Don't Let This Be You

[ashley]

Tonight I received call from a client’s wife! Here the MOST shocking part of this was that this was, the 3rd call like this in 2months! Guys this is NOT good, if you are getting caught you, are being sloppy, and disrespecting your wife, family, the hobby, and me. I understand that monogamy is a learned behavior, and not a natural state, but your partner may not. You as a husband you are suppose to protect your wife, and being sloppy, and getting caught, are NOT protecting your family. This hobby is meant to be FUN, and not to HURT people, so PLEASE PLAY SAFE, and most of all don’t get caught! PLEASE NO MORE CALLS at least not like this.

 

[FortunateOne]

Keep in mind that the majority of these calls are actually from other sps, trying to make you nervous about working. Was the call blocked, or did she call from an actual clients actual number. A lot of new, or those coming to a new area, or those coming back to work after an absence, get these phone calls soon after their ads pop up.

They think you are new and can be intimidated. They also consider you competition, which you can consider a compliment, lol.


Altho the tips for guys with SOs are good, I would not assume that the woman was being honest with you regarding her motivations. If she did not block her number, do a CL search to find out who she is lol.

 

[JustJess]

other sp's?

Wow, I did not realize some people were so ruthless Yikes!!! I thought, and yes this may be naive of me, that sp's were all supposed to stick together...support one another in a way but recent posts on here have suggested otherwise...it's kinda sad really.

 

[letitrock]

Ingrid, I'm curious to know what you said to extinguish the situation!
I wonder how these guys can be so careless to leave the numbers on their phones..

 

[Thatotherguy]

Wow, I did not realize some people were so ruthless Yikes!!! I thought, and yes this may be naive of me, that sp's were all supposed to stick together...support one another in a way but recent posts on here have suggested otherwise...it's kinda sad really.

That's certainly the way it should be, and I think you'll find that there's a certain amount of camaraderie and support between most of the SPs on the review boards. Unfortunately there are some SPs out there who just see other SPs as competition, and will resort to all sorts of dirty tricks to try to force other SPs out of business. These are also generally the SPs with the most time on their hands, since their bad attitude frequently leads them to have fewer bookings.

Of course the men think it's really sps making the calls!

Just so that you know, I'm the first man to post in this thread. FO is an SP, she just doesn't make much mention of the fact here because she's not a paid advertiser and she doesn't want to risk breaking the advertising rules.

EDIT: OK, between the time I started writing this and when it got posted, letitrock posted, so that makes me the second man to post in this thread.

 

[letitrock]

Well, it could be that the SO found his pooning phone - that no signup 7-11 special that is just used for this purpose. Now, being careless with that hot little item after going through the effort of getting one is silly indeed. But then again, some people just cannot help snooping in the darndest places (e.g. "Look what I found while vacuuming the underside of your car seats, DEAR!!")

Me? I'm a single guy & don't have these worries.

I think its alot easier just to delete the number from the call history later on, than have to find a place to hide your poon communicating device

 

[ashley]

SP's calling?
I know most of my clients/friends very well, all three were in fact the wife's calling , and not a SP. I was asked to speak to his wife , which was very difficult for me. She is a good women and is willing to stand by him. One part of me will miss my friend very much ,as we have none each other for 5 years , but I do wish him the best. Good luck friend
Ashley misses you

 

[manni]

simple solution

why get married at all?

 

[visiting]

Was the woman who called named emily???