Friends and/or lovers
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Neither do i, nor do i intend to...squid said:
I'm looking for a GF who speaks a foreign language that i don't know...
STAN & PARIS,,take it somewhere else like ,,hmmmm,,somewhere private,,,,this kind of SHITdoesn't belong here! 
Based on everything I've ever read, Pluto is so far away from the sun that it is much too cold to support life of any kind. And even if that weren't the case, I don't think I could maintain a friendship with anyone, male or female, who lived there. The phone bills would be astronomical and personal visits would be pretty much impossible, given the amount of time it would take to go back and forth.ace85 said:
No, a non sexual friendship between the sexes is impossible...squid said:
sex or no sexual history...
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Well said. I often say good caring even loving for the moment and expressing caring sexuality is more like reading a book and sharing new knowledge gained with others.Paris said:
When we share knowldege with others it doesn't diminish it to anyone. Likewise in sexuality when we share we grow and help others to grow at least in real relationships as we get to know our own likes and dislikes and learn what different women enjoy.
Women are so complex compared to us men. We need to take the time to learn that. Women have such a wide variety of what they like or don't like sexually. Different women's bodies respond vastly different to different types of sexuality. That is why I like to get to know a partner and what she does or doesn't like. I usually ask first about breast sensitivity, and sometime other things even in a 1 hour escort "encounter".
Fortunately the type of sexuality I like the most, most women also do but tell me they seldom experience it, whether its about certain positions or technquies or the enjoyment of what I call the physical intimacy factor.
But as others have said, men tend to not get it, and just because they have sex often get jealous and possisive in real relationships. I see that all the time in swinging. The husband talks the wife into exploring her sexuality with others. Woman is hesitant. Woman gives in and starts to participate. Women enjoys immensely. Husband gets insecure and jealous. Leading the Phoenix couples group with 300 active participant and years of leading and participating in workshops and correspondence from libchrist.com I see that over and over again.
My favorite phrase from polyamory is that Loving More doesn't mean Loving anyone else less. We have a natural capacity to share sexually and be sincerely caring about more than just one other person!
