Is there a demand for play parties/orgies in Vancouver?

Autumn-desilva · Sunday at 9:24 PM

Hello, Everyone

I'm Autumn Desilva a hedonistic sensual babe from Toronto. I throw play parties in Toronto, and play parties are always happening and very popular in the city. However I don't really see Vancouver as having the same drive for group action. Am I incorrect? Or are the events more quiet on the West coast?

darkestnight · Sunday at 10:46 PM

Hi there, I wouldn’t say there is no drive, Vancouver is more closed off city. Atleast in my knowledge play parties do happen, but those are very private, strictly invite only with quite extensive screening. As a stag it is really hard for someone to get in unless you are invited by a couple. I would there is a demand, it’s not easily accessible.

PS: if you are hosting one, I definitely would be interested.

Autumn-desilva · Tuesday at 2:25 PM

darkestnight said:
Hi there, I wouldn’t say there is no drive, Vancouver is more closed off city. Atleast in my knowledge play parties do happen, but those are very private, strictly invite only with quite extensive screening. As a stag it is really hard for someone to get in unless you are invited by a couple. I would there is a demand, it’s not easily accessible.

PS: if you are hosting one, I definitely would be interested.

That is very interested. I've been invited in my civilian life to a couple of events in Vancouver. They explained the application process and told me they'd help with any references. I plan on visiting them once I land in Vancouver. However that seemed more like a swinger vibe. I usually cater to men who want discreet fun.

trick08 · Tuesday at 3:01 PM

Autumn-desilva said:
That is very interested. I've been invited in my civilian life to a couple of events in Vancouver. They explained the application process and told me they'd help with any references. I plan on visiting them once I land in Vancouver. However that seemed more like a swinger vibe. I usually cater to men who want discreet fun.

Group events are great. Hope you can get a few going here in Vancouver!

justheref0rfun · Tuesday at 5:38 PM

Also have had opportunities to join in the past but was not confident enough. Though recently I am attempting to go to one as a solo male, but I'm like 90% sure I'm not likely to get through the vetting process aha~ Would be interested in finding out as well cause I've been looking to explore more openly.

Autumn-desilva · Tuesday at 6:41 PM

trick08 said:
Group events are great. Hope you can get a few going here in Vancouver!

Only if there's a demand. It has to make sense

Autumn-desilva · Tuesday at 6:43 PM

justheref0rfun said:
Also have had opportunities to join in the past but was not confident enough. Though recently I am attempting to go to one as a solo male, but I'm like 90% sure I'm not likely to get through the vetting process aha~ Would be interested in finding out as well cause I've been looking to explore more openly.

You should travel and hobby in Toronto. It's very open and a lot variety. Also no one will know you there, it might help with the nervousness.

Pgup · Wednesday at 12:42 PM

Autumn-desilva said:
You should travel and hobby in Toronto. It's very open and a lot variety. Also no one will know you there, it might help with the nervousness.

How to find these sex parties in Toronto?

justheref0rfun · Wednesday at 4:30 PM

Autumn-desilva said:
You should travel and hobby in Toronto. It's very open and a lot variety. Also no one will know you there, it might help with the nervousness.

Au contraire, I grew up in Toronto, so I would actually be closer to family and potential acquaintances

But no worries, I'll keep an eye out. Its a big city after all.

Autumn-desilva · Thursday at 5:40 PM

Pgup said:
How to find these sex parties in Toronto?

You can typically find them in the 'special events' forum on terb, merb, and perb.

Also following the ladies on bluesky who host and advertise. Other social media

dcoaches · 2026-07-10T10:22:10-0700

Thanks for thinking of us @Autumn-desilva

It does seem to be quite closed off to private invite only events in vancouver compared to other cities i've lived in and those seem to be swinger events primarily from what i've heard about.

Autumn-desilva · 2026-07-10T10:47:57-0700

dcoaches said:
Thanks for thinking of us @Autumn-desilva It does seem to be quite closed off to private invite only events in vancouver compared to other cities i've lived in and those seem to be swinger events primarily from what i've heard about.

Yeah that's the vibe and feedback I'm getting. It's a very different culture in Vancouver compared to Toronto. Toronto is definitely a lot more open minded and optimistic. Oh well 💓. I've been invited to a couple swinger events and exclusive parties in Vancouver.

dcoaches · 2026-07-10T10:53:45-0700

Autumn-desilva said:
Yeah that's the vibe and feedback I'm getting. It's a very different culture in Vancouver compared to Toronto. Toronto is definitely a lot more open minded and optimistic. Oh well 💓. I've been invited to a couple swinger events and exclusive parties in Vancouver.

Maybe I will have to visit Toronto then

Yep understandably the invites are more forthcoming to hot ladies to those kind of events.. Well I hope you enjoy those. Let me know if you need a +1 lol.

moonglider658 · 2026-07-10T15:07:35-0700

The events out here are definitely a lot more closed off. I think like myself, many people would love getting into group events, but it's difficult getting started while remaining discrete.

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