continue, if he has an HIGH SEX DRIVE, I wonder myself if he if faithful.. So with this question, its one of those you will get opinions from other but its hard to really answer. Some pooners pay and they have a high sex drive but are they being faithful to there s.o's??logsplitter said:
No it's not a medical fact. Ask a doctor what happens when there is no release of sperm, he'll give you the straight goods.... and it will be exactly what I said as a doctor had told me - reabsored into the body.LonelyGhost said:
No one said it's harmful, but it's a fact that prolonged stimulation without a release often causes considerable discomfort. Sure, if you wait it out for several hours, the discomfort will dissipate, and the sperm will reabsorb, but it can still be damned uncomfortable while it lasts. The obvious solution is to jerk off, but if you wait too long, even that doesn't always relieve the symptoms completely.georgebushmoron said:
Fortunately, the tendency to suffer from blue balls diminishes with age. Otherwise, old married guys would probably undergo voluntary castration.
To Hatrick
Love trucking just not with the ex, he yells too much. No I didn't finish the course because of the ex, but plan on going back and doing it though. I want to long hall. Just need to find a guy that wants to stop 3 or 4 times a day for sex.
To Tyrone785
Is wanting it 4 times a day a high drive for a woman?
To SInCity67
I am a Madam and I know the men to ask are the ones who need our service. A lot of them have become friends.
To logsplitter
Yes it is possible for a woman with a high sex drive to be faithful'. I was married 15 years to a man who only wanted it once a month then spent the next 6 years with a man who was better. I got it once a week if he was home. Only Saturday mornings. With all that I have never been unfaithful.
As for blue balls.... never let a man suffer I say. By the way a woman can hurt too.
To visioneast
Oh Ya!
Love trucking just not with the ex, he yells too much. No I didn't finish the course because of the ex, but plan on going back and doing it though. I want to long hall. Just need to find a guy that wants to stop 3 or 4 times a day for sex.
To Tyrone785
Is wanting it 4 times a day a high drive for a woman?
To SInCity67
I am a Madam and I know the men to ask are the ones who need our service. A lot of them have become friends.
To logsplitter
Yes it is possible for a woman with a high sex drive to be faithful'. I was married 15 years to a man who only wanted it once a month then spent the next 6 years with a man who was better. I got it once a week if he was home. Only Saturday mornings. With all that I have never been unfaithful.
As for blue balls.... never let a man suffer I say. By the way a woman can hurt too.
To visioneast
Oh Ya!
To Hatrick
There ia a differance between quantity and quality. And on I don.t take applications but I do do Interviews.
There ia a differance between quantity and quality. And on I don.t take applications but I do do Interviews.
Remember those guys you wrote off years ago as losers becasue they were so desperate? The reason they were desparate is because they had a high sex drive they hadn't learned to control yet. Most of those guys ended up with some woman with a low sex drive and are now your best customers.Avarice said:
Unfortunately, you'd best to keep dreaming or face reality. Anyone (man or woman) with a high sex drive is prone to stray simply because sex will eventually get boring with the same person. Unless you had something more meaningful to offer your partner that satisfies him/her at a deeper level, sex will just be another form of recreation - and all forms of recreation eventually lose their appeal over time. People don't stay loyal for loyalty itself, there has to be an external reason. I'd say your best chances at a loyal man is to find one who can truly love you over and above his own needs.Avarice said:
