What do you guys do for a living to afford this?

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Fortunately I'm independantly wealthy. You see, a number of years ago my parents and I were walking home from the theatre and we were robbed in an alley. Tragically both my parents were killed. I inherited eveything. My wealth allows me to patrol the streets at night in order to bring criminals to justice.
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westwoody

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I was never wealthy when younger. I even got wiped out completely by a dishonest business partner.
But played the long game. It takes years. So be patient. Now I can do anything I want and have everything I want. Just don’t be impulsive and think five or ten years down the road.
 
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Men are territorial bulls by nature. They can’t handle this. Maybe at first it seems tolerable and you feel special cuz the rest have to pay and aren’t getting the intimacy level you are with her and you manage relatively drama free for a period of time but once real feelings develop everything changes like you won’t fully understand how difficult it becomes and how emotionally painful it’ll be for you until you’re actually at that point
 
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Even if she leaves the industry you’ll go through times of being suspicious wondering / thinking she’s still seeing her clients or she’s fucking other guys for fun
 

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Even if she leaves the industry you’ll go through times of being suspicious wondering / thinking she’s still seeing her clients or she’s fucking other guys for fun
The moment you get suspicious is the time to end it. If you can't trust someone implicitly then you don't have the basis for any kind of relationship.

More often than not, your suspicions are based on facts that some people may just not want to acknowledge at the time. I learned that any time I go "I wonder what she's up to" there's a reason for it. Typically it was either that she was losing interest or she was starting to get interested in someone else.

Less 'Batman' and more Spidey-senses.
 
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masterpoonhunter

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Men are territorial bulls by nature. They can’t handle this. Maybe at first it seems tolerable and you feel special cuz the rest have to pay and aren’t getting the intimacy level you are with her and you manage relatively drama free for a period of time but once real feelings develop everything changes like you won’t fully understand how difficult it becomes and how emotionally painful it’ll be for you until you’re actually at that point
Very well put Ms H.
If a guy who has been around the horn a few times claims he CAN handle it, that guy is one delusional fucker.
It will be the case that once you have that "SHES THE ONE" thing and it all goes to hell in a hand basket, well working, working out, sleeping, drinking you name it, just does not get that woman out of your head.
Time is the only thing that really works.
That and another smokin hot gal that wants to fuck your brains out.
 
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Kurtis2015

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If everyone could truly tell you what they do and how much do they earn, I do not think it will be any helpful at all for the following reasons:
1. Yearly gross earning will not tell you taxes, T4 or Incorporated, commissions, financial commitments, other living expenses and hobbies. It is meaningless number alone without whole picture.
2. Even if you have all information about how much a person earns without knowing what they own, you do not know how flexible they are with expenses. A person can earn $250k and another one can be retired. Which one is better?
3. Even if you know all of the above, it is also important what stage of life people are right now. Are they just started two years ago, or working 30 years. It is a big difference.
4. And most difficult part is it is almost impossible to replicate because some people started their carriers, businesses, real estate and financial investments 30 years ago. You need Time Machine to go back and do the same. It is because today is different world than it was 30 years ago. Some things doesn't make sense to start anymore.

Regarding building a business with an escort, I do not think it is wise idea for the several reasons:
1. You do not want a girl you see to know all about you, your finances etc.
2. You do not want any random people in your business you are building.
3. You do not want to be with a person 24/7. This kills attraction in a big way.
4. Escorts sell you a fantasy. If you start hung out with them all the time you will start learning who they truly are. She may look cute during 1 hour session, but can turn to a grumpy bitch at best...

I also skeptical about building relationships with an escort. If you like seeing a girl just continue to see her. Why would you want to complicate things? You have to appreciate they have other clients and most importantly a different life outside of sex trade.

That's my two cents...
 
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For me I can def afford it but its not like im living paycheque to paycheque but its more of can i really justify it.

I think we all been there where we had post nut clarity where we think "mannn did i really just pay for that" especially if the service wasn't that great." Thats why if i feel like im gonna be spending alot of money certain months

I make sure i get a release out before i make any decisions. The amount of time that saved me money you wouldn't believe
 

Bang4thebuck

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You can say "all women are hypergamous".
I see way more women with losers below their league than the opposite. Unfortunately, women are taught to accept less, pick up the slack for a man, extend grace, not be too picky, and be tolerant and forgiving, which shitty men take advantage of all the time.
 
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Kurtis2015

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I see way more women with losers below their league than the opposite. Unfortunately, women are taught to accept less, pick up the slack for a man, extend grace, not be too picky, and be tolerant and forgiving, which shitty men take advantage of all the time.
You are obsolutely correct 100%.
What else can they do after not appreciating what they had and chasing out good men from their life?
Who else can they blame?
 

anonzoldyck

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I think majority of people doing this lobby are not super well of to begin with. Yes, of course, maybe some are retired, sold a business, inheritance, etc. and have extra money to burn but those guys are rare.

Most guys, I believe, are cutting their budget just to afford this lifestyle consistently. Also, most girls don’t care what you do as long as you keep coming.

I got started and I was able to get this lifestyle due to my business (apart from my career/work). My business allowed me to travel and essentially pay for my hobby. I have moved away from this to focus on my career and other hobbies.

Longterm is to fully quit and retire to focus on other hobbies. If you’re looking ahead, not to disrespect anyone, but a future with an SP is highly risky.
 

anonzoldyck

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For me I can def afford it but its not like im living paycheque to paycheque but its more of can i really justify it.

I think we all been there where we had post nut clarity where we think "mannn did i really just pay for that" especially if the service wasn't that great." Thats why if i feel like im gonna be spending alot of money certain months
Exactly my position, make decent money with basically no expenses. I can afford it but should I? The risk to reward is not worth it anymore, service has gone downhill unfortunately. I can see 3-4 girls this month or just travel/do other hobbies for much cheaper.

Casino and trading this year has been more entertaining than this lifestyle tbh. If I wanted to be fucked, I’ll just chose the 2😂
 

Kurtis2015

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I think majority of people doing this lobby are not super well of to begin with. Yes, of course, maybe some are retired, sold a business, inheritance, etc. and have extra money to burn but those guys are rare.

Most guys, I believe, are cutting their budget just to afford this lifestyle consistently. Also, most girls don’t care what you do as long as you keep coming.

I got started and I was able to get this lifestyle due to my business (apart from my career/work). My business allowed me to travel and essentially pay for my hobby. I have moved away from this to focus on my career and other hobbies.

Longterm is to fully quit and retire to focus on other hobbies. If you’re looking ahead, not to disrespect anyone, but a future with an SP is highly risky.
The same here. I have a side hustle which earns more than my main job.
 

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I'd like to find a side job that is kind of a hobby, but also funds this hobby. Straight cash would make it even better. Even better if it was located near a number of AMPs.

My knee might have a different opinion.
 
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