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Makes her 10 times more attractive? Confidence.
Less attractive: Arrogance.

It's a fine line.

Eye contact - 100%.

It’s the one action that reveals the SP is present and from there the possibilities are many and much. It doesn’t matter how perfect the boobs (butt, hair makeup, perfume), if we’re not engaged, what’s the point. The looks are what gets me thru the door; the chemistry is what keeps me coming back. And that all starts with being present.

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VinVan said:

The looks are what gets me thru the door; the chemistry is what keeps me coming back. And that all starts with being present.

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This is 100% true.

For me it's the package that makes up a good GFE. I've always said that the best SP's are some of the worlds greatest actors, so a smile, eye contact, and and little things like holding my hand get me way more turned on than her looks alone.

Bonus answer #1 re a mood killer: A messy, shabby or sketchy incall. No matter how beautiful an SP is, feeling uncomfortable or unsafe is a boner killer.
Bonus answer #2: Put down the damn phone!! Unless someone is calling with a genuine emergency our date should be the focus.

The feeling that she’s being “real and in the moment”, not the routine - yes baby, fuck me baby, you’re so big baby customer script

Announcing her orgasm....her pleasure and hearing it is my trigger ...

Communications, a common interest or hobby.

One of my favorite ladies to see normally is a master of the tease. She's extremely vocal about how much she will tease me, and when things go into hyperdrive, her moans and dirty talk put me right into the danger zone.

Someone who is a generally happy / positive person ( not just an act ),
plus emotional intelligence.

I’d say both are a tie for me ,

Both are also deal breakers for me .
If one is missing I’m out and will never return .

But the higher in either or both someone is .
All the more often I am likely to return .

How about a smirk and a wink that says "you are in for a treat".

I might have the oddest answer here.

Biggest turn-on that has absolutely nothing to do with looks? Trivia.

It sounds ridiculously cheesy, but if I'm watching Jeopardy! or at a trivia night with a significant other and she casually answers some obscure question that nobody else knows... BAM. It's like I'm watching porn.

The funny thing is, it doesn't work if someone just says, "Hey, here's a random fact." That feels like they read it 30 seconds ago. But when a question comes up naturally in a group conversation and they just know the answer? That's my kryptonite.

The good news is it doesn't work in reverse. Not knowing trivia isn't a turn-off at all.

On the downside, any date with me probably ends up getting interrogated with random LOTR questions while I'm trying to maintain my composure.

Since trivia isn't exactly hobby-related, I'll give a couple of answers from that side of things too.

First, when someone undoes my belt. I feel like that one is pretty self-explanatory. Hands in that area, clear intent, instant jump from 0 to 100.

Second, anything related to running. I've gotten into running over the last few years and genuinely enjoy having conversations while jogging. Spotting a pair of Asics or a Garmin watch is enough to make me want to go for a run with someone, chat for a few kilometers, and maybe enjoy a post-run shower afterward.

Bonus question: biggest mood killer?

I might earn the ire of some of the lovely ladies here, but over-the-knee boots.

I have absolutely no idea why. My brain just decided at some point that boots above the knee are a hard "nope." Plenty of people love them, but for me they're an instant mood killer. I can't explain it any better than that.

Engagement. Present. Is she engaged? Present? Two recent ladies come to mind: the dearly departed Ceci, and Angel Minami. Both were all in during the session(s). Eye contact is part of that. Plus, Ceci did something with her arm snaking around my nether regions during a soapy session in the shower.

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Cum hither smile does it for me.