Getting Hard

[BC_Boy]

Hey everyone,

I've been having an issue with getting hard from fs, bj or hj (yet I can get super hard from masturbation); i think the main cause of this problem is I jerk-off too much and now only my personal touch can fully stimulate me.

I've tried a penis ring which didn't help yet I'm reluctant to take viagra/cialis. Is there any other solutions?

 

[kehoe]

you're just like Ray Mckechnie, the hand model that George was warned about in Seinfeld when he became a hand model. "In the end, his hand was nothing more than a claw and he had to rely on cub scouts to feed him."

 

[Maury Beniowski]

How old are you? That may be a factor...

Familiarity could also be at play.

On the other hand, there's nothing like abstinence to revive what you once had.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Are you having those difficulties with paid providers or with all women? I went through a stage of having difficulties achieving erections with SP's when i was seeing the same one more than once. I think that once the initial excitement of busting the first couple of nuts was done there was nothing left in "our relationship" that could turn me on.

I would ether back off the p4p scene or go find urself the dirtiest horniest SP and rediscover the fine art of 3 holing ! LOL

 

[sdw]

Hey everyone,

I've been having an issue with getting hard from fs, bj or hj (yet I can get super hard from masturbation); i think the main cause of this problem is I jerk-off too much and now only my personal touch can fully stimulate me.

I've tried a penis ring which didn't help yet I'm reluctant to take viagra/cialis. Is there any other solutions?

There was a thread on TMS some time ago.

Basically, some forms of masturbation can lead to the person requiring very hard stimulation. Since very hard stimulation is painfull for women in all orfices, they don't do it when they are giving a handjob or blowjob.

The cure is to abstain from masturbation for a week or so and then use very light touch when masturbating. This allows you to be stimulated with levels of stimulation that women find acceptable.

http://www.healthystrokes.com/articles.html

http://healthystrokes.com/TMS.pdf

http://www.eye.net/eye/issue/issue_03.24.05/plus/lovebites.html

 

[sirlickheralot]

Frequent or hard masturbation can desensitize the Penis.

Like SDW says abstaining from masturbation can bring back the sensitivity. Another solution is to masturbate, but not to ejaculation, do that a couple of times before you are with a woman and you shouldn't have trouble getting an erection, unless the problem is physcological.