DATY,DFK,BBBJ,CIM,etc

[dirk_dog]

When did these become standard on the menu of many SPs?

I had a long break from pooning. I remember in the 90s when SPs wouldnt even allow light kisses. And now theres so many that allow "GFE" and even on the first meeting.

When did this change happen? What drove this change? Did pooners become more demanding? The SP business become more competitive?

To each his own, but I find this trend of more liberal services somewhat funny. I would have almost expected the reverse - services becoming more restrictive.

Comments from SPs and pooners alike?

 

[drromance]

And, who invented those terrible words,....doggy style and missionary for such wonderful sex acts, seems a total lack of imagination, time to re-name them?????? lets see what we can come up with all you verbose types!!!!

 

[Bull]

Simple question guys, do you really want to see a girl who just finished doing all those things with another guy? Had seen more than 80 guys that month? And so on?

I have even seen guys talking about DATO and rimming with girls that do deep French. OMG.

 

[dirk_dog]

Im not sure where the term GFE originated but Ive seen it refer both to services offered as well as the entire "experience" itself.
However, most of the time I assume its meant to mean services like bbbj,daty,dfk are offered. Ive seen the debate a few times ove what GFE means but quite a few SP websites say "I offer GFE including dfk, daty, bbbj, etc". Other SPs say they "provide open minded services" or "liberal services". PSE - porn star experience is another one.
Anyways... I believe its better to detail whats offered rather than have a catch all term which ends up having different means for different people.

Back to the topic of my original post...
Like I said, to each his own. But personally Im not a fan of "GFE". In the heat of the moment its easy to get into anything and do things you otherwise wouldnt do. But Id always end up with buyers remorse.
I love dfk, bbbj, cim, daty but with an SP..... just the gag factor alone is enough to keep away from (not to mention disease).

To even think that you just DFKed with an SP who gave BBBJ and CIM to who knows how many guys. Like I said, when Im in the moment I wouldnt think about it but after....

I wont talk about diseases cuz everyone can go to the CDC website and find the facts.
But as a teenager, I did catch chlamydia from getting BBBJ from a regular girl. It turns out chlamydia can live in the throat... who wouldve known. Not a big deal.... take a pill and its gone.... but try to explain that one to a wife or gf.

I still find it offensive that a "GFE" is equated to how many more unprotected sexual acts you guys can pull off in a visit. I am pretty sure this isn't the case for all men as I have been described at least a couple of times as giving a GFE and I can assure you that I do not offer many of those items listed regardless of the published risks.

Simple question guys, do you really want to see a girl who just finished doing all those things with another guy? Had seen more than 80 guys that month? And so on?

I have even seen guys talking about DATO and rimming with girls that do deep French. OMG.

 

[PoonMaster]

I enjoy the GFE experiences I have with the few SP's I see. Since I am selective and the re indies are as well I think it is just fine for both sides. Since many of you see ladies that see 5 or 6 guys a day then yes I would think that there is a problem with that. I would still think that you always have the choice of doing it or not and seeing whom you chose or not. Escorts and MPs do not really have much choice in the matter

 

[tiger]

The sharing of information through the internet, and reviewing providers, etc., has increased those who offer the "GFE" experience, they are mostly, not all, catering to a demand in the MARKETPLACE. Others still offer the more traditional encounter with and SP (read no DATY, no DFK) and are catering to that demand in the MARKETPLACE. In other words, the knowledge of supply and demand is better now, and there are providers who are meeting all of the demands out there - we are all just more informed and aware because of the growth of information.

Just my .02

 

[kehoe]

good analysis Lisa. BTW, you are a perfect example of a GFE.

 

[Lolita]

Hifi

You know I love you, but there are many other STDs that can be contracted from BBBJ, more risk for women, a lot of STDs that are asymptomatic.

HIV/AIDS is not the only STD existing. So many others to be aware of: Syphilis, gonorreah, chlamydia, genital warts (can sometimes be flat and flesh colored). The education needs to be not just on the obvious incurable disease but the more common and problematic ones that are so easily passed from one to another if they are not careful.

I said it once (okay, more than once) I'll say it again. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

Please people, cover up.

 

[Lolita]

Yeah, when did it all start up?

When I was an SP (1999), I offered all those things but the BBBJ. I did the rest because damn it felt good and I was having a good time which meant the client was going to have a good time.

Does anybody know when it started?

 

[zlmmm]

Well said, Lisa.