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Cheating? Would you take them back?

Would you take back your SO if he/she was cheating on you?

  • I wouldn't leave them. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance.

    Votes: 17 39.5%
  • I'd give them 3 chances. No more!

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • They can cheat on me all they want. Isn't love about sacrifice?

    Votes: 8 18.6%
  • I'd walk away from the whole thing. Once a cheater always a cheater.

    Votes: 17 39.5%

  • Total voters
    43

7th Sin

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Jan 12, 2004
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Just wondering what the concensus on PERB is on the matter. If you found out your significant other was cheating on you (having sexual relations) would stay with them?
 

Very Veronica

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Aug 2, 2004
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A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.

- Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Grey
 

freaky

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Apr 26, 2003
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Non monogamous.

Aren't we all non monogamous? That doesn't make us cheaters, since not all of us married. Some of us can just detach the emotions from it, and justify it as it isn't an affair, it is just a business for sex transaction.

It might sound a little cold, but at least the escorts don't have to worry about getting stalked by men who rationalize it as a business transaction.
 

Bull

Banned
Sep 22, 2004
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Been there as well. Took her back initially, but the slow erosion of trust had begun, and it eventually imploded. :(

 

Gruss-ly

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Jul 15, 2004
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YVR
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Depends

Totally depends on the situation and the definition of "cheat" If she was booking time with an escort to satisfy something I wasn't able to give her and our relationship was not negatively affected by it then I would have very little problem with it. However, if she was doing our neighbor, friend or work acquaintance... I would have a strong negative reaction to it. The first way is anonymous, the second is personal.
 

Maury Beniowski

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Mar 31, 2004
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In a nice wet pussy!
Different approach!

I cheated... She gave me a second chance, but I couldn't stand the look of pain in her eyes, so I left her. Best thing I did for the both of us. I know she still cares for me, and would probably take me back, but I couldn't stand living with her pain...
 
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