As some of you may know, I've carved a bit of a niche for myself as a Sexual Coach/Instructor. Some assume that sessions are basically just me taking people's virginity and showing them where the clit is and some basics about what to do and what not to do. While 1 hour single sessions usual result in something along these lines, I found that that they are not terribly successful for long term skills as it's way too hard to remember everything that's said. And of course, with all things, practice, practice, practice makes perfect.
I give NO guarantee that a single hour will make anyone a Don Juan/Casanova. I will still be offering 1 hour sessions but reluctantly and only because I understand the cruel bitch that is the student budget. I prefer sessions that focus on one activity per session (from kissing & touching to oral to positions) as these have a much higher success rate.
I've watched a lot of sex ed videos in my quest to find the best ones possible so I can refer to them when it's physically impossible for me to demonstrate certain techniques (I'm nowhere near flexible enough to demonstrate DATY or proper manual G-spot stimulation on myself and demonstrating on my flesh light usually just results in giggle sessions... most unhelpful). Most videos are HORRIBLE to watch. Some are so bland, uninspiring and unerotic that they don't arouse at all. Some have ridiculous information. Sorry Nina Hartley, that stupid pinchy-pully-pussy maneuver has caused me to almost smack a few who had seen your demonstration and thought it would be a wonderful addition to a non-existent repertoire of techniques. Also, Saran-Wrap? REALLY? Seriously? You haven't heard of dental dams? How very 80's and out of date.
My quest seems to have ended as I do believe I've found the Be-All-End-All of sex ed series. Some of you may be familiar with Tristan Taormino's Epic Series "The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex for Women." Vivid Video has come out with a positively brilliant series called ...Expert's Guide to....
The Expert's series consists of breaking things down into specific activities: HandJobs for Men & Women, Positions, G-Spot, Fellatio (BJ's for the philistines), Cunnilingus (DATY), and Anal. Most are hosted by Tristan herself.
Each video starts with a classroom session, complete with diagrams, illustrating the relative anatomy and covers basic techniques and info.
From there the video's consist of easily selected scenes. Each scene appears in 2 forms. Form one consists of the scenes with pop-up video-esque information bubbles pointing out different techniques while displaying the activities without interruption. The same scenes are also viewable without the pop-ups which makes for great erotic viewing in their own right.
Don't expect Kama Sutra clavicle crunching techniques or positions. These are the meat & potatoes moves and maneuvers that everyone can do and they are classics for a reason... they work.
I love this series - the ones I own, as I don't have them all yet, but have a few more on order - as I find the info they present matches what I teach so it acts as an excellent study guide. They are very easy to follow, erotic & fun. I've yet to see any smack-worth pinchy-pully-pussy techniques.
I always recommend the video's to my "students" and frequently lend out my copies. Those who have committed to really learning to become good lovers find them incredibly helpful and the results have been equally incredible. I can honestly say that I am quite easily orgasmic which may prove to be a disservice to my clients who may find future partners less so; however, there are degrees of orgasm and a good long teasing build up with excellent techniques has resulted in my toes curling to the point of cramping, extended period of seeing stars and near loss of consciousness.
I will certainly be including links to the site in the updated version of my site text.
Cheers all & happy shagging.
http://www.vivid-ed.com/index.php?p=mlist
I give NO guarantee that a single hour will make anyone a Don Juan/Casanova. I will still be offering 1 hour sessions but reluctantly and only because I understand the cruel bitch that is the student budget. I prefer sessions that focus on one activity per session (from kissing & touching to oral to positions) as these have a much higher success rate.
I've watched a lot of sex ed videos in my quest to find the best ones possible so I can refer to them when it's physically impossible for me to demonstrate certain techniques (I'm nowhere near flexible enough to demonstrate DATY or proper manual G-spot stimulation on myself and demonstrating on my flesh light usually just results in giggle sessions... most unhelpful). Most videos are HORRIBLE to watch. Some are so bland, uninspiring and unerotic that they don't arouse at all. Some have ridiculous information. Sorry Nina Hartley, that stupid pinchy-pully-pussy maneuver has caused me to almost smack a few who had seen your demonstration and thought it would be a wonderful addition to a non-existent repertoire of techniques. Also, Saran-Wrap? REALLY? Seriously? You haven't heard of dental dams? How very 80's and out of date.
My quest seems to have ended as I do believe I've found the Be-All-End-All of sex ed series. Some of you may be familiar with Tristan Taormino's Epic Series "The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex for Women." Vivid Video has come out with a positively brilliant series called ...Expert's Guide to....
The Expert's series consists of breaking things down into specific activities: HandJobs for Men & Women, Positions, G-Spot, Fellatio (BJ's for the philistines), Cunnilingus (DATY), and Anal. Most are hosted by Tristan herself.
Each video starts with a classroom session, complete with diagrams, illustrating the relative anatomy and covers basic techniques and info.
From there the video's consist of easily selected scenes. Each scene appears in 2 forms. Form one consists of the scenes with pop-up video-esque information bubbles pointing out different techniques while displaying the activities without interruption. The same scenes are also viewable without the pop-ups which makes for great erotic viewing in their own right.
Don't expect Kama Sutra clavicle crunching techniques or positions. These are the meat & potatoes moves and maneuvers that everyone can do and they are classics for a reason... they work.
I love this series - the ones I own, as I don't have them all yet, but have a few more on order - as I find the info they present matches what I teach so it acts as an excellent study guide. They are very easy to follow, erotic & fun. I've yet to see any smack-worth pinchy-pully-pussy techniques.
I always recommend the video's to my "students" and frequently lend out my copies. Those who have committed to really learning to become good lovers find them incredibly helpful and the results have been equally incredible. I can honestly say that I am quite easily orgasmic which may prove to be a disservice to my clients who may find future partners less so; however, there are degrees of orgasm and a good long teasing build up with excellent techniques has resulted in my toes curling to the point of cramping, extended period of seeing stars and near loss of consciousness.
I will certainly be including links to the site in the updated version of my site text.
Cheers all & happy shagging.
http://www.vivid-ed.com/index.php?p=mlist
