As a middle class guy, how often do you go for sessions?

Resilient said:

Just to preface this, I currently have a middle class income in a high cost of living city. I'm definitely not a rich guy who dabbles in the super high end babes or does sessions for 7 days in a row. I've done 3 days in a row as my personal high.

Just curious in terms of budgetting and need for physical satisfaction, but how often do you guys go for these physical release visits?

For me it's hard to put a regular timeline on it. I've gone years without but then I go a few times per month on occasions. I'm just curious what a good long term schedule is. I wonder what it would be like to schedule visits, even though I might not strongly feel the urge, but just to go anyway to give myself more life balance. Rather then going when arousal or stress get to me and urge me to seek that relief and release.

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well WAS for me, 3 times mininum monthly, with my last SP...

next month might be less to none 💔

Honestly , around 6-12 times per yr . Honestly it’s a number that’s easy for me to maintain . I’d rather practice restraint and save for when I’m really longing for the touch of a highly seductive woman , than go up and down . I prefer consistency.

I’m fairly predictable in that I know certain things are going to set my libido off ,
Plus it’s nice to have something to look fwrd to since sometimes life sucks .

In both cases when those things happen I’m thankful to have the wonderful ladies I do on speed dial .

Not saying I wouldn’t love to do it a bit more but I do know for sure that there would be a point that ( like anything in life ) where it wouldn’t be as much fun anymore if I over did it
( speaking only for myself here , I just know myself and my personality ) .

For me spreading it out makes it that much more exciting when I do indulge .

Also I’ve never personally been one to go back to one person several times in a row ( no matter how great it was ) ,
I prefer to spread myself around between a small handful of regulars ,
Bouncing around from one to another. For me it’s the perfect mix of novelty and comfort .

3 - 5 times a month on average. The breakdown follows (or skip it):

March, July and August I had five sessions each month; in January I had 4 sessions, and with the exception of February (only 1 session), every other month this year I had 3 sessions per month.

Six of those sessions were 'one and done' -- I didn't repeat with the provider. Usually -- unfortunately -- because they were no longer available.

Five ladies I did a repeat with (so 2 sessions each).

One SP I repeated with 3 times; another was 5 times; another was 6 times and my fave was 7 times.

So 15 different providers, 35 different sessions since January. (the math is a little off because of some duos)

The majority of those were 90 minute sessions.

Pumped said:

January I had 4 sessions, and with the exception of February (only 1 session)

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I find Jan & Feb to be the least sexy months and find it so Ironic Valentines is in Feb .
March or April ( spring and all that ) would have been much better choices in my opinion.

Once you go black said:

I find Jan & Feb to be the least sexy months and find it so Ironic Valentines is in Feb .
March or April ( spring and all that ) would have been much better choices in my opinion.

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yes i disagree february is a good month, birthday month 😁

all jokes aside but valentine day, a fuck hell no. we blue collar workers don't get a stat-payday on the 14th. also don't we all celebrate valentine day's everyday in one form or another? 🤔

i guess the transitional months between season are the best as you pointed out.

Previously I was lucky to do 2-3 a month but now, I'm in a better position where I can do 6-7 a month. On average, I'd say it's a minimum of 4 now. Keeping in mind, I only do 45 min sessions and have never done a duo/pay for extras.