Duration of dates
- Thread starter Juno
- Start date
Generally 60 minutes in AMPs, sometimes 45 minutes if I'm in a rush or I'm particularly uncertain.
With independents, generally 90 minutes. If I haven't met them before, 60 minutes sometimes. If I have met them before, sometimes 2 hours.
My first time was 30 minutes - I can't see doing that again.
With independents, generally 90 minutes. If I haven't met them before, 60 minutes sometimes. If I have met them before, sometimes 2 hours.
My first time was 30 minutes - I can't see doing that again.
40 minutes wasn't on there but for me that is the ideal, 30 minutes can work but feel just a tiny bit rushed, but can make it work well
anything more than 40 minutes and it feels like I'm just killing time chatting or something for a good part of the paid time, even half hour of sex act would be starting to feel like too much work
anything more than 40 minutes and it feels like I'm just killing time chatting or something for a good part of the paid time, even half hour of sex act would be starting to feel like too much work
Depends on the vibe over the phone and emails. If nothing out of the ordinary suggests longer than 30 minutes for a first date I don't take the risk of wasting my time or hers. For me there is a money connection to pay more for an hour and for her I wouldn't want to stick around for round 2 just because I paid for it if she don't want it, and she don't want to if she don't want to.
I think on average about 30% of the time I go for longer than 30 minutes.
And on second dates always an hour or 90 minutes depending on my sked and hers. Never been longer than 90 I don't think, too limp by then
just want to go away and revel in the feeling
I think on average about 30% of the time I go for longer than 30 minutes.
And on second dates always an hour or 90 minutes depending on my sked and hers. Never been longer than 90 I don't think, too limp by then
just want to go away and revel in the feelingDepends on the vibe over the phone and emails. If nothing out of the ordinary suggests longer than 30 minutes for a first date I don't take the risk of wasting my time or hers. For me there is a money connection to pay more for an hour and for her I wouldn't want to stick around for round 2 just because I paid for it if she don't want it, and she don't want to if she don't want to.
I think on average about 30% of the time I go for longer than 30 minutes.
And on second dates always an hour or 90 minutes depending on my sked and hers. Never been longer than 90 I don't think, too limp by then just want to go away and revel in the feeling
I think on average about 30% of the time I go for longer than 30 minutes.
And on second dates always an hour or 90 minutes depending on my sked and hers. Never been longer than 90 I don't think, too limp by then
just want to go away and revel in the feelingi would say it depends on the lady and the relationship you have with her,
i have learned my lesson, to start off, as short as possible and see how it goes,
the lady i see now, as long as possible. we get along and its nice,
her and me have been doing it soo long we don't really have a clock, we know when its over, its time to go.
were friends as much as anything so anything i say should be taken in that regard, were more friends then anything
she told me she is not doing any longer sessions by the way,
she has been in this a long time, not really hurting for money,
and doesn't really like any of us, or i should say you guys out there,
just get it down and send us on our way,
a sad commentary on this hobby, but i kind of think a lot of women feel like that, they just don't want to come out and say it, or we feel that way about them.
i have learned my lesson, to start off, as short as possible and see how it goes,
the lady i see now, as long as possible. we get along and its nice,
her and me have been doing it soo long we don't really have a clock, we know when its over, its time to go.
were friends as much as anything so anything i say should be taken in that regard, were more friends then anything
she told me she is not doing any longer sessions by the way,
she has been in this a long time, not really hurting for money,
and doesn't really like any of us, or i should say you guys out there,
just get it down and send us on our way,
a sad commentary on this hobby, but i kind of think a lot of women feel like that, they just don't want to come out and say it, or we feel that way about them.
Just wondering what length not time do you prefer for your dates ??? Would like to hear the response from both ladies and clients.
I personally prefer 4 - 8 hour dates myself
Are you sure that there isn't something else you're trying to say in this thread, Juno? If you stayed for the duration of the 4-8 hour event(s), they couldn't have been bad enough to be deemed as nightmares later, now could they? If I was in a 'nightmarish' situation, I wouldn't stay for any more minutes than I absolutely had to. So what gives?
And, since you asked (but I can't vote), I'll just state here that I prefer 90 minutes to 2 hour visits. My visitors tend to be looking for relaxation, kinda like a mini-hoiiday. I actually find it difficult to stick to the 60-minute visit, because there's just so much to do during our time together. Back in the days when I used to offer 30-minute visits, that was even worse. Way too rushed, I just gave them up altogether.
As for my recent 4-hour visits and a recent overnight, they were awesome. These visits tend to be more about connection, the true GFE, I'd say. Drinks, dinner at the Top of Vancouver, conversation, gifts, seeing an incredible rainbow together, Pad Thai take-out in my living room with the night ocean view, wardrobe changes, sharing pictures on smart phones, texting across 200 km once my friend returned home...I could go on.
So I'm sorry your experiences were bad enough to remember them as nightmares. As I move towards my retirement, I'm only interested in creating happy memories, for my guest, and for myself!
Since I also can't vote: I'd say most of my visits are 2-4 hours in duration. I rarely do 60 minute sessions anymore and I find that (like Alex) I also prefer 1.5-2 hours minimum.
Again, I can't vote, but you KNOW that given a chance to express an opinion I will! :wink:
I've only been in the industry a year, but I have never done dates shorter than an hour. I just don't think I could do it! I like to make every visit as GF as possible; most of the time it takes a visitor at least 15 minutes to peel off the outer wrappings to reveal the juicy treats inside! As I stay in the industry, I meet more and more delightful gentlemen who find as much pleasure in pleasing their partners as they do in having amazing orgasms themselves. Why WOULDN'T I want to see them for 2,3 or even 5 hours at a time? (That is, if my linen closet and mattress covers hold up! :eyebrows Now that I am also doing outcalls to downtown for PERB members, a snack, a beverage and several prime hours on a king sized hotel bed, tub or shower (couch? Living room floor? BALCONY? :grin sounds like very good naughty bad fun!
I've only been in the industry a year, but I have never done dates shorter than an hour. I just don't think I could do it! I like to make every visit as GF as possible; most of the time it takes a visitor at least 15 minutes to peel off the outer wrappings to reveal the juicy treats inside! As I stay in the industry, I meet more and more delightful gentlemen who find as much pleasure in pleasing their partners as they do in having amazing orgasms themselves. Why WOULDN'T I want to see them for 2,3 or even 5 hours at a time? (That is, if my linen closet and mattress covers hold up! :eyebrows
Now that I am also doing outcalls to downtown for PERB members, a snack, a beverage and several prime hours on a king sized hotel bed, tub or shower (couch? Living room floor? BALCONY? :grin sounds like very good naughty bad fun!Can't speak for so-called 'regular' sessions, but one hour, or even two, is never enough for a session with a lovely and talented domme! You just can't worship them from head to toe, cater to their ever need and desire, and receive your due pain/punishment/humiliation in 60 minutes. Seriously! Quite often it has to be an overnight thing that starts with giving the lady a good foot massage over dinner and a glass of wine...:nod:
I go for short visits. I usually don't have time to spare and have to be on my way. Often the lady enjoys my company and we chat longer than the booked session, but I don't see why I should be paying to discuss the day's events.
This is a BUSINESS.
Claiming it's about connection, making friends, fantasy, relaxation, is BS. Try asking to be charged accordingly and see how far you get. A fee for sex and a fee for chatting, shower time, discussing hockey or politics, massage, getting to know each other, sipping on wine, nibbling cheetos and caviar, etc etc.
If all of that is part of the session, why should it be charged the same rate for the sex part? I can make friends and discuss events with the girls who cuts my hair or serves my coffee and not pay extra.
This is a BUSINESS.
Claiming it's about connection, making friends, fantasy, relaxation, is BS. Try asking to be charged accordingly and see how far you get. A fee for sex and a fee for chatting, shower time, discussing hockey or politics, massage, getting to know each other, sipping on wine, nibbling cheetos and caviar, etc etc.
If all of that is part of the session, why should it be charged the same rate for the sex part? I can make friends and discuss events with the girls who cuts my hair or serves my coffee and not pay extra.
My normal appt is usually 90 or 120 minutes which sometimes is great. It can leave me wanting more or killing time haha. Agency or ERS girls are at 60 min max. I was thinking that I may change it up and throw in there an occasional 45 wham bam mechanical session. Sometimes those are fun too!
I have savoured some excellent trips away and local hotel dates for 2 to 4 nights too.
Thinking about this thread it's just too difficult to do the same old same old way each time. After
all, variety is the spice of life, right?
I have savoured some excellent trips away and local hotel dates for 2 to 4 nights too.
Thinking about this thread it's just too difficult to do the same old same old way each time. After
all, variety is the spice of life, right?
This may shock you but your experience and preferences are not everyone's. I don't know why you sound insulted that someone would want to spend 2-4 hours with someone. You don't, and that's your prerogative. Why do you care what others want or don't want? Why do you feel the need to tell them what this industry is all about? It's not about anything more than what anyone wants to make it to be?
Live and let live...you'll live longer...
Well, and that is why I structure my fees the way I do. So gentlemen can book for 2hrs at the rate of $300 (or $350 for the PSE style add-ons) and take their time and enjoy everything that I have to offer, or they can just enjoy an hour of really hot sex for $200! :wink:
having a time limit seems to put a bit of a damper on things
the nice thing about only seeing one gentleman per day is the luxury of time. i have had some book a half hour an stay for many and ive also had some book multiple hours and not last that long
in the case of the latter, i insist on pro rating the fee and returning the extra.
and since i dont charge for social outings quite often we go for a bite to eat or a few cocktails to get better acquainted. its a win /win situation
the nice thing about only seeing one gentleman per day is the luxury of time. i have had some book a half hour an stay for many and ive also had some book multiple hours and not last that long
in the case of the latter, i insist on pro rating the fee and returning the extra.
and since i dont charge for social outings quite often we go for a bite to eat or a few cocktails to get better acquainted. its a win /win situation
I prefer overnights but you need to meet them first for a meet and greet. So my method of operation is go set up three ladies to meet me when I get into town. I meet them for one hour to determine if we hit it off. Then I will have lady meet me for an over night or dinner. In some cases they will spend the weekend with them or they can travel with me.
Not sure I would agree with you. I have spend time with ladies who will lock themself inthe bathroom or will take off once they get paid. So there are nightmares out there. You never know. But there are great experiences out there as well. The goal is to find those ones that you enjoy hanging out with.
So just as you just want sex some of us old guys want contact. Personally I will pay SP to tell me they love me and want me. For me it is cheaper to pay a SP than getting into a relation then finding out after a few years I got to give a % of my hard work to her just because they lived with me for a while. The SP is a better route. I have had mistresses that I pay for apartments and to keep them in a lifestyle but grow tired of this very quickly.
For me SPs are the best way. I can pay them to marry for the weekend or to seduce me and pay them to leave then come back and tell me they want to stay with me.
SPs offer me so much more. So For me the idea of coming back to my suite and having a lady meet me for dinner and share her story with me is great.
Or having a SP to meet me at the airport is so hot for me. So I am not to fast to dismiss other needs or desires.
For myself, it really depends on who I'm spending time with. I went on holiday with someone last year, but I had another hotel room and another girl was there who I happened to be quite good friends with. But if I couldn't stand the client, there's no way I would have committed to one week with him, I don't care what the rate was. Sorry to admit it, but it's the same for shorter calls. Some one hours feel like eternity and some 4 hour calls fly by. It depends how the date is spent. Are we talking, joking, caressing, kissing, genuinely respecting each other as people? Or do I feel like I've handed my body over to be used as a full-speed, full-throttle amusement park for jabbing fingers and dick?
I guess in short, I prefer the dates that are longer, but feel shorter
I guess in short, I prefer the dates that are longer, but feel shorter
Very nicely said, Miss Cameron!snip...I guess in short, I prefer the dates that are longer, but feel shorter
Like all the other ladies on here I can't vote so : My preference is definitely 1.5 - 2 hours and I'm finding most my sessions are longer now as well.
