Sexual Health, Testing & Risk Reduction - Some Thoughts & Resources

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JenniferVale

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The recent conversation about sexual health and testing prompted me to put some thoughts and resources together on my website.

I've added a new JOURNAL POST looking at recent BCCDC surveillance data for Vancouver Island, regular testing, risk reduction, stigma, and why open conversations around sexual health matter.

For my own peace of mind and the protection of myself and others, I test monthly. My approach to sexual-health safety has evolved as I've learned more, and I think being informed and proactive is important for everyone.

I've also put together a Sexual Health Resources page with information on testing options including confidential/anonymized options and other useful resources.

I'm mindful of PERB's specific moderator reminder regarding discussion of STIs on the open board, so I'm intentionally not getting into the details here. The full discussion and BCCDC information are on my website for anyone who would like to read further. Additional provincial data and information on other STIs are available through the BCCDC surveillance report. I found their table is easy to look at ln a desktop but not ideal on my phone.

One thing I will say here: I don't believe shame helps anyone. Stigma can discourage people from seeking information and taking care of their sexual health. Being informed and proactive benefits all of us.

Ignorance isn't bliss. Information gives us something we can actually act on.
 
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I don’t think the mods will object to this kind of STI discussion, it’s good information and helpful to all.

Thanks for your efforts :)

Threads that deteriorate into unfounded accusations and misinformation are not helpful or welcome.
 
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Thank you. That was exactly my intention. This topic affects everyone and I think quality information and open, respectful conversation help us make better decisions and add layers of safety.

There's definitely a difference between sharing useful info and discussions that turn into accusations and dumpster fires. I appreciate you recognising the distinction.




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I don’t think the mods will object to this kind of STI discussion, it’s good information and helpful to all.

Thanks for your efforts :)

Threads that deteriorate into unfounded accusations and misinformation are not helpful or welcome.
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JenniferVale said:
The recent conversation about sexual health and testing prompted me to put some thoughts and resources together on my website.

I've added a new JOURNAL POST looking at recent BCCDC surveillance data for Vancouver Island, regular testing, risk reduction, stigma, and why open conversations around sexual health matter.

For my own peace of mind and the protection of myself and others, I test monthly. My approach to sexual-health safety has evolved as I've learned more, and I think being informed and proactive is important for everyone.

I've also put together a Sexual Health Resources page with information on testing options including confidential/anonymized options and other useful resources.

I'm mindful of PERB's specific moderator reminder regarding discussion of STIs on the open board, so I'm intentionally not getting into the details here. The full discussion and BCCDC information are on my website for anyone who would like to read further. Additional provincial data and information on other STIs are available through the BCCDC surveillance report. I found their table is easy to look at ln a desktop but not ideal on my phone.

One thing I will say here: I don't believe shame helps anyone. Stigma can discourage people from seeking information and taking care of their sexual health. Being informed and proactive benefits all of us.

Ignorance isn't bliss. Information gives us something we can actually act on.
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Here is my problem. My wife can access my medical reports and she would be very curious as to why i am testing for STI's. Knowledge is important but too much knowledge can lead to divorce
 
JenniferVale

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Whatever your personal circumstance, I wouldn't let concern about someone seeing a test prevent you from getting tested. Your health and the health of everyone you're intimate with is more important.

You can get anonymous testing done that's not attached to your PHN. Public Health, Get Checked Online and most other resources give the option of anonymous testing. Treatment is also available anonymously.

I created this resource page for Vancouver Island but off Island, there are other, local options.

HERE is the resource page.

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Here is my problem. My wife can access my medical reports and she would be very curious as to why i am testing for STI's. Knowledge is important but too much knowledge can lead to divorce
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