Escort subscription service

[vanperb]

I've had an request for an arrangement that's sort of a like a subscription service. For a substantially reduced hourly fee a regular said that for X amount of dollars a month I would be able to see her a pre determined number of times. She's been good about booking and we've had a pretty good relationship so I'm actually pondering it.

It works to both our advantages, with the usual obvious disadvantages.

It's not like a loyalty program, where you get 1 free after X number of times. Definitely not a sugar arrangement because it's not exclusive.

Has anyone else ever been approached by a similar offer?

Don't PM asking who.

 

[clu]

As long as you don't get locked into a 2-year term contract with cancelation fees, it sounds like a deal worth trying.

 

[badbadboy]

I've had an request for an arrangement that's sort of a like a subscription service. For a substantially reduced hourly fee a regular said that for X amount of dollars a month I would be able to see her a pre determined number of times. She's been good about booking and we've had a pretty good relationship so I'm actually pondering it.

It works to both our advantages, with the usual obvious disadvantages.

It's not like a loyalty program, where you get 1 free after X number of times. Definitely not a sugar arrangement because it's not exclusive.

Has anyone else ever been approached by a similar offer?

Don't PM asking who.

I've done this a number of times, usually with some of the part-time SP who may have other jobs or school.

The good:

• Great times with a regular makes it more of a GF experience.
• It makes budgeting easier and you just top up the donation as required
• Somewhat flexible if you can mesh your availability with her's

The bad:

• Your money is entrusted with someone with whom you would have little recourse if they decide to move on or provide less than acceptable service.
• Your money is already in hand and she decides to say she is not feeling well to you and sees a client paying her full donation. (It happened)
• You may find your regular dates getting bumped with little or no notice. In my case that means no pooning for me that week.
• Communications become sporadic and takes days to get a reply.

I am at the point now that I was going to entertain a new arrangement but had second thoughts because of horrendously poor communications. I figured if her comms were this bad now, just wait until she has my cash in hand.

Sorry if I sound jaded about the negative side. All of the SP I've done this with, except one fulfilled their end of the agreement.

It could work for you and I hope it does. There were some amazing dates and some not so fun times too.

One thing in common was all these agreements did have a point that was a warning for me that things were not so good anymore. Like an eternal optimist, I carried on and it was not the happy ending I had envisioned.

 

[pro-boner]

Done it on several occasions didn't work at all. Once the money was in their hands they felt no obligation to fulfill the agreement and I ended up loosing money. As BBB said above once the money is in hand the communication goes out the door.

Arrange your deal but make the payments on a per visit basis and then they have an incentive to see you. You know that you are going to give them your business, because the deal is too sweet to pass up. And if things go west well you are not left holding the bag. And yes don't forget to factor in "Shark Week" Visits back home, family gatherings, sickness etc, all these things will screw up a monthly plan. And you will end up with less visits than you negotiated for. She will also tend to feel resentful if you try to hold her to the deal.

This is like a Seeking Arrangements deal. Even on SA I will insist on a per visit arrangement for at least the first 3/4 months, after that you should have a pretty good handle on the girl and you can more realistically assess your risk.

 

[nwtl]

This isn't uncommon at all.

Main point I'd make, is to consider it only after you get to know a SP long enough, and trust, communication and reliability track record is established, you don't want to be trusting with those who may disappear. Also as badbadboy pointed out, only if you feel the SP is professional and taking this seriously like a business, you won't want to feel less important than a full paying new client at times.

 

[badbadboy]

. . . . only if you feel the SP is professional and taking this seriously like a business, you won't want to feel less important than a full paying new client at times.

This is exactly what I felt at times. It's weird because things were amazing at full rate.

Discounted rates became discounted service too. Twice monthly became once, maybe.

 

[UhOh]

I figure people see SPs for the variety so why lock in a deal with one. She's not your girlfriend, seems boring to repeat with the same SP over and over when there's a sea of new talent coming on the market every week.

 

[maniacalone]

I figure people see SPs for the variety so why lock in a deal with one. She's not your girlfriend, seems boring to repeat with the same SP over and over when there's a sea of new talent coming on the market every week.

Something to be said for a reduced rate and the removal of fake pictures risk too. Would be interested depending on the SP and if it was pay as you go.

 

[rxwca]

I figure people see SPs for the variety so why lock in a deal with one. She's not your girlfriend, seems boring to repeat with the same SP over and over when there's a sea of new talent coming on the market every week.

Different people look for different things, and also at different times. I saw only a couple of regulars for 6 months. With one of them, I explored and tried different things. One also develops somewhat of a connection, you care about them and vice-versa to some degree of being genuine. It's like an ongoing gfe experience, while some just look for a one-time physical experience and move on.

 

[WalterMitty]

I too had a similar arrangement. Had been seeing a lady quite regularly for a few yrs, usually weekly. She suggested a flat monthly rate for up to 3 visits per week, which would have been a significant reduction in the per session rate. However, it never worked out to 3 sessions per week, was lucky to get my 1 per week as she was never available and of course it ended up being more expensive with only 1 session per week. So I wouldn't do it again.

Walter

 

[Man in Submission]

Would it work if arrangement was, say, for example $100 per visit, to a maximum of 3 times per week, with the SP calling when she wants to see you. Must provide you at least 8 hours notice or something. That way she has the motivation to invite you for more sessions each week. Just a thought..

 

[wintersurfer]

I've done this a number of times, usually with some of the part-time SP who may have other jobs or school.

The good:

• Great times with a regular makes it more of a GF experience.
• It makes budgeting easier and you just top up the donation as required
• Somewhat flexible if you can mesh your availability with her's

The bad:

• Your money is entrusted with someone with whom you would have little recourse if they decide to move on or provide less than acceptable service.
• Your money is already in hand and she decides to say she is not feeling well to you and sees a client paying her full donation. (It happened)
• You may find your regular dates getting bumped with little or no notice. In my case that means no pooning for me that week.
• Communications become sporadic and takes days to get a reply.

I am at the point now that I was going to entertain a new arrangement but had second thoughts because of horrendously poor communications. I figured if her comms were this bad now, just wait until she has my cash in hand.

Sorry if I sound jaded about the negative side. All of the SP I've done this with, except one fulfilled their end of the agreement.

It could work for you and I hope it does. There were some amazing dates and some not so fun times too.

One thing in common was all these agreements did have a point that was a warning for me that things were not so good anymore. Like an eternal optimist, I carried on and it was not the happy ending I had envisioned.

Out of curiosity how much cash (percentage) would you save roughly?

 

[wintersurfer]

I am not sure if paying a monthly "fee" would work for me, but a few girls I see regularly have given a reduced rate $400/2hrs, sometimes I don't see them for a few wks, sometimes its 3x a wk for a month...

 

[lenny]

There's advantages to being a repeat customer.

For example, i was offered 2 hours for $100 whereas the usual was one hour for that price.

Was up for everything i asked for.

L: 6.5
A: 8.5
S: 7

 

[nwtl]

There's advantages to being a repeat customer.

For example, i was offered 2 hours for $100 whereas the usual was one hour for that price.

$50/hr? Was this in Cambodia?

 

[Lady Companion]

I would think scheduling conflicts would be the most common issue.

This can be avoided by booking the entire series, or month of appointments on the first visit. That way it is in both of your calendars.

As a contingency, it's a good idea to have a couple extra appointments penciled in as a backup plan in case she needs to cancel an appointment for whatever reason. If there is a cancellation, you already have a makeup date scheduled.

I don't think any lady is going to offer a drastically reduced rate on a pay as you go basis. You're getting the discount because you are guaranteeing her a specific level of income per month. The only compromise I can see on that one is paying her full rate each time, until the monthly agreed upon total is reached, and then the balance of the visits are on the house. In that case, you definitely want to have your appointments all booked from the get go.

 

[Alix Turner]

I don't really like this idea because it is a fixed sum based on a promise of intimate time, which isn't something that can absolutely be assured to work out. Whether it is the providers choice not to fulfill her end of the deal, or circumstances really do arise to interfere with the deal... by nature it sort of works against one of the fundamental aspects of the client/sp relationship - Freedom from commitment and any obligation to another person.

If you are interested in going down this road with the girl you are seeing and are seeing her for an hour or two each time another option might be suggesting an alternative arrangement such as booking longer dates with her for a reduced hourly rate, or if you are only able/wanting to stick to shorter visits, suggest paying her full rate for a certain number of dates each month, and a reduced rate for any visits after you have hit that number.

 

[Alix Turner]

I would think scheduling conflicts would be the most common issue.

This can be avoided by booking the entire series, or month of appointments on the first visit. That way it is in both of your calendars.

As a contingency, it's a good idea to have a couple extra appointments penciled in as a backup plan in case she needs to cancel an appointment for whatever reason. If there is a cancellation, you already have a makeup date scheduled.

I don't think any lady is going to offer a drastically reduced rate on a pay as you go basis. You're getting the discount because you are guaranteeing her a specific level of income per month. The only compromise I can see on that one is paying her full rate each time, until the monthly agreed upon total is reached, and then the balance of the visits are on the house. In that case, you definitely want to have your appointments all booked from the get go.

Ooh beat me to it, great minds think alike.

 

[WeBeefHooked]

I have to agree with this point of view. I hobby for the variety. There are times when I will repeat with an SP I connect with, but it's the new and interesting that moves me forward.

 

[badbadboy]

All this talk of discounts... Maybe I'm getting this all wrong but if you hire someone to do a job and the job is done well, do you ask for a discount? Or do you reward good behavior? I would think the reason you're going back to the same girl is because there's a connection or she's special. I think we should be bringing them flowers instead of asking for a discount! ...just saying. LOL

Did you miss the point that $X was paid up front for Y number of hours per month?