Time for a change- A new approach

JKoltrain said:

You will see my posts more frequently until I find a provider that suits my needs now that I am a little older.

I have been seeing Lilly - Lilly James for over ten years and continued seeing her quite regularly. She has stayed consistent over the years and I appreciated that. However, with her decision to take her business in a different direction, expanding towards a more agency- style operation involving other women- duos, etc, I've decided to explore other options. The years together were fulfilling and I genuinely wish her success in her new en devours.

It's simply not the direction I'm looking for. I'm now seeking an independent provider who offers a more personal, one-on-one experience. Someone I can build a long term connection with, who can grow and evolve with my interests and needs without breaking the bank. These days I'm drawn to someone with a warmer, sweeter disposition- a woman who is sensual, confident, a little sultry and genuinely welcoming . Someone who can be confident and in control while having a softer, more personable side that makes the experience feel comfortable and natural.

I'm curious to hear from both clients and providers. Do you value consistency and familiarity, or do you enjoy exploring new experiences? and how important is a ongoing personal connection when choosing a provider?

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JKoltrain said:

You will see my posts more frequently until I find a provider that suits my needs now that I am a little older.

I have been seeing Lilly - Lilly James for over ten years and continued seeing her quite regularly. She has stayed consistent over the years and I appreciated that. However, with her decision to take her business in a different direction, expanding towards a more agency- style operation involving other women- duos, etc, I've decided to explore other options. The years together were fulfilling and I genuinely wish her success in her new en devours.

It's simply not the direction I'm looking for. I'm now seeking an independent provider who offers a more personal, one-on-one experience. Someone I can build a long term connection with, who can grow and evolve with my interests and needs without breaking the bank. These days I'm drawn to someone with a warmer, sweeter disposition- a woman who is sensual, confident, a little sultry and genuinely welcoming . Someone who can be confident and in control while having a softer, more personable side that makes the experience feel comfortable and natural.

I'm curious to hear from both clients and providers. Do you value consistency and familiarity, or do you enjoy exploring new experiences? and how important is a ongoing personal connection when choosing a provider?

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SenMassage said:

To Jkoltrain…….
Hi there, Cass here. You’re the same guy that bashed me! We are onto you. We don’t deserve your criticism. Your words mean nothing. The other providers and I know who you are and we don’t want your business. You’re rude and disrespectful. You’re only digging yourself a hole and no one wants to see you. That’s on you! We are a step ahead of you. Even the guys on here are sticking up for us. So bash all you want. We know our value and you are set too low for our standards now. Warning to all providers and escorts, this guy will bash you. Be careful! Cass

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JKoltrain said:

Bigbobsmiley:

It wasn't really a rant, just a contribution to the other discussions taking place about what other people look for in a provider. I was simply sharing my own experience and perspective. Just because something has worked well for someone for a few years doesn't mean their interests or preferences can't change.

One detail I left out was that booking a one-on-one appointment had become increasingly difficult, while duos and trios seemed to be more readily available. I'm simply not interested in a group setting, nor should I have to book one to enjoy an experience. She did recommend a provider I could try because she was busy, which I took as a suggestion to explore other options. so that's exactly what I decided to do. I didn't want to get into detail and yeah this isn't a debate.

I was reasonable to explore other providers and experiences, even after long standing relationships. No disrespect or criticism was intended. I wish Lilly continued success in her business and leave it at that.

And every provider should have a bigbobsmiley protecting them Both of you came down harshly on me, and it was uncalled for.

question - did anyone else read my message as slander?
I guess one has to be careful what they post here, as forum politics seem to come into play. I was simply sharing a personal experience and perspective, not inviting people to come down on me for having a different opinion, on this forum or my inbox. It's unfortunate that a respectful discussion has to turn into something more than it was ever intended to be. I thought the whole purpose of these discussions was to encourage people to openly share their experiences, preferences and opinions. We are supposed to be setting an example that make others feel comfortable contributing, not discouraging them because their opinion differs from someone else's.
When respectful posts are met with defensive or critical responses, people will stop sharing. That defeats the entire purpose of having a open forum in the first place.

Unfortunately, the way this discussion unfolded has now closed the door on any possibility of my returning as a client, which is a shame I tipped generously.
Cheers!

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