I'm sorry, am I missing something here? How is a beautiful Sp willing to allow a client to have their fantasy fulfilled by allowing the client to make a porn video make her any less of a lady? Actresses, models, female musicians, and the like pose for Playboy, and some have made porn movies, and they all profit from them so how is this any different? When those ladies get interviewed and asked as to why they posed etc they often say that they feel more feminine, sensual, empowered, and free. Couples make porn videos all the time with neither partner feeling belittled; instead, they feel great that they accomplished something of contentment for the relationship. People videotape their bachelor parties, high school grad rallies, and the like-does that demean them? I respect your opinion and that is fine if you believe that is so. These vids will be for my eyes only, to relive a momentous event, and any Sp willing to allow this will be a lady through and through!