a quick question
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I would not recommend EVER asking an SP "Hey, did you shower after your last client?" as it's right up there with asking her "Hey you don't have any STIs, do you, because if I get one my wife will know!" or "So since I paid for 2 hours this time, can I get a discount on one hour next time?" AFTER you have had a session with her!
One great advantage for me with prebooking dates is that I can prepare from the skin outwards EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I go through lots of towels, bath salts, and bodywash; I take a shower before each and every client, and with the lucky ones! I also take a bath daily.
Thank you, myboy: when One is expecting that One's devotees will cover One head to toe in worshipful kisses and licks, it behooves One to be fresh!
yeah... i love it when they ask, in all earnestness , "you are drug and disease free,right?"
i ask do you seriously expect a girl to answer with anything other than the positive? " oh yeah sorry babe, i presently have the clap and herpes....oh and crabs ....but im self -medicating with cocaine so its all good....what time shall i expect you?"
I am assuming that it is expected to be clean and showered but I am bringing this up as recently I saw someone who I think was not showered or she booked back to back as I could still smell sweat. I agree that seeing someone in morning is a good option. I do not agree with Erica to compare it with asking for a discount. I think as the sp's write on their websites that clean clients I am assuming some people might not be clean. For me it's a big issue personally I am not sure why it is not appropriate to ask? I am pretty sure Erica you are fresh and clean but I was talking about someone who is not well reviewed or you are not sure. If you find the other person not showered will it be impolite her to ask to take a shower? Cherise I know you are fresh and showered from my past experience with you.
if i recall correctly,we both had a nice candlelit bubblebath together
thats the best way to ensure everybody is fresh, that and stick with low volume nproviders!
perhaps in future you couldsay something like " oh my....i think you are wearing a scent that im allergic to ....would you mind if we jumped in the shower real quick?"
I think Erica just meant most SPs would find it rude if you outright asked, "Did you shower after your last client?" I would find it rude.
I think many would also find it rude if asked to shower when you arrived, I know if I just took a shower (as I always do right before a client arrives) and you didn't believe me I would be a little bit offended.
As to your question, no, not all SPs shower between every client. There is a whole world of SPs out there from streetwalkers to those who work in massage parlours, brothels and agencies, to independent providers and every variation, price point and frequency/volume of work. If you are seeing independent ladies who tend to prefer longer appointments, appear to see a small number of clients, pay close attention to detail, etc then you are more likely to find them freshly and thoroughly showered than SPs who work in a situation where they see a high volume of clients and may not even have enough time to fully bathe in between (like a busy brothel).
If you want to be certain, ask if you can have a shower together. You could ask this when booking the appointment.
In Ms Erica's world, both questions are equally rude. However, I agree that if you find a provider's hygiene lacking when you arrive, ask if you can shower together. I always appreciate a gentlemen asking if he can shower when he arrives!
Violet is correct that there are SPs whose circumstances are not as ideal as others and don't have the luxury of time (or choice!) about whether they bathe between clients too...though I don't think that's what mounty was asking about!
Yes! I think you've hit on the head Miss Melody, and all of those scenarios could be at fault!
That is I was wondering if someone is sweaty due to any reason can you ask them to take a shower. Maybe it is good option to ask before for a shower on arrival. I think Erica did not understand my question or maybe I did not explain what I meant. I just wanted to know suppose even if I took a shower and I am sweaty or smelly or what ever I do not get offended if someone ask me to shower when I arrive as that tells me that person likes clean and fresh clients which is good sign for me. So I was just wondering is it okay to ask a sp something like some other sp's suggested that maybe we can have a quick shower. Sometimes when you see some one for the first time you do not know how the other person will react. What I can conclude do not ask directly just ask if we can share the shower or I am allergic to perfumes something on these lines. I think I got my answers but I do not like how some sp's just assumed what I meant and get offended. If I as a client do not get offended even if I am freshly showered and would take another just because the other person might feel better why is that sp's should get offended or take a shower at clients request what is the big deal. Or is it just the ego of that person that I just took a shower how could he ask me that question? I would rather not see that sp who get offended by a reasonable request of a client or get offended. That's just me.
Thanks for your suggestions.
Thanks for your suggestions.
Rule of thumb:
Even if I have showered within 30 minutes of arrival at a SP's incall, I always shower regardless to ensure they are confident that I am squeaky clean.
I always have 100% confidence that the SP's that I see are always freshly groomed. I can count on one hand the number of times I thought otherwise and I poon a lot.
Never ask the question "have you showered since your last client". Your date will go rapidly downhill from that point on.
If you find your SP is not to your liking cleanliness wise, move on or if you feel so motivated start a review thread.
That's 'fight or flight' sweat; adrenal glands go into overdrive and the resultant change in your endocrine system causes that. It's also what causes that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach when you are nervous. I have a really strong fight or flight response now when I see a large off leash dog that is unfamiliar to me heading for me and Willie (a bite through the palm of the hand will do that!!!) If it happens, and when I get an exceptionally strong response; well, that's an EXTRA shower that day, and a clean t-shirt too!
Seems like a no brainer that if this is some sort of anxiety you have you can just present it in a positive way by saying ahead of time you have a shower fetish and you want to start your session there. Then you can spend the opening moments getting each other as clean as you like.
100% agree! :nod:
Nothing gets my attention more than some slippery fun in an accompanied shower.
Surprisingly a few are agreeing to joining me these days while the hair and makeup were the two issues SP's had with showering with me.
