Are any of the sugar baby sites legit
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Honestly I just want a site or something where I can meet a hot girl or a girl I find attractive and be FWB with them long term and fuck them frequently so I can stop spending on SP😅 for example if a girl that looks like stormi aka trinity from XDS my life is fulfilled
If you are a decent looking guy, young ish, and know how to communicate then an app like Pure or Feeld is your best bet to find FWB.
Lots of guys on here, myself included, decided/learned some time ago that paying for it is the only way we're going be having sex with attractive younger women.
Yep. If they ask $ for just a simple public meet like coffee, dinner or movies? Move! 100% they’re gonna ask for $ everytime you hang out even without doing the deed plus you shoulder all expenses already. Got luck enough that the 2 I had before, not at the same time were nice a has a good vibe. As long as you shoulder the expenses when you hang out, all cool. You wanna be naughty after? Now you gonna pay for what we agreed. Right now, it’s hard to find those. Talked to someone before and wanting to get paid for a weekly thing just to talk to her. And most of the ones I talk right now as well want $ for everything without doing the deed or online only. So gave up to that aspect now. If I wanna get laid, I’ll just go here
50 or 60 year old guys? I'm sure there are hundreds. A woman who is anywhere close to attractive will be spoiled for choice. I'd say any guy on a hookup site had better have something unique or exceptional going for him, or he'll be disappointed.
"Arrangements", "FWB", etc. all assume you have as much to give as the female does, with your shortcomings in looks and ability compensated for by bankroll. Or finding the Unicorn hot body that likes broke old chubby guys (we can dream)
I am reminded of the old saw, "You don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay a hooker to leave after sex". Maybe it's just me, but the ability to have a set budget for a guaranteed desired encounter, with a definitive parting at the end where a repeat is 100% at your discretion, and then on to the next high quality, guaranteed encounter sounds idyllic. With a near unlimited menu of age, looks, ethnicity, and level of performance available with the only mitigating factor being money, I'm sorry, why are we trying to re-invent the perfect wheel?
Putting the work into recruiting and maintaining a sugarbaby or a FWB seems as hard as an actual relationship, but with added expense and reduced commitment. If you are putting that effort in anyways, get a girlfriend/wife.
Otherwise, smorgasbord!!!
I am reminded of the old saw, "You don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay a hooker to leave after sex". Maybe it's just me, but the ability to have a set budget for a guaranteed desired encounter, with a definitive parting at the end where a repeat is 100% at your discretion, and then on to the next high quality, guaranteed encounter sounds idyllic. With a near unlimited menu of age, looks, ethnicity, and level of performance available with the only mitigating factor being money, I'm sorry, why are we trying to re-invent the perfect wheel?
Putting the work into recruiting and maintaining a sugarbaby or a FWB seems as hard as an actual relationship, but with added expense and reduced commitment. If you are putting that effort in anyways, get a girlfriend/wife.
Otherwise, smorgasbord!!!
Not sure they'd be on "Sugar Baby" sites... maybe on "Cougars" (probably not looking for old, fat guys), or "Our Time"
In my youth, I was grateful for the cougars, they appreciated the stamina of a 19yr old, but weren't afraid to give direction. Young me learned a lot that stays with me to today.
But old, fat me looks for the finer things now, a reverse Cougar I guess, and my occasional dalliance is reserved for an exotic and fit young thing, with that stamina of youth and pleasing to the eye and touch. And if I can use or pass on some of the teachings those Cougars imparted on me so many decades ago, all the better.
There are some women on the SD sites in that age range. Are they looking for men who are 70-80 years old?
Locally there are about 10 well known sex workers/scammers that have been around under various names on seeking. They just keep scamming and changing their names under a new account. I know one who has told friends she just picks guys to rob figuring they won't report her because paying for sex is illegal
I’m sure there are, lol. Whether or not they are getting any action out of it is a bit of a different question.
Just make sure you read what they are putting in their profiles carefully. Words like mutually beneficial, companionship and affection are good. Platonic support, non-physical, mentorship and other indications of something for nothing are red flags. Lots of the entitlement you see on social media shows up on sugar dating sites in spades. They want an expensive dinner and a handbag and feel that just their platonic attention is your reward. If they don't want to talk about getting physical, block and move on.
