As a middle class guy, how often do you go for sessions?

Resilient · Sep 27, 2026

Just to preface this, I currently have a middle class income in a high cost of living city. I'm definitely not a rich guy who dabbles in the super high end babes or does sessions for 7 days in a row. I've done 3 days in a row as my personal high.

Just curious in terms of budgeting and need for physical satisfaction, but how often do you guys go for these physical release visits?

For me it's hard to put a regular timeline on it. I've gone years without but then I go a few times per month on occasions. I'm just curious what a good long term schedule is. I wonder what it would be like to schedule visits, even though I might not strongly feel the urge, but just to go anyway to give myself more life balance. Rather then going when arousal or stress get to me and urge me to seek that relief and release.

MikeHawk696 · Sep 28, 2026

Resilient said:
Just to preface this, I currently have a middle class income in a high cost of living city. I'm definitely not a rich guy who dabbles in the super high end babes or does sessions for 7 days in a row. I've done 3 days in a row as my personal high.

Just curious in terms of budgetting and need for physical satisfaction, but how often do you guys go for these physical release visits?

For me it's hard to put a regular timeline on it. I've gone years without but then I go a few times per month on occasions. I'm just curious what a good long term schedule is. I wonder what it would be like to schedule visits, even though I might not strongly feel the urge, but just to go anyway to give myself more life balance. Rather then going when arousal or stress get to me and urge me to seek that relief and release.

well WAS for me, 3 times mininum monthly, with my last SP...

next month might be less to none 💔

Resilient · Sep 28, 2026

MikeHawk696 said:
well WAS for me, 3 times mininum monthly, with my last SP...

next month might be less to none 💔

Thanks for sharing man. Ya to be able to get in 3 sessions per month would definitely be nice, but probably out of range for myself. I guess it would be something I could afford, but just really cut into savings goals. I can definitely see how some months you'd go more than others depending on the availability of what's out there. There are times I really want to go but I'm searching for someone that isn't too risky/sketchy or someone I'm strongly excited to see.

Once you go black · Sep 28, 2026

Honestly , around 6-12 times per yr . Honestly it’s a number that’s easy for me to maintain . I’d rather practice restraint and save for when I’m really longing for the touch of a highly seductive woman , than go up and down . I prefer consistency.

I’m fairly predictable in that I know certain things are going to set my libido off ,
Plus it’s nice to have something to look fwrd to since sometimes life sucks .

In both cases when those things happen I’m thankful to have the wonderful ladies I do on speed dial .

Not saying I wouldn’t love to do it a bit more but I do know for sure that there would be a point that ( like anything in life ) where it wouldn’t be as much fun anymore if I over did it
( speaking only for myself here , I just know myself and my personality ) .

For me spreading it out makes it that much more exciting when I do indulge .

Also I’ve never personally been one to go back to one person several times in a row ( no matter how great it was ) ,
I prefer to spread myself around between a small handful of regulars ,
Bouncing around from one to another. For me it’s the perfect mix of novelty and comfort .

Pumped · Sep 28, 2026

3 - 5 times a month on average. The breakdown follows (or skip it):

March, July and August I had five sessions each month; in January I had 4 sessions, and with the exception of February (only 1 session), every other month this year I had 3 sessions per month.

Six of those sessions were 'one and done' -- I didn't repeat with the provider. Usually -- unfortunately -- because they were no longer available.

Five ladies I did a repeat with (so 2 sessions each).

One SP I repeated with 3 times; another was 5 times; another was 6 times and my fave was 7 times.

So 15 different providers, 35 different sessions since January. (the math is a little off because of some duos)

The majority of those were 90 minute sessions.

Once you go black · Sep 28, 2026

Pumped said:
January I had 4 sessions, and with the exception of February (only 1 session)

I find Jan & Feb to be the least sexy months and find it so Ironic Valentines is in Feb .
March or April ( spring and all that ) would have been much better choices in my opinion.

MikeHawk696 · Sep 28, 2026

Once you go black said:
I find Jan & Feb to be the least sexy months and find it so Ironic Valentines is in Feb .
March or April ( spring and all that ) would have been much better choices in my opinion.

yes i disagree february is a good month, birthday month 😁

all jokes aside but valentine day, a fuck hell no. we blue collar workers don't get a stat-payday on the 14th. also don't we all celebrate valentine day's everyday in one form or another? 🤔

i guess the transitional months between season are the best as you pointed out.

realsocialdad · Sep 28, 2026

Previously I was lucky to do 2-3 a month but now, I'm in a better position where I can do 6-7 a month. On average, I'd say it's a minimum of 4 now. Keeping in mind, I only do 45 min sessions and have never done a duo/pay for extras.

Resilient · Sep 28, 2026

realsocialdad said:
Previously I was lucky to do 2-3 a month but now, I'm in a better position where I can do 6-7 a month. On average, I'd say it's a minimum of 4 now. Keeping in mind, I only do 45 min sessions and have never done a duo/pay for extras.

Nice to hear your financial situation has improved. Ya I hope to be in a similar situation in the coming years where my budget for sessions can double.

Tsubame · Sep 29, 2026

Once or twice a week would be ideal for me. Finacially speaking, it's more like every 2 months or so.

poppyboi · Sep 29, 2026

what's considered middle class?

MikeHawk696 · Sep 29, 2026

poppyboi said:
what's considered middle class?

i'm gonna shoot my guess, 45k to 65k yearly after taxes...

poppyboi · Sep 29, 2026

Dayum 50k is middle class? Lowkey feel like you shouldn't be hobbying at 50k but idk.

westwoody · Sep 29, 2026

Anyone in the middle class has to be very careful with this, it is very easy to get infatuated or habituated with the quick dopamine rush.
Do NOT do it as a hobby. Only do it if you really want to, if you see someone who looks awesome and has great reviews. Especially if you have a low risk tolerance.

MikeyLikey99 · Sep 29, 2026

I see myself as middle class. Looking back since I started doing this a few years ago, I average once a month. I almost always go Indy, and prefer 90 min sessions (so I can pop twice). In the last year, I’ve tried agencies a few times and had more hour sessions. That’s easier on the wallet so my average is creeping up a bit. I’d prefer 3-4 times a month, but as someone noted above, that might take some of the thrill away.

Resilient · Sep 29, 2026

westwoody said:
Anyone in the middle class has to be very careful with this, it is very easy to get infatuated or habituated with the quick dopamine rush.
Do NOT do it as a hobby. Only do it if you really want to, if you see someone who looks awesome and has great reviews. Especially if you have a low risk tolerance.

I agree with this. I'm at the point where I could go only when the mood strikes, but also contemplating a schedule that isn't super frequent. I know some guys here are posting reviews that cost $1k and over for a session and 3 ways and stuff like that, which is all out of my range. I think there is still plenty of good experiences out there without dabbling in that stuff. I'm also totally fine with not paying extra for things like greek or filming.

Tsubame · Oct 2, 2026

I am lucky/unlucky that I don't live in Japan anymore. During the afternoon you can pay $60CDN for a BJ at an average shop, or $30CDN at a budget shop. $100 FS at a sketchy shop.

A guy could fall in to the habit of going almost every day.

Resilient · Oct 2, 2026

Tsubame said:
I am lucky/unlucky that I don't live in Japan anymore. During the afternoon you can pay $60CDN for a BJ at an average shop, or $30CDN at a budget shop. $100 FS at a sketchy shop.

A guy could fall in to the habit of going almost every day.

This sounds like an absolute dream come true!

I'm possibly planning my first trip ever there in the near future. Something like this might be on the agenda. As well as trying to meet some kawaii civiilian women as well if that's possible.

Once you go black · Oct 2, 2026

Tsubame said:
I am lucky/unlucky that I don't live in Japan anymore. During the afternoon you can pay $60CDN for a BJ at an average shop, or $30CDN at a budget shop. $100 FS at a sketchy shop.

A guy could fall in to the habit of going almost every day.

I always thought this hobby in Japan was super expensive

Once you go black · Oct 2, 2026

Resilient said:
This sounds like an absolute dream come true!

I'm possibly planning my first trip ever there in the near future. Something like this might be on the agenda. As well as trying to meet some kawaii civiilian women as well if that's possible.

Japanese woman will be very challenging , Japanese culture tends to be a bit nationalistic and they tend to stick w other Japanese ,
Plus most are not promiscuous unless there is a chance of it leading to something real .

there are however a very small group of Japanese woman ( like 2-5 % of the population ) that have fetishes for foreigners .
There are specific places they hang out to pick up non Japanese guys .
They are generally not well liked by other Japanese woman and definitely not Japanese men .

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