Dickson gets sucker puched again? What do you think?

[Dickson]

I just tryed hiring a beautiful 45 year old Austrian lady last night she arrive 15 minutes late we drink wine for just under an hour and talked. We laugh a bit. I pay her 300 for the first hour. Then we start making out get to BBBJ, I get to munch down on her, some Missionary. We go at it for about an hour. She fakes getting off a couple times no such luck for me. I give her the 1100 for the second hour and 4 more hours. We have a shower she attemps a HJ. WE dry off get dressed go for dinner. I drop another 150 for dinner. She tells me how she has to get up in the morning. I was hoping she would come back to the hotel for one more hour. I am willing to pay for at least another hour. I even offer to pay for her to spend the night. Then she tells me how she is not feeling well. She describes her medical sitution. I drive her to her place and drop her off 1/2 hour early. I thought maybe she will invite up. She knows I an so hard for her. No such luck I get instructions how to get back my hotel. I had ask about seeing her again early in the evening she says no she will have her period next week. I tell her I will pay her another 1500 to join me for the black tie event. She says maybe she could attend. Then she gives me a kiss on the cheek and leaves I am sitting there with this massive hard on. I had hoped that she would invite me up to her place to get me off. No such luck. I had the feeling she was glad she got away.

I paid 1450 and did not even get off. So I could have save myself a lot just by jerking off. Should I see her for the upcoming event? Part of me would like to but part of me says she is just playing me. I can see next time it will be a similar story. SPs often feel used by clients. Why do I feel used by her.

Damn I hate that when it happens. I had such high hope. I had a great day yesterday and wanted to celebrate. Now I feel like shit. I just wanted to be wanted. For a moment I thought it was going to happen but no such luck. So now I feel worst than when I started. I blew it again. Maybe I am over reacted. I guess I just was not her type. Sad when a SP rejects you.

Oh well. Shit happens. Live and learn.

 

[Alix Turner]

I've had a lot of snide things to say to you but this is actually a gentle suggestion because I think you are sincerely describing a situation that many of us have been one of the participants in. Dickson, if you are seeing these girls for companionship and you can't get off.. don't worry about it, have sex and watch for the signs that they are flagging, if you aren't even close to climax make a point of trying to stop even a bit before she seems uncomfortable. This should be obvious, but you should be noting whether she is drying up, becomes more timid physically, seems to be following your lead rather than matching or working with your movements... and if you aren't sure, slow down and just ask if its a good time for some water.
If you stop before it gets tedious, she will probably be a lot happier giving it another go (for both her pleasure and to see you done right if possible) than if she remembers spending the last half hour struggling to remain excited and wondering if there's something you aren't telling her that she needs to do in order to push you over (or even close to) the edge

at this point, even if you go ahead and have sex with her like I suggest, stop when she seems to want to, and spend the rest of the hour or two talking without her making any move to give it another shot, the bonus is
1) she won't be scrambling to get away from you, because she sees your desire to buy her time as being inviting more of the same discomfort with no chance of getting you off
2) you got to enjoy a positive time, and you won't be too depressed to jerk off after
3) you'll have tried something different and perhaps ended up with new feedback that you can use to help you in your future endeavours


good luck

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Dear Dickson, I guess it's really not about the money. If the said lady spent about 5-6 hours with you, and you weren't able to climax, maybe she just got worn out, and couldn't see herself making another attempt at it. Sorry to hear that you were unsatisfied sexually, because your body certainly seemed inspired. And you've told your fair share of stories about being satisfied by ladies in the past, so the plumbing seems to work.

There are also a few other threads here about fellas getting all excited yet not being able to finish, so it's not that uncommon. I wouldn't take your experience with the Austrian lady too personally. It sounds like she was a trooper but, sometimes, a gal just isn't ready to go back for seconds, regardless of the price she's offered.

You didn't just pay for an orgasm, because jerking off is cheaper. You paid for an experience as well, and it sounds like you got most of what you were looking for. Sorry for your disappointment but maybe you'd give the adventure an 8/10?

 

[badbadboy]

I suggest you give yourself a break from this hobby for a while because you seem to be beating yourself up over your own dissatisfaction with being able to climax; no matter how many dollars you throw at it.

Seek out a therapist and see if that enlightens you to whatever is stopping you from a fully satisfying experience.

FWIW it was not her fault and she sounds like she was game for five hours of sex with you. You just have to figure out a way of getting the release you require.

 

[Kimber]

Dickson; If I drank wine for an hour I'd have a tough time getting off too. Not sure how old you are, but alcohol can have a negative impact on one's ability to orgasm. The older you get the more that booze can get in the way. Try bottled water the next time. You never know. Good luck.

 

[LADY-VIA]

I just tryed hiring a beautiful 45 year old Austrian lady last night she arrive 15 minutes late we drink wine for just under an hour and talked. We laugh a bit. I pay her 300 for the first hour. Then we start making out get to BBBJ, I get to munch down on her, some Missionary. We go at it for about an hour. She fakes getting off a couple times no such luck for me. I give her the 1100 for the second hour and 4 more hours. We have a shower she attemps a HJ. WE dry off get dressed go for dinner. I drop another 150 for dinner. She tells me how she has to get up in the morning. I was hoping she would come back to the hotel for one more hour. I am willing to pay for at least another hour. I even offer to pay for her to spend the night. Then she tells me how she is not feeling well. She describes her medical sitution. I drive her to her place and drop her off 1/2 hour early. I thought maybe she will invite up. She knows I an so hard for her. No such luck I get instructions how to get back my hotel. I had ask about seeing her again early in the evening she says no she will have her period next week. I tell her I will pay her another 1500 to join me for the black tie event. She says maybe she could attend. Then she gives me a kiss on the cheek and leaves I am sitting there with this massive hard on. I had hoped that she would invite me up to her place to get me off. No such luck. I had the feeling she was glad she got away.

I paid 1450 and did not even get off. So I could have save myself a lot just by jerking off. Should I see her for the upcoming event? Part of me would like to but part of me says she is just playing me. I can see next time it will be a similar story. SPs often feel used by clients. Why do I feel used by her.

Damn I hate that when it happens. I had such high hope. I had a great day yesterday and wanted to celebrate. Now I feel like shit. I just wanted to be wanted. For a moment I thought it was going to happen but no such luck. So now I feel worst than when I started. I blew it again. Maybe I am over reacted. I guess I just was not her type. Sad when a SP rejects you.

Oh well. Shit happens. Live and learn.

looks like she saw you as an easy mark.... and just wanted to chew u up keep you interested for as long as she could and spit you out,, with no intention of ever seeing you again. I think she is just playing with you, and it sounds like she took advatage of your kindness and used you yes... with out professionally providing a particular service that you were looking for. Maybe you should have outlined what you were looking for a bit more before you called her over. AND AS FOR A TYPE- perhaps no man is her type in this business and she is merely always the girl that gets aways and leaves you longing for more.

 

[chilli]

Dickson I think you are a cool dude and all.

But, you have to take a deep breath... she's not that into you. And throwing money at her isn't changing it.

Food for thought - For some reason you refuse to really be present and "in the moment" with these ladies.

Try it, will save you a lot of grief in the future.

Time to move on.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Some people are born losers.

If the story is true, he's just another guy with too much money and no brains.

There are plenty of men and women ready to Hoover money out of people like that. If the guy has so much money that tossing away that kind of change for nothing doesn't matter to him I hope he keeps doing it.

 

[uncleg]

 

[Gotee-man]

I dunno, but is getting off the main thing? In my opinion, if she gives great service and really tried, that's all u can really expect. As long as u enjoyed her company for a few hours, that's great. I don't think it's a big deal if u climax or not, but maybe that's just me.

 

[jesuschrist]

Seems like you have several things going on.

The biggest problem in that particular situation that you described, is her. When money was waved in front of her, she decided to take advantage of you. She saw that you are 1) wealthy and too eager to spend, 2) might not be thinking straight because of the alcohol, 3) looking for love, 4) needing to get off but protracting the process of getting there.

Had she been a truly honest person, she would not have taken advantage of you and shortened her stay with you so you could save your money, and instead set up another appointment with you in the future to satisfy you. In the end, she soaked you for what she could and decided it was enough for her and not to bother seeing you again. That last part is clear evidence she doesn't give a squat about you.

But overall you seem to have simultaneous problems, some of which I myself can identify with.

You seem to drink quite a bit, which very likely had affected your performance. I don't drink at at all, but I know that if I did, I would have performance issues.

You're too eager to show that you have money and are willing to spend it. Next time, hold back on expressing your wealth and eagerness to spend and instead wait until you see her eagerness to spend equally - of her effort and commitment to please you. Any transaction should be fair and balanced, and while you provide the money, she needs to provide a demonstrated ability and willingness to provide the product. I have in the past flashed money and I found out quickly that a girl is more likely to make a fool of you if you do.

Your dick might be too big. While mine is not as big as yours, it is larger than average and I have gotten into many situations where the girl was having problems with it. In my case, I do not have alcohol making the session longer (because of lesser performance effect from the alcohol), but too much erection and too much balls-to-the-wall fucking for too long. Some SPs don't see me again because of it - in fact, I can't see most SPs because they would either end up injured or I would end up deeply dissatisfied. I've had to end some relationships because some GFs can't take it. I suspect your situation is worse. You need to find an SP who can handle your size and how much you use it on them.

Best of luck to you.

 

[steverino]

I think you need a wingman Dixie.

 

[kenchorney]

Some people are born losers.

If the story is true, he's just another guy with too much money and no brains.

There are plenty of men and women ready to Hoover money out of people like that. If the guy has so much money that tossing away that kind of change for nothing doesn't matter to him I hope he keeps doing it.

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[sevenofnine]

If were spending money on escorts don't we all have to much money that we don't know what to do with,
I guess not, but we have enough money.

You know a big part of this is emotional. Your banging away at a girl and some wierd thought enters your head and guess what your never going to cum. It comes with age and lots of sex.
When I was younger even like forty, shit,
Shit I would like to be twenty again and get two escorts and go all night.
Its just when your younger your hormones or somthing play such a big part, fuck, if I couldn't cum when I was younger I would have taken a knife and cut the dam thing off.

But your older and guess what I have fucked before seen pussy before, its not like Im a newbi sitting in a strip bar never seen pussy before. Weird thoughts just enter into your headand ruin it when your old. when your younger its all you can think about is pussy, your so focused.

When I started this I was almost fifty and hadn't had sex for a year or so, I was primed I tell you.

I have seen my sp regularly for the last three or four years, once a week or bi weekly,
am I primed not so much at fifty nine.
Its nice to try different things, I mean talk, talk dirty to her, or get her to talk to you, or play with her boobs or something with your free hand, or have some sceniero running in your head a sexual sceniero running in your head, while your fucking her, it just focuses things on the task at hand instead of some meeting you have tomorrow.

Personally I see the lady for companionship as much as anything, At first I did the talking
but lately she tells me about her and her life, whats going on.
Its funny, but I see her as a women, not just a a body part, and when Im down there, or inside her,
not to be rude, but Im fucking a women that I know, and I know a lot about her,
Don't know why but it makes all things possible, She is not some stranger.
I know the women that comes with that pussy. Wierd but it works for me any way.
Most of the time any way.

I don't know what it is but I would say its focus, to many distractions in life.


I have said this before my father was a rapist, and jailed for it.
but he ended up senile and in a home, I visited him, he was like late eighties,
and he was still a dirty old man. horny as hell, trying to get like twenty year old nurses.
I swear in his late eighties he could have had sex or cum with everywomen in that hospital.
He was just so focused on sex, his entire life.

 

[Tugela]

I just tryed hiring a beautiful 45 year old Austrian lady last night she arrive 15 minutes late we drink wine for just under an hour and talked. We laugh a bit. I pay her 300 for the first hour. Then we start making out get to BBBJ, I get to munch down on her, some Missionary. We go at it for about an hour. She fakes getting off a couple times no such luck for me. I give her the 1100 for the second hour and 4 more hours. We have a shower she attemps a HJ. WE dry off get dressed go for dinner. I drop another 150 for dinner. She tells me how she has to get up in the morning. I was hoping she would come back to the hotel for one more hour. I am willing to pay for at least another hour. I even offer to pay for her to spend the night. Then she tells me how she is not feeling well. She describes her medical sitution. I drive her to her place and drop her off 1/2 hour early. I thought maybe she will invite up. She knows I an so hard for her. No such luck I get instructions how to get back my hotel. I had ask about seeing her again early in the evening she says no she will have her period next week. I tell her I will pay her another 1500 to join me for the black tie event. She says maybe she could attend. Then she gives me a kiss on the cheek and leaves I am sitting there with this massive hard on. I had hoped that she would invite me up to her place to get me off. No such luck. I had the feeling she was glad she got away.

I paid 1450 and did not even get off. So I could have save myself a lot just by jerking off. Should I see her for the upcoming event? Part of me would like to but part of me says she is just playing me. I can see next time it will be a similar story. SPs often feel used by clients. Why do I feel used by her.

Damn I hate that when it happens. I had such high hope. I had a great day yesterday and wanted to celebrate. Now I feel like shit. I just wanted to be wanted. For a moment I thought it was going to happen but no such luck. So now I feel worst than when I started. I blew it again. Maybe I am over reacted. I guess I just was not her type. Sad when a SP rejects you.

Oh well. Shit happens. Live and learn.

So, you are hard for 4+ hours and despite her best efforts, you still can't get off? Just like all the other posts you have made. How is that her fault? It seems to me the problem is with you, not these women you are seeing.

 

[blazejowski]

Suddenly I am wishing for Tobleroney threads....

 

[Dickson]

Wow thanks for the comments. Very helpful and I appreciate the comments.

I should point out a few things for clarification.

1) I was not hard for the full 6 hours.

2) the issue was not getting off with her or even after.

3) It is not about the money

4) It was not about drinking too much as I really am a non-drinker. I will have a glass of wine every once in a while and I only had a glass that night. I spilt the second glass in the bed room reaching to turn on the light. Damn what a mess. I left Money for the cleaning lady to try and clean it.

5) I do have a theraphist that I see of other issues. I went out with a MD and a Psychiatrist so I have had more than my share of treatment for a number of issues.

6) I did not pound her for an hour straight. I am not that mean. I treated her well.

7) Yes I am older I am 52 years old. I still see myself as a kid but I know I can not do things like I use to and frankly I would not want too. I have learned alot. I am certainly not the young steer running up the hill to fuck the first cow and is tired when he gets there. I am the old bull who walks up so I can really fuck the best female cow

I think it was more about being used and a few people picked up on it. It gets back to a few people saying that we pay them to act but we do not pay them that to act that way. What the hell is wrong for a SP who most guys fuck and get off on to just show an interest in the guy she is with and not just fuck him but to make him feel special. If a guy is willing to put down $1500 you would think that someone is willing to try and make him feel special. It appears that is way to much to ask.

I really appreciate some of the honest comments and your thoughts. I just wanted to get a kick to get me rethinking a few things. I needed someone for an event coming up and I thought I was going to ask her. She is hot and beautiful person inside as well. But well she was just willing to go the distance with me. Which is ok. Some times we do not see the forest for the trees and sometimes it is nice when people point out a few trees.

The beauty of this hobby is you can move on to the next SP and try again. At first you do not succeed try try again.