In reality it is a me, me thing. Me, I want to get my rocks off, preferably cheap and dirty. You want to get my rocks off as quick and clean as possible. The problem comes when you start to actually enjoy and appreciate the other person as a person, rather then part of a business transaction. This is where susi and her efforts can be interesting, get the "pooners" and the ladies involved in something positive that relates to the industry. There's a number of the ladies I'd love to meet and just hang with, but I have to respect they work and they have their own friends, so do I. But when you get together for the common good you never know who you'll meet and connect with.