Breaking The Ice

[hydrargyrum]

Hello Perbs,

I am still new to the hobby and as the title implies, I have some trouble breaking the ice with SP's. I usually see asian SP's and there will occasionally be a language barrier. So oftentimes the start of the session will consist of us disrobing and walking to the shower without any real communication of any sort and I generally feel pretty awkward. So, my question is this, how do you guys/girls break the ice when meeting with a new SP/client?

 

[girth-brooks]

Be yourself. Tell her what you like about her and what you like service wise.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Where are you from?
How was your day?
How long have you been in Victoria?
What do you like about it?
Have you been to the mainland?
What do you do for fun?
Do you like TV?Movies?Internet?Video games? Karaoke?
What are your plans for the evening/weekend?

Just try to have a reply to everything she says or be prepared for charades if English is her second language. I always thought that was the reason men went to see Asian ladies is because they don't have to converse. Its nice that you wanna try.

 

[sevenofnine]

be yourself,
but your not there to chat, or make friends.
I find it annoying at work if clients come in and think were friends or are looking for friendship, it is a big turn off for me,

but on the other hand, I have made had and great relationships, with clients and sp's
take care of business first, everyone is happy, and polite and respectful,

and we plan to see each other to keep up the business end of it, so why not be friendly,
at work daily, with my sp weekly or so,

so a relationship naturally develops over time and not rushed.
you have to feel each other out first, to see if well, can they do the job if your both happy and satisfied and,
only then do I slowly ease into any sort of relationship,
any shit about how is your day, going how are you, is just a waste of time, to me any way,
and yes I have been told im rude, by people who I just meet and think were friends, and buddies right,
fuck off is all I got to say,

but I do my job, and people respect that I take care of them, and over time a mutual friendship comes.
instead of some false sense of were friends great,

 

[Lady Companion]

I would also recommend seeing ladies who are at least conversational in English, and ideally independent ladies. If you prefer to stick with MP's, then let the booking lady know that conversation is an important part of your experience, and request a lady who is as close to fluent as possible.

It is much more challenging to make a connection with somebody you can't converse with, especially in a short period of time. The benefit of seeing an independent lady is that you will have an opportunity to communicate with her directly to make the appointment, and can begin developing a bit of a rapport at that point.

 

[grizzly]

Hello Perbs,

I am still new to the hobby and as the title implies, I have some trouble breaking the ice with SP's. I usually see asian SP's and there will occasionally be a language barrier. So oftentimes the start of the session will consist of us disrobing and walking to the shower without any real communication of any sort and I generally feel pretty awkward. So, my question is this, how do you guys/girls break the ice when meeting with a new SP/client?

I've been partaking in this hobby for years and yet after all this time, like you, I still find it awkward to break the ice. Even outside this hobby, I find myself at a loss trying to start a conversation with someone I've just met. Unless I have a couple of cocktails in me, then you can't shut me up. There have been times when I've met a new lady who is equally inept at breaking the ice, and have literally spent entire sessions hardly conversing at all. I find visiting well reviewed ladies is the answer. A reputable girl is usually not only praised for her skills during playtime, but also for being very personable. Often times, with the ladies permission, I will bring along a bottle of wine which helps me get over my anxiety.