Anal Sex

[Pantsnake]

Over the past few years one of my favorite sex acts has been performing anal sex. Although still a bit of a taboo I find more and more ladies open to the idea. I have found that it can be a pleasureable experience for both the man and the woman if it is performed properly with lubrication and relaxation.
Unfortunately I have also been rejected on several occasions because of the fact that I am very well endowed and the lady thinks it will hurt or injure her. While I understand this from alot of my dates, I also encounter this with certain SP's who offer "Greek" in their ads. I would assume that if they offer this service they should know how to perform it comfortably and with pleasure. Sometimes I think they are just using that as an excuse not to provide anal. I do respect each SP's right to provide only the services which they are comfortable with but sometimes I think I'm being fed a line.
My question is, How big is too big for anal sex? We're not talking horse size, just larger than most of the male population. I would think that with proper preparation and technique this isn't an issue. I'd appreciate SERIOUS feedback.
Thank you

 

[sonoman]

In my experience (giving... lol), there's no substitute for a girl that is already turned on and genuinely likes anal. When you've already been fooling around and engaging in other things, the transition to anal with someone already comfortable with it should be pretty seamless, regardless of your size; if there's been no foreplay or lead-up to it though, you'll have a tougher time getting started.

As far as SP's go, I engaged with a few and usually with ok results [I'm average size]. I've never been refused greek or had a difficult time with it, but for the most part, as I said, unless you're with someone who genuinely likes anal and is already warmed up, the experience can sometimes be a bit mechanical.

As for the rest, I don't doubt that many SP's (particularly younger ones) advertise it with no real intention of offering it. I appreciate size being a concern, but it is difficult to tell whether that's the truth for declining. How big is too big? That really might depend on how experienced someone is, but, like I said, there's no substitute for desire. I know though of at least one SP on this board who told me she can get a "horse c*ock" in there. So I guess for some really size doesn't matter.

 

[Sherman Diddly]

... I know though of at least one SP on this board who told me she can get a "horse c*ock" in there...

Call me selfish but I prefer not to share my women with horses. But seriously, who the hell would admit such a thing?

 

[Very Veronica]

Call me selfish but I prefer not to share my women with horses. But seriously, who the hell would admit such a thing?

It's a skill..like being able to swallow knives..tight-ass. Pantsnake, you'd have better luck with this thread if you posted it in the lounge. This area is a q&a for the health nurse.

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

Over the past few years one of my favorite sex acts has been performing anal sex. Although still a bit of a taboo I find more and more ladies open to the idea. I have found that it can be a pleasureable experience for both the man and the woman if it is performed properly with lubrication and relaxation.
Unfortunately I have also been rejected on several occasions because of the fact that I am very well endowed and the lady thinks it will hurt or injure her. While I understand this from alot of my dates, I also encounter this with certain SP's who offer "Greek" in their ads. I would assume that if they offer this service they should know how to perform it comfortably and with pleasure. Sometimes I think they are just using that as an excuse not to provide anal. I do respect each SP's right to provide only the services which they are comfortable with but sometimes I think I'm being fed a line.
My question is, How big is too big for anal sex? We're not talking horse size, just larger than most of the male population. I would think that with proper preparation and technique this isn't an issue. I'd appreciate SERIOUS feedback.
Thank you

First off the vagina is the gateway of life, meaning it can stretch to accomodate an infant. An anus isn't usually capable of doing that, at least not without a lot of lube and patience but still no baby.

I fear your scepticism towards SPs, their asses, and their service is a little off putting. That perhaps your paying them is having some kind of entitlement to their body and what you can stuff in them. Your expectation that "they should be able to perform it comfortably and with pleasure" is pretty confusing. You seem like an intelligent man who has at one point have been given the all too true fact that everyone is different, moreso with your claim of sporting an above average appendage, that you'd understand that not every Greek welcoming SP can accomodate a large phallis and in such a short period of time. Also, the majority of the male population is not well endowed like yourself. You may want to perchance, might want to consider that the time restriction a possibility in that your anal expectations aren't being met.

 

[icemanmp1]

anal sex

if a woman wants it then as a gentlemen i must oblige......


as a rule the butt is an "exit only"

 

[Pantsnake]

I fear your scepticism towards SPs, their asses, and their service is a little off putting. That perhaps your paying them is having some kind of entitlement to their body and what you can stuff in them. QUOTE]

I take exception to your ASSumption. Being raised by a single mom and having 3 older sisters, I have nothing but respect for women whether they are SP's or collegues. I do not think that I am entitled to anything whether I'm with a woman I am paying or out on a date. The SP's I am talking about advertise GREEK services. I'm not forcing anything on anybody.

 

[georgebushmoron]

I fear your scepticism towards SPs, their asses, and their service is a little off putting. That perhaps your paying them is having some kind of entitlement to their body and what you can stuff in them.

I take exception to your ASSumption. Being raised by a single mom and having 3 older sisters, I have nothing but respect for women whether they are SP's or collegues. I do not think that I am entitled to anything whether I'm with a woman I am paying or out on a date. The SP's I am talking about advertise GREEK services. I'm not forcing anything on anybody.

Yet you make contradictory statements:

A) I would assume that if they offer this service they should know how to perform it comfortably and with pleasure.... B) I do respect each SP's right to provide only the services which they are comfortable ...
How big is too big for anal sex? We're not talking horse size, just C) larger than most of the male population.

First you A) make the assumption that they're comfortable with it. If they advertise they can, you'd think they'd be comfortable with it - that's your line of thinking. Seems nothing wrong with that. But then you say you B) respect them if they are comfortable. Ok, nobody can criticize you for that either. Then you say C) you're bigger than most of the male population. If Masters & Johnston are right, you're bigger than the average which is 6" long and 1.5" wide.

So let me put the question to you: you pay for what you expected from what the SP advertises, you assume they're comfortable with it if they advertise it, then when it comes down to the act, the SP sees your "bigger than most of the male population" and decides it's not going to happen with her. At that point you have 2 choices: a) put up with it and realize that she can not accomodate your "bigger than most of the male population", or b) ask for your money back - assuming you warned her of your large predicament before you handed over the money. Either way one were to look at it, it seems you have an expectation you wish for the SP to fulfill, even if it hurts like hell. So the question is, would you take your big penis up your own ass even if you liked getting greeked?

I think CLM hit it right on the button when she spoke of your feelings of entitlement, because with entitlement comes with being unable to put yourself in the other person's position.

 

[littlejimbigher]

Yet you make contradictory statements:


So let me put the question to you: you pay for what you expected from what the SP advertises, you assume they're comfortable with it if they advertise it, then when it comes down to the act, the SP sees your "bigger than most of the male population" and decides it's not going to happen with her. At that point you have 2 choices: a) put up with it and realize that she can not accomodate your "bigger than most of the male population", or b) ask for your money back - assuming you warned her of your large predicament before you handed over the money. .

I've had similar things happen where the SP changed her mind, but never ever got a refund because other options were offered. ie more time.