Im sure that if I got treated rudely, then others must have as well, and are not voicing this here. I guess im here to take up this cause.
Put simply, I make a conscious effort to ensure that Im both cordial and respectful, perhaps even too understanding at times. Not getting the same level of respect in return (even from a self-proclaimed "party girl") is a red flag to me - Yes, shes probably dealt with a lot of BS, but never from me.
Unprovoked attacks are usually a sign of something (lot of options as to what that something is... I aint gonna pay to find out).
My "objective" 2 cents