Closed Eyes = Poor Service?

[InTheBum]

This is a question for both guys and SP's...so feel free to comment.

It seems to be the standard service of SP's to close their eyes during sex with a client, to avoid eye contact, and basically not have to look at the guy humping away. The saying " Out of Sight, Out of Mind" makes me feel most SP's live this way. Can't blame them really, but I must say, it does take away from the experience a little bit. I think in my case at least 80% avoid eye contact during sex, and maybe 20% enjoy watching or looking. This is includes BJ's. I usually have to ask them to look at me and a few times, it actually pissed me off...example, flipping their hair over their face, supposedly accidently during sex.

Overall, this avoiding eye contact stuff, just makes me grind my teeth and thrust harder into them...

So, is it poor service for SP's to close their eyes during the act?

 

[CalgaryJenn]

Ya know it's the little things like eyes open, eyes closed. Temperature to hot, temperature to cold. The sun came up to early or set to late. Sometime's it make's me wonder if any of the girls can please any crabby ole bastard all the time. Then again not every pooner just looks for something to bitch about.

 

[ThighMan]

Ya know it's the little things like eyes open, eyes closed. Temperature to hot, temperature to cold. The sun came up to early or set to late. Sometime's it make's me wonder if any of the girls can please any crabby ole bastard all the time. Then again not every pooner just looks for something to bitch about.

Well said Jenn. I know many women close there eyes during sex (not just SPs). One once told me that it help her to concentrate and have a better orgasm. Not sure if it is true or not. Maybe I am just butt ugly. NOT

 

[ma1234]

Thrust harder into them?? Jeez, ITB, sounds aggressive. Please take it easy. They're just people trying to make a living.

This is why I don't believe sp's when they say their job is wonderful and they love every client. There is no way of loving a client like this.

 

[D.W.B]

Eye contact is very intimate.
If the lady is enjoying herself and she shows me with her eyes thats great and a major turn on but if she isnt comfortable with eye contact im ok with it too.
Im sure there are times when we are better off not seeing whats in the eyes of the sp.

 

[COCK-BOT 6000]

I'd close my eyes too if keeping them open meant I had to watch some sweaty hairy guy rut around on top of me.

And really, who wants to see some douchebags ridiculous cum face? Not me that's for sure!

 

[CalgaryJenn]

ITB if it enrages you when an sp closes her eyes, to the point where your pounding her harder, I'd be sure to close my eyes and have a nap if it means you'll actually fuck me the way I want you to fuck me..good and hard!

 

[COCK-BOT 6000]

Calgaryjenn just made me pre-cum a little bit

 

[littlejimbigher]

I wonder what it means that I keep my eyes open during kissing but close them during DATY?

 

[Miss January]

Open or Closed?

During a beautiful encounter or a not-so-exciting rendezvous,...I open my eyes to ensure my gentleman is enjoying my talents,...I love to close my eyes at times to concentrate and revel in the moment. In all fairness,... to each his own,..I wouldn't wish for any gentleman to take it personally if my eyes are closed,..I am not taking a NAP for goodness sake,.....and banging me harder would be more of a turn off than anything,.... If a guy has his eyes closed, does that mean that I am to think that he is thinking of some gorgeous Heidi Klum or is he thinking of my body pressing against his? It is not worth the time to even consider, because I am so grateful for his company and hopefully, so is HE.

 

[gigidy gigidy]

I think its just how we as individuals express or feel during these moments. When i am having intercourse my lady closes her eyes, she gives the cutest little peek aboo during and it ads to the moment.

It is not anything bad if a woman is not looking whether either of you are performing oral or having sex. Personally i enjoy the initial eye contact when you first enter a woman, the pleasure in her eyes and that skipped breath, after that we just both kinda close our eyes and enjoy.

I don't know, never found it an issue, maybe some feel a need for reassurance that everything is ok, as for pounding harder in frustration. Sorry to hear thats how you handle it. Just enjoy the pleasure that is the moment and remember we are all different.

 

[bendover baby]

WHO REALLY CARES IF HER EYES ARE OPEN OR CLOSED.

BEND HER OVER, DO HER DOGGY STYLE. SHE CAN DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS.

IF IT'S REALLY A BIG DEAL THEN MEET HALF WAY,

CLOSE 1 EYE, AND KEEP THE OTHER OPEN.

CHEERS

 

[SweetCee]

comunitcation

comunitcation is the MOST important aspect of any relationship, professional, romantic, platonic, whatever.

I don't thing that ITB is an awful client... come on guys he didn't say he would strangle the girl and eyes closed can be a BIG deal for someone and could be a legitamate complaint.... however I do feel he could handle the situation better. (no offense ITB)

I had a bf way back that HATED eyes closed and after much encouragement he taught me to have mine open, always. In my professional life I have found many many clients who have been totally creeped out but this, so now I keep my eye's closed most of the time. Look up every once in awhile to gage their reaction and if it is good increase eye contact, if not, avert!

I would like to think that all sp's are intuitive with their clients needs but nobody is perfect. Perhaps a simple "I really like to see your eyes, are you comfortable with eye contact" when making an appointment is in order?

Yes, refusing eye contact after repeated asking is annoying, but perhaps it is a discussion for before the appointment not during. When I was first asked to do this by the b/f it was really difficult.

 

[gigidy gigidy]

Nicely done!

 

[Krustee]

Your SP closin her eyes on ya?

Fine, just do what I do & give er' a little Red-Green fix.

Just tape her eyes open with a couple stips of man's handy helper.

If yer women don't find ya handsome, they at east should find ya handy!


Yeah, duct tape is mans best friend but women can find it useful too:

 

[InTheBum]

comunitcation is the MOST important aspect of any relationship, professional, romantic, platonic, whatever.

I don't thing that ITB is an awful client... come on guys he didn't say he would strangle the girl and eyes closed can be a BIG deal for someone and could be a legitamate complaint.... however I do feel he could handle the situation better. (no offense ITB)

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Thanks for the support SC! Also, you are right, I'm not an awful client at all...actually, I am sure I am better than 95% of clients. That being said, I do expect a good effort from the SP for the money.

 

[gigidy gigidy]

That is definately fair enough ITB.

 

[gigidy gigidy]

closing your eyes

Avarice i must say that is too cute! The shy type, nothing hotter i think, maybe throw in a quick peek until our eyes meet and im in heaven!

 

[Janaya]

I wonder what it means that I keep my eyes open during kissing but close them during DATY?

LMFAO! I have to admit..once in a while when I'm kissing someone, I'll peek to see if their eyes are open...I always think of it as weird if people kiss with their eyes open...too funny!

 

[Krustee]

I wonder what it means that I keep my eyes open during kissing but close them during DATY?

Do you also wear a nose plug?

I think I know what that means.