At first, I didn't know what to make of it.
"Pardon me?" I enquired of my Mistress.
My Mistress, then repeated Herself: "Are you ready to serve?"
"Yes!" I replied, unhesitantly.
I should make mention that that was the initial dialogue between myself and my Mistress, on my most recent visit to Her Lair.
Later, after I'd departed from the presence of my Mistress, I thought about Her, and in particular, what my Mistress had made enquiry about?
It brought back to my mind an article that I had read quite some time ago.
The article in question proved to be rather insightful and provided me with much to think and ponder about.
Perhaps you've wondered, as I often have, just what it means when a submissive offers to serve a Fem-Dom, a beautiful Mistress?
Notice how the article started out, enquiringly so:
"Serve, Service, Servitude?
What do you mean when you offer to serve?
What do you mean when you offer to be of service?
What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?
Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?
Do you envision some Amazon Goddess sporting a huge strap-on and taking you anally?
Do you envision yourself prancing around in some French Maid Costume and being asked to provide oral service to a Mistress?
Do you envision some Woman squatting over your helplessly bound body “forcing” you to serve Her orally?
Do you envision being put over Her knee and spanked like a naughty little boy?
Yes, they definitely are nice visions!
However, not one of those visions is the definition of “serve” or “servitude”.
Oh, I’m sure you would consider them to be just that, but if you check your dictionaries you won’t find any mention of French Maid Costumes or bondage or strap-ons or oral sex or any other fetish that you may enjoy.
In fact, you won’t find any mention of fetishes at all in the definitions.........
When you offer to serve a Fem-Dom, what you are offering (or should be offering) is the surrender of your control.
Your offer of service is your ability to let go of your ego and your free will (control) and allow her to control you.
Serving is, first and foremost, the act of making her life easier.
It is compliance with all her desires, wishes, and orders.......
IF you have truly submitted, then your actions will be measured by how your Mistress would feel about it.
Your decisions will be based upon what you are allowed or not allowed to decide without her permission.
You will treat others with respect, but especially other women.
There may be other constant reminders; she may insist you wear panties under your clothes at work.
But you will always remember that you have submitted to her and will honor that commitment.
Now, how can you serve your Mistress – what are the ways?
These are a number of ways that you can serve her once you have been trained in what she wants and likes.
Don’t be afraid to use your imagination to surprise her (provided of course that she has no problem with you doing this occasionally).
You must remember that a happy, contented, pleased, relaxed woman is a woman who will then have no problem torturing you, using you, or even indulging you with a fetish or two that are your favorites…………just to show you how much she really appreciates your service and submission to her."
With that said, I remember with much fondness, a recent e-mail that I'd received from my Mistress.
Notice, if you will, just how erotically stimulating Her e-mail to me was:
"submissive one,
Upon reading your reply, I decided to meditate.
Then take a long bubble bath and smooth MY soft and silky skin with organic oils.
Slowly, while in contemplation, I allowed my slender, strong fingers to caress each memorable curve, surrendering MY mind to the throbbing pulsations of pleasure.
The next day, I ran the trails through Stanley Park, until the fragrance of MY perspiration moistened MY tiny tee shirt and shorts.
MY long, hard, and erect nipples were pushing out against the transparency of the sheer material, and clinging to it, as if it were MY second skin.
When I returned home, I demanded that MY beautiful female submissive help ME by removing MY clothes.
As she slid MY shorts down MY legs, I stretched each foot, extending it out,.......then removing MY shoes and socks, and she continued on by massaging MY tired feet.
Gently, she slid her hands over MY body.
I was waiting for it to happen - the pain of sensual pleasures, MY listening to the sound of an erotic touch, feeling the sensations of the unknown.
Today, I decided to respond...............while I drink MY tea.......I feel the need to have "something" between MY legs......there she is, as I pull her out of the closet, and straddle her, positioning Myself so that she cannot move around.
I plan on riding her for hours and hours today.
Perhaps, to Steveston?........my race bike is so reliable."
Hmmmmm, I'm not really sure why She wrote that e-mail to me like She did?
My guess is that that is just one of my Mistress' many ways of making known to me Her intentions for the day, very similar but not unlike one of Her more memorable texts to date:
"I am sitting here having tea waiting to use YOU."
My Mistress definitely got my attention, my undivided attention, and.......held it there!!
With that said, that e-mail of Hers got me thinking (again) that a submissive one cannot take for granted one's servitude to a beautiful Mistress.
It must say that, what was previously commented on, actually proved to be an excellent lead-in to another article which went on to explore just one of many aspects of Fem-Dom servitude - "male oral slavery".
This next article went on to mention that "most "modern women" do not hesitate to demand oral stimulation from a man and tell him, as well, how they want it!......Finally!!"
Now, I should make mention that the Goddess who wrote it did not mince words, either!
She continued on about such demands, by relating the following:
"....and, I am of course lucky enough to want and get memorable, mind blowing, extended, passionate, and willing male oral service and satisfaction – nothing less will do!!
I have read several guides to good cunnilingus and have enjoyed them very much.
I consider cunnilingus and anilingus much more than just a sexual act!
For me, it is as well, an act of being worshipped, adored, and loved and…..most of all, Respected!
Furthermore, I consider cunnilingus and anilingus excellent ways for a man to prove to a woman how much he is willing to unselfishly please, serve, and satisfy her and how much he is willing to swallow his macho pride for HER pleasure and amusement, ignoring his pleasure and wants.
I mean there is of course a good dose of male humiliation (and sometimes suffering) in it, depending on the way the oral service is performed or demanded - AND? - So, there should be, as this is a major part of the fun!!
But how to start?
Of course, the cunnilingus technique how to lick, suck, breathe (especially when being queened), swallow, etc. is important, but equally important for me, is the way the whole act is "celebrated".
There is much more to it than just "slobbering" away like a dog!!
Over the years I have developed a very high standard of what I expect from a man when it comes to performing orally on me – no matter how!
Therefore, I have created "guidelines" as to how to properly worship a lady orally.
Rules and Guidelines for Proper Gentlemen to Proper Male Oral Servitude:
Consider orally serving a woman a privilege and an honour!
Always be ready, eager, and willing to serve her orally in any way and as much as she likes, at any time, anywhere, and under any circumstances, no matter whether she just was at the gym for a workout or whether she has just had sex with you or any other man.
You always owe her your full oral servitude at all times.
Consider it your basic duty as a (gentle-) man to serve a lady like that.
Consider cunnilingus and anilingus as the basic and natural form of having sex with a woman.
Never expect anything in return, let alone demand any sexual favours in return.
Absolutely never and under no circumstances ejaculate without her consent.
Do not masturbate or play with yourself while serving her orally, unless she wants you to.
Whenever you think about losing control, beg her to help you, i.e. with some harsh testicle treatment (slapping, kneading and/or stretching vigorously) in order to immediately abort your urge to ejaculate and to "cool" you down.
It is YOUR duty to signal it to her early enough to avoid unpermitted ejaculation.
There is no excuse for it, no matter how much she has been teasing you!
Should you have been granted the utmost privilege of oral servitude, an excellent way for you to do so is to offer her your face to sit on, however, always do it the way that she likes it best!
Always express utmost and humble respect when serving a woman orally, i.e. any form of oral service is always performed with you being fully naked, kneeling in front of her ready to serve, even if you are only required to tongue clean the soles of her shoes or to kiss her anus.
You can only remain clothed or semi-clothed if explicitly instructed by her to do so.
Never touch her with your hands and always keep your hands firmly behind your back at all times while serving her orally, unless instructed by her to use your hands in any other way.
Always follow her wishes and instructions promptly and eagerly no matter how much discomfort or humiliation it may cause you and never stop until she tells you to, pushes you away or simply gets off you.
Always be prepared to eagerly drink and swallow any form of vaginal discharge, slime, sweat, juices, semen(!), and of course, her urine.
Always lick her properly clean after she has climaxed and thank her for the privilege with a deep, passionate, and memorable anal French kiss.
Consider it a (gentle-) man's duty to offer her your mouth as a ladies toilet at any time.
Always assume the necessary position, which allows her maximum ease and comfort and enables you to swallow every drop, i.e. without causing any mess.
Learn to swallow continuously and efficiently, allowing her to use your mouth freely without any restrictions or inhibitions.
Always lick her clean after she has used you and thank her afterwards for that privilege and honour.
Equally, when tongue serving her anally, be prepared to tongue clean her anus AND rectum(!) properly from any sort of dirt, especially when she wishes to use your tongue, instead of toilet paper.
Always ask for permission to wash your mouth after tongue-serving her anally, should you be required to perform further oral services for her or any other woman.
Never perform cunnilingus after you have performed anilingus, without washing your mouth first (-> could cause vaginal infections).
Otherwise, of course, be proud to taste her anal flavour in your mouth for as long as possible.
The presence of other women does not change any of the above rules, i.e. when required to serve her you perform with equal eagerness and passion, strip fully naked and kneel in front of her, willingly enduring the humiliation it may cause you being exposed, paraded or shown off in front of other women.
Accept the right of your lady to always offer your oral services as well to other women.
Always obey her and serve any other lady given to with utmost respect and devotion in any way required, no matter whether you like her looks or not, and accept the humiliation as a proof of your love for your lady, and a proof of your respect and adoration for the female sex."
Keeping those two articles in mind, I must let you know what my Mistress had recently e-mailed me about:
"Mmmmh,......SWEET submissive,
I hope this e-mail finds you in your best, horniest state!
I know that you are thinking about ME, and I know EXACTLY why?
I made you really horny the last time that you were with ME in MY Lair,......didn't I?
I have been thinking how you've been handling yourself lately,.....and, dare I say, cock?
I recall how easily your little cock (the sight of it arouses in ME thoughts,......thoughts of MY beautiful female submissive' erect clitoris......and the pleasure I derive from using it) gets so hard and how easy it is to take you the edge,.....yes, but ONLY TO THE EDGE of the sweetest of orgasms!
The denial of orgasm.....mmmmhhh......and having your balls sooo full........for ME!
When I see you next week I will refresh your memory, again, as to how I like it.
Since that day is still a week away, I'm giving you enough notice to think and dream about ME,........constantly!
As I sit here,....thinking,.....fantasizing,......I am WET,.....thinking about smothering you,......and all the other things that I want to do.....to you.....or have you do.....for ME!
Now, I want you to tell ME, when I see you next, just how frustrated and horny I've made you, and just how much that makes you fantasize about ME?
Let's just say that I want you hungry for MY attention!"
Ahem!.......And that, shall I say, makes ALL the sense in the world!
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