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I actually used to use aff but it's huge work to find the gems and for guys it's even harder and you have to pay. By all means, try it out for a month or two but from what i've heard from the guys, you'll be expending huge effort for little to no pay-out. And that's if you're super hot.
I use to be a member for about a year met two from there and satisfied the carnal urge. But it's hard to find anyone from BC in chat and I think half the ads are AFF's version of a lost leader.....lol
Anyway my .02
Anyway my .02
Try the free chat 
I got lucky there recently... which is more that I ever got when I was paying
Paying gives ya jerk off material...that's it.
I got lucky there recently... which is more that I ever got when I was paying
Paying gives ya jerk off material...that's it.
If you're into swinging, aff is a great resource but you've gotta be hot and have good pics.
Check out the monthly parties at the Lotus (Body Perv) and Club 23 (Sin City).
And go to the Taboo Sex Show as well...lots of sexy swingy couples will be there.
Check out the monthly parties at the Lotus (Body Perv) and Club 23 (Sin City).
And go to the Taboo Sex Show as well...lots of sexy swingy couples will be there.
do i go to fetish nites often?
Nope but if i have a really saucey outfit and am feeling particularily exhibitionist or if i've snafued a new boytoy who wants to be led around on a leash and collar for all to see i will go to Sin City.
The room at the Lotus is like someones dingy basement with too many ugly old men in tattered raincoat costumes...until they renovate and attract a hotter crowd, that's fetish nite for non-hotties.
Nope but if i have a really saucey outfit and am feeling particularily exhibitionist or if i've snafued a new boytoy who wants to be led around on a leash and collar for all to see i will go to Sin City.
The room at the Lotus is like someones dingy basement with too many ugly old men in tattered raincoat costumes...until they renovate and attract a hotter crowd, that's fetish nite for non-hotties.
Lava Life...
The ratio of men to women on that site about 20 to 1.
Best experience I had from that was three years ago when I met a 20 year old that liked older guys and would dress up in a school girl uniform and liked to be spanked. That's like getting hit by lightning...but I got hit.
She would f--k my brains out after taking her out for dinner.
Those were good times. Very yummy.
AFF...tried that yearssssssss ago...what a waste of time. Site has likely changed alot since then. Would never go back.
Lava Life is mostly a waste of time. But good for a laugh.
Later,
bobsled.
The ratio of men to women on that site about 20 to 1.
Best experience I had from that was three years ago when I met a 20 year old that liked older guys and would dress up in a school girl uniform and liked to be spanked. That's like getting hit by lightning...but I got hit.
She would f--k my brains out after taking her out for dinner.
Those were good times. Very yummy.
AFF...tried that yearssssssss ago...what a waste of time. Site has likely changed alot since then. Would never go back.
Lava Life is mostly a waste of time. But good for a laugh.
Later,
bobsled.
Best Bet in BC Chat on AFF
BC chat can be fun, if you can stay up late enough where everyone gets better looking. There are quite a few regulars in there that do play. I have actually met some fantastic people in there and the first girl I ever me is one of my best friends now. Just don't go in there looking like your too anxious and let them lead you into the sex talk. Be polite and watch your spelling. There are a few chat lifers in there that like to run BC Chat.
I actually went to a meet and greet last week for the bc chatters and found them all to be very nice decent people with a penchant for kinky sex.
There are tricks to getting noticed. Stay in Chat and particpate, put women from there in your hot list. Flattery does really work. Lastly be aware that some pics on there might be older than dirt.
Good luck
BC chat can be fun, if you can stay up late enough where everyone gets better looking. There are quite a few regulars in there that do play. I have actually met some fantastic people in there and the first girl I ever me is one of my best friends now. Just don't go in there looking like your too anxious and let them lead you into the sex talk. Be polite and watch your spelling. There are a few chat lifers in there that like to run BC Chat.
I actually went to a meet and greet last week for the bc chatters and found them all to be very nice decent people with a penchant for kinky sex.
There are tricks to getting noticed. Stay in Chat and particpate, put women from there in your hot list. Flattery does really work. Lastly be aware that some pics on there might be older than dirt.
Good luck
sexsearch
I was wondering about sexsearch (and also AFF)...
I put up a profile and I have gotten quite a few emails on sexsearch (23) since I signed in less than a week ago. BUT they all seem to be written by the same person. Either there's some guy pretending to be a girl being paid to send emails to unsuspecting horny guys to see if they pay for a subscription in order to reply, or a lot of girls write the same lame email that feels like a form letter.
Anyone had any luck with sexsearch?
I'm honestly curious, since it's been the site where I've gotten the most interest from.
Lavalife I have had a couple of one-time intimate encounters that could have turned to regular ones but the girls hygiene left a lot to be desired. Funny how the stereotype is about guys being the dirty smelly ones.
thanks
I was wondering about sexsearch (and also AFF)...
I put up a profile and I have gotten quite a few emails on sexsearch (23) since I signed in less than a week ago. BUT they all seem to be written by the same person. Either there's some guy pretending to be a girl being paid to send emails to unsuspecting horny guys to see if they pay for a subscription in order to reply, or a lot of girls write the same lame email that feels like a form letter.
Anyone had any luck with sexsearch?
I'm honestly curious, since it's been the site where I've gotten the most interest from.
Lavalife I have had a couple of one-time intimate encounters that could have turned to regular ones but the girls hygiene left a lot to be desired. Funny how the stereotype is about guys being the dirty smelly ones.
thanks
Mostly a WOT, but...
on AFF got VERY lucky once with an extremely gorgeous young lady...
Met a nice girl on Lava once, too (man she was a thirsty girl if ya know what I mean....hoovered like a....vacuum..OK that didn't sound right...you get the picture)
In between the 2 scores was a LOT of wasted time...got to the point where I got sick of sitting at the computer and went off and did something useful instead...and mind you this coming from someone who posts on perb so you've got to know it can be a bit futile...
If you have a good strategy and are better than average looking and good with the ladies, you should do great, but be prepared to e-mail your pic to everyone and totally lose your anonimity...plus be prepared to invest some time and effort....come to think f it, if you're single, just get out and about..if you're looking to cheat on the wife or GF, this may be the way
on AFF got VERY lucky once with an extremely gorgeous young lady...
Met a nice girl on Lava once, too (man she was a thirsty girl if ya know what I mean....hoovered like a....vacuum..OK that didn't sound right...you get the picture)
In between the 2 scores was a LOT of wasted time...got to the point where I got sick of sitting at the computer and went off and did something useful instead...and mind you this coming from someone who posts on perb
so you've got to know it can be a bit futile...If you have a good strategy and are better than average looking and good with the ladies, you should do great, but be prepared to e-mail your pic to everyone and totally lose your anonimity...plus be prepared to invest some time and effort....come to think f it, if you're single, just get out and about..if you're looking to cheat on the wife or GF, this may be the way
AFF,,,truth or consequences....
I've been a member or abit and have had average success. Living in 'no mans land' near the BC/AB border near Fernie, it's kinda tough hooking up with hotties. It's been done and probably again, butt I wonder if the effort is worth it. A MAJORITY of the female ads are spammers trying to get your email address. I prefer a more upfront and honest approach; pooning.
Peterbe.
I've been a member or abit and have had average success. Living in 'no mans land' near the BC/AB border near Fernie, it's kinda tough hooking up with hotties. It's been done and probably again, butt I wonder if the effort is worth it. A MAJORITY of the female ads are spammers trying to get your email address. I prefer a more upfront and honest approach; pooning.
Peterbe.
