First, get a booked called Female Ejaculation. It is INCREDIBLY informative. With sex and orgasms, knowledge and understanding really help women as we think about it. Even those of us that like to say we fuck like a guy, well we still think about it. It is hard-wired into us so if we are armed with knowledge sometimes it makes it easier to just let go.
2nd you may or may not know this but the G-spot is actually the clitoris on the inside. So a G-spot orgasm will often produce the same results as a clitoral orgasm and often the best way to get you to your first one is to stimulate the outside of the clitoris at the same time. When you orgasm from inside stimulation or that area we call it a G-Spot...it's really nothing spectacularly different, it is just an orgasm resulting from a different area being stimulated but it has taken on a huge thing because lots of women ejaculate a lot of fluid and this is the only way they can do it but you do not have to ejaculate a LOT to be considered to have had one of these orgasms. For others whom we call squirters they ejaculate like this through a variety of types of stimulation and not just stimulation of the G-Spot.
For me, there were two ways I orgasmed like this in the beginning:
- Oral sex and digits at the same time with someone who REALLY knew my body
- CG position where there is tons of outside rubbing on the clit (but this only happens with guys that are a certain size, shape, and point in a certain direction because when I rock my hips they need to rub just that specific spot...not higher, not lower, not to the left nor the right.)
The key is to become comfortable and to get that knowledge that will allow it. I used to sell sex toys for Passion Parties and once I had this women come to me in private and tell me sex hurt her. After talking with her a bit I realized what she was describing was a G-Spot orgasm coming on. Not painful but she didn't know what other word to use. I armed her with handouts and described in detail what to expect and she was really surprised. She had never allowed the orgasm to come because she didn't know it was an orgasm, she thought something was wrong. She went home and over the next couple months went from thinking sex hurt to pretty much being able to orgasm on command. Btw not saying you are like this lady, just showing what information can do
I am really hesitant to post this lol I feel like it is WAY too much information but maybe it will help others that are too embarrassed to come out and ask so I'll hit Reply now
